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Thread: Fall in love to a client?
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05-02-2010 #11
It's too bad that you fell in love and didn't want to, but I would never TRY not to fall in love(!)
Be thankful you're still familiar with that emotion!! IMO you probably are crushing on him/infatuated, not really 'in love', but hey, I don't really know the details of the situation.
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05-02-2010 #12
Tough call... I'd advise against it, but what do you do about love? I've had to rationalize love away myself a couple of times when it wasn't a good idea and it won't make you happy.
You sound like a lovely girl and you're beautiful, so the guy gets a good deal. Whatever you do, choose what'll make you happy long term, not for a short while.
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05-02-2010 #13
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lucky guy
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05-02-2010 #14
Just tell him you're going to quit charging him and I bet he will want to sleep with you all you want.
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05-02-2010 #15
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One way or another, you probably need to stop seeing him as a client. But, no one ever takes my advice.
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05-02-2010 #16
Well let me ask you this? Do you want to stop seeing him as a client? If you get into a relationship with him would he be understanding that you would still want to escort (do you?)? If he is not wanting you to be an escort, are you willing to give that up? And finally last but not least, what does your heart tell you?
No one can really tell you what to do in these things, everyone's situation is a unique one, only you really have all the facts, even if you don't think you do, so my only *advice* is, sit on it for a little while before deciding, do what feels right to you not to anyone else, but give it time, there is no rushing life
If you need anyone to talk to, or just an ear to listen, hit me up on skype or yahoo darlin.
Hope this helps hun,
Ben
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05-02-2010 #17
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"Once a trick always a trick", as they say. Best to avoid getting tangled with a client.
It's funny you should mention this problem, because it "halfway" happened to me with a TG escort, but I wouldn't say we were in love -- more like a combination of mutual lust, friendship, and empathy. Love is something much deeper in my opinion. Anyway, I still know her after 6 years and we see each other occasionally but not as often as before. And, yes, I still give her money. Well, she needs the money. Interesting girl, somewhat under the radar, and with very mixed feelings about the biz.
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05-02-2010 #18
Now you know how we feel when we fall for a 'working girl'. :/ Good luck, however you decide to follow your heart. Just be careful, as broken hearts don't patch well.
"In times of universal deceit, telling the truth will be a revolutionary act." - George Orwell
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05-02-2010 #19
i think ive mett him before he looks familiar
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05-02-2010 #20
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If you are still charging him then it probably isn't love but a deep lust and you really like him a lot, and he just does it for you in many ways. You are very beautiful and it seems successful at what you are doing. So, if there was one guy who was the exception to the rule, who was special to you in ways that are outside the normall client/provider relationship,,you would not charge him but rather take that time to feel special and get your needs met. It woudln't take away from the many other clients you have but it might open up the door for other possibilities that you are obviously thinking and fantasing about.
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