Most Top guys are good looking while powerbottoms are not that pleasant looking?

[serial138]

I think even us "young, attractive" guys like to bottom, just some are scared to admit it. It feels too "gay" when we do or some such nonsense. As you get older, you get more comfortable with your sexuality and sex in general.

And lets face it, as we get older, we usually aren't in as good of shape or don't take care of ourselves as we should. I'm sure there are plenty of out of shape tops out there too.

[yosi]

Alyssa my dear

with a top guy , you see less of him because he is mostly behind you , that's why you probably think tops look better

[fred41]

LOL...This isn't directed at anyone in particular (mostly) but...I hope this site is around for many, many years..so that one day some of the younger posters on here have spent a significant time out in the real world..and look back at some of their old posts..and realized how some of their preconceived notions about people and things were completely wrong (and sometimes based on either immaturity..or the need to stroke their own insecure egos)...and sometimes made them sound a little bit stupid, even though they didn't think so at the time.

[BrendaQG]

yes thats what im thinking also is it because as guys get older their testosterone level decreases?

I think so. Men of a certain age are more willing to just take it how I want to give it to them. Either topping them, or "on top" straddling them like a GG.

Younger men have a idea of what they want when they come over. A heavyset construction worker or gangbanger can be very aggressive in bed. With lots of muscle just under a bit of fat.

IMO the best clients for me were older men who are fit, experienced, know what they want, have no issues to get over.

[NYBURBS]

LOL...This isn't directed at anyone in particular (mostly) but...I hope this site is around for many, many years..so that one day some of the younger posters on here have spent a significant time out in the real world..and look back at some of their old posts..and realized how some of their preconceived notions about people and things were completely wrong (and sometimes based on either immaturity..or the need to stroke their own insecure egos)...and sometimes made them sound a little bit stupid, even though they didn't think so at the time.

Agreed bro and well said

[MrF]

Well, I think it's an interesting observation (the original post). I don't quite understand why a guy who wants to bottom would hire a TG. If you want dick, why not hire a studly young M4M ? Come to think of it, you can easily find M4M for free if you are at least marginally attractive. But the M4M market is much smaller than the T4M market. I've never quite understood why, but my guess is that being with a TG is, for some guys, like fulfilling a "gay" fantasy without being outright gay. Something like that -- not sure. (????)

As for me, I've never bottomed and have no interest in doing so.

I am curious to know, though, how a TG escort can perform as a top with an unattractive client ? I mean, how do you get it up ? I guess it's a job and you get used to it. Maybe Viagra or something too.

[fred41]

Well, I think it's an interesting observation (the original post). I don't quite understand why a guy who wants to bottom would hire a TG. If you want dick, why not hire a studly young M4M ? Come to think of it, you can easily find M4M for free if you are at least marginally attractive. But the M4M market is much smaller than the T4M market. I've never quite understood why, but my guess is that being with a TG is, for some guys, like fulfilling a "gay" fantasy without being outright gay. Something like that -- not sure. (????)

As for me, I've never bottomed and have no interest in doing so.

I am curious to know, though, how a TG escort can perform as a top with an unattractive client ? I mean, how do you get it up ? I guess it's a job and you get used to it. Maybe Viagra or something too.

As to the first part of your question..I guess the same thing could be asked of a top: Why hire a TS if all you want to do is top...you could just be with a GG for free..or if you need Greek and can't find a GG that will do that for you..there are plenty of GG escorts that specialize in it.

[MrF]

^ Fair point. I guess it gets into the question of why we like TG to begin with; each may have different reasons. And I'm sure it's been discussed on this forum somewhere.

[alyssats]

I think even us "young, attractive" guys like to bottom, just some are scared to admit it. It feels too "gay" when we do or some such nonsense. As you get older, you get more comfortable with your sexuality and sex in general.

And lets face it, as we get older, we usually aren't in as good of shape or don't take care of ourselves as we should. I'm sure there are plenty of out of shape tops out there too.

thanks for the input

like i said "most" not "all"

[alyssats]

I think so. Men of a certain age are more willing to just take it how I want to give it to them. Either topping them, or "on top" straddling them like a GG.

Younger men have a idea of what they want when they come over. A heavyset construction worker or gangbanger can be very aggressive in bed. With lots of muscle just under a bit of fat.

IMO the best clients for me were older men who are fit, experienced, know what they want, have no issues to get over.

i like that too