Ladies ONLY: Do you think about settling down and getting married?

[Nicole Dupre]

Marriage is a world full of compromise...if people can't compromise then they shouldn't get married. I know that sounds relatively simple..(and easy to accomplish)..but for those of you that have never tried this..it's not as easy as it sounds.

I have to say that the best relationships I've had with guys were also the most complicated and unpredictable, and there was a certain amount of friendly friction (oh, get your minds out of the gutter!) between us at some point. I guess I'm a "Bad Romance" kinda girl to some degree.

[Nicole Dupre]

Most of the guys around here need to learn how to be a successful BF before they tackle 'til death do us part'.

Myself included(!)

Thank you. Exactly.

[giovanni_hotel]

Nah, Nicole, life brings enough stress and unpredicatibility into one's home already.
If I'm going to bed next to my significant other every night, I like dealing with some 'knowns'. We don't have to be the carbon copies, but emotionally, we have to be coming from a similar place.

I can handle those aspects of someone else's personality that make them unique and different, ( especially if we're sexually compatible!!), but beneath skin and bone, they have to be recognizable to me, if that makes sense.

[Nicole Dupre]

It makes sense, I think. Actually, I like dealing with a lot of knowns. When I say unpredictable, I don't mean emotionally. The romantic chemistry you have with someone is something you should be able to take for granted. It should be there in bed, in the kitchen, in the car, etc. It's not just sex. It's laughing at the same jokes, knowing when someone needs a hug, being genuinely supportive of one another, etc. If those things don't happen naturally, something is wrong.

[TsVanessa69]

If a man can't stay faithful to a female, why would we want to go through that after all we already go thru in life.
If men didnt cheat on woman, then the escort business would be dead.

[Nicole Dupre]

Too true. lol

[onmyknees]

It makes sense, I think. Actually, I like dealing with a lot of knowns. When I say unpredictable, I don't mean emotionally. The romantic chemistry you have with someone is something you should be able to take for granted. It should be there in bed, in the kitchen, in the car, etc. It's not just sex. It's laughing at the same jokes, knowing when someone needs a hug, being genuinely supportive of one another, etc. If those things don't happen naturally, something is wrong.

Great way to describe it Nicole. To me it all begins and ends with passion. Passion when you fight, passion when you fuck, passion when you make up...when the passion fades, everything else will inevitably follow.

I'm still blown away if we're out riding and raising hell...pussy everywhere..and a guy will say he can't wait to get home to his wife of 20 years and make love to her. That's so uncommon and so desirable. Good for him....and her........but they're luckier than most !!

[SXFX]

lol so true

Well that's not what you told me!

[alyssats]

If a man can't stay faithful to a female, why would we want to go through that after all we already go thru in life.
If men didnt cheat on woman, then the escort business would be dead.

so true lol

[Gurlpilot]

Actually I think a lot of us T-girls have thoughts of finding "Mr Right" and getting married or at least a nice LTR. The trouble is finding guys that are looking for that, but are also ok with t-girls. It can happen. I have a post-op friend that just got engaged.