TOP 10 REASON A CHASER SHOULD NOT RENT AN ESCORT! BY INDY~

[IndyCloset]

This all seems too easy.

I really dont understand the need to even start this thread but whatever... I guess Indi figured some adults hadnt figured it out but its probably just a larger need to vent because there are some providers that treat their clients like utter crap which is a shitty thing to do regardless of whether its a "escort" client or any other form of "Client" Tax Return, House Painter, ect... whatever qualifies for "Client."

So I dont even completely disagree with everything Indi said but it was axe to grind way he said it and the question of if it really needed to be stated at all that probably pissed off most of us girls which is why I waited till I could offer a better response without an emotional attachment to what was initially said. I can see he tempered his statements a little to not be all inclusive or an utter bitch fest and flame magnet but it wasnt exactly nice either.

GUYS:
If you dont want to pay for an Escort or you think she's too expensive?

Dont hire one.

I think most guys have figured out how to jack off with out needing Indi's advice by the time they ready to hire an escort. Now I could be wrong about this since I cant possibly know everyone so if any guys havent figured out how to play with themselves it sounds like he's got a good grasp of how to do it so seek him out for advice on that subject. LOL


GIRLS:
If you cant stand your clients and think they are the lowest form of life walking on two legs?

Ill say what I would say to anyone who hates their job, Do something else, there is no reason to be that unhappy with what you do.

...SIMPLE

I dont like mushrooms on my pizza so I dont order them or ask them to leave them off but I wouldnt bitch about it being on the menu or what they cost.

If I was a pizza maker and couldnt stand all these customers with their special orders for one thing or another, Id find some place other than a pizza shop to work at rather than let it eat me up to the point I was shitty to everyone who called for an order.

If you want to be treated with honor and respect, treat others that way.

If they dont return it, walk away.
Their lack of it does not change a single thing about who you are.

This isnt exactly rocket science here is it?

Okay here's thing......Why is it that the notoriously wild Mimi Plasique can let this thread slide off her back and keep it in stride and yet you've got others who read this thread and catch an instant hissy fit?

Was this ment to be a "bash" thread?

Did I call anyone out?

What it is is that some these people here are to use to posting reckless shit unchallenged. And the funny thing is the name calling didn't start until they felt backed into a corner...

This is not the new 10 commandments...but I will stand by my thread never the less. Whether there's one detractor or a hundred...

Thanks for your replies.....

[Nicole Dupre]

GIRLS:
If you cant stand your clients and think they are the lowest form of life walking on two legs?

Ill say what I would say to anyone who hates their job, Do something else, there is no reason to be that unhappy with what you do.

...SIMPLE

I dont like mushrooms on my pizza so I dont order them or ask them to leave them off but I wouldnt bitch about it being on the menu or what they cost.

If I was a pizza maker and couldnt stand all these customers with their special orders for one thing or another, Id find some place other than a pizza shop to work at rather than let it eat me up to the point I was shitty to everyone who called for an order.

If you want to be treated with honor and respect, treat others that way.

If they dont return it, walk away.
Their lack of it does not change a single thing about who you are.

This isnt exactly rocket science here is it?

Honestly, I've yet to meet a girl who's made a blanket statement like "I can't stand my clients".

Clients, like people in general, are all pretty unique. Some who seem like dreams come true, and some definitely do not. Some that seemed great the first half dozen times will often jump the shark on the 7th visit. It simply can't be helped.

But one thing's for certain. No one twisted any of their arms, or forced them to visit a working girl. They obviously had a fantasy and a hard dick, and took it from there. "Don't hate the playa, hate the game."

If the basic premise is so rough on their egos or wallets, they have their options. As Susi said, you'll pay one way or another. If they want us on their terms, they can become our sugardaddys. We pay all kinds of prices to give these lustful bastards what they want. All women do. That's just their tough shit if they get hit with part of the bill. So, guys; shake your heads, take a deep breath, and then dig until it hurts. It's not our problem.

Hell, if they want to be that damn miserable, and want their money to go so much further, let them buy a Fleshlight or a dildo. Personally, I don't want anyone begrudgingly giving me a donation anyway. Who the hell would? In fact, if I exceeded their expectations, I want a fucking tip! Cheap motherfuckers like the OP is making himself out to be are immature and offensive. It's the same mentality that would allow their mom to do their laundry. Peter Pan complex motherfuckers are all the same. They want left over spending money for their toys. I know how they think. But if they want "quick, easy, and inexpensive" when it comes to satisfying their physical needs, get used to Mickey D's. Let them buy their clothes at a damn garage sale. It's not my goddamn issue.

But I somehow doubt the OP is married. If he was, he's know that the biggest reason for guys to see us is discretion. They have families they want to give quality time to. We're a luxury for them. They're not eternal bachelors who can afford to spend their time playing the odds in a bar or a chat room. Guys with money to burn, who can't afford a scandal, are our best customers. But guys who never made a commitment to a woman are big kids who never grow up. They need to stroke their own egos when they notice Father Time started tapping his foot.

Bottom Line. I don't want a playa as a client. If a playa gets my curiosity and libido going enough, I'll try him out with no donation involved. I'm not hard up for money or sex.

[TempestTS]

Okay here's thing......Why is it that the notoriously wild Mimi Plasique can let this thread slide off her back and keep it in stride and yet you've got others who read this thread and catch an instant hissy fit?

Was this ment to be a "bash" thread?

Did I call anyone out?

What it is is that some these people here are to use to posting reckless shit unchallenged. And the funny thing is the name calling didn't start until they felt backed into a corner...

This is not the new 10 commandments...but I will stand by my thread never the less. Whether there's one detractor or a hundred...

Thanks for your replies.....

Your initial post straddles a few things and was not a direct attack but it was more than questions or musings.

Why did some ignore this and others throw a hissy fit? Thats easy, the thread start post is borderline confrontational in parts and you made it easy for working girls to take it bit too personal, I actually noted you tried adding a disclaimer that kind of toned things down by saying most sex workers youve know were actually pretty good people... perhaps you knew you would draw fire from some of the tone of other sections that may have hit an emotional nerve with some girls.

Was it meant to be a bash thread. I actually dont think you did but the way you put things it was possible to read it that way so I really dont know.

So you tell me, was this meant as a bash thread to sex workers?

You didnt call anyone out by name but anyone who was / is / has friends who are escorts might have felt a generalized direction at them. So yes, you kinda did but once again only "Kinda"

So in short, no you didnt hit the hornets nest with a stick, but you climbed up in that tree and shook a few branches so you gotta expect a few to fly out and take a run at you. Im trying to be as neutral as I can but what did you seriously expect?

Really its hard to come across on a post like this with exactly what you intended. Hell its hard to post anything and not say something that is taken wrong or stick your foot in your own mouth... and as if by fate let me use myself as an example. And with a little luck Ill be able to extract my foot from my own mouth even if it means eating a few words of my own.

Nicole Dupre
PostPosted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 12:35 am

Honestly, I've yet to meet a girl who's made a blanket statement like "I can't stand my clients".

Your right of course, sorry - I generalized too much

Ive heard girls make staments like that and much worse when a client has bugged the living crap out of them in some way... but just like anyone who has a job might bitch about it from time to time and not "really" mean it completely after a rotten day at work and say all kinds of shit. Its just a form of venting.

My intent was if any girl finds themselves, angry, upset, or otherwise needing to vent in a hostile manner more often than not or carrying some of that forward and letting it spill on others that have nothing to do with the real reason...well then something needs to change for the better, but if its only occasional its just because its work like anything else and I dont think that anyone has a job that hasnt had a crappy day or two worthy of bitching about.

Bitching about your job every now and then just means its still work.

[TsVanessa69]

Okay here's thing......Why is it that the notoriously wild Mimi Plasique can let this thread slide off her back and keep it in stride and yet you've got others who read this thread and catch an instant hissy fit?

Was this ment to be a "bash" thread?

Did I call anyone out?

What it is is that some these people here are to use to posting reckless shit unchallenged. And the funny thing is the name calling didn't start until they felt backed into a corner...

This is not the new 10 commandments...but I will stand by my thread never the less. Whether there's one detractor or a hundred...

Thanks for your replies.....

Your initial post straddles a few things and was not a direct attack but it was more than questions or musings.

Why did some ignore this and others throw a hissy fit? Thats easy, the thread start post is borderline confrontational in parts and you made it easy for working girls to take it bit too personal, I actually noted you tried adding a disclaimer that kind of toned things down by saying most sex workers youve know were actually pretty good people... perhaps you knew you would draw fire from some of the tone of other sections that may have hit an emotional nerve with some girls.

Was it meant to be a bash thread. I actually dont think you did but the way you put things it was possible to read it that way so I really dont know.

So you tell me, was this meant as a bash thread to sex workers?

You didnt call anyone out by name but anyone who was / is / has friends who are escorts might have felt a generalized direction at them. So yes, you kinda did but once again only "Kinda"

So in short, no you didnt hit the hornets nest with a stick, but you climbed up in that tree and shook a few branches so you gotta expect a few to fly out and take a run at you. Im trying to be as neutral as I can but what did you seriously expect?

Really its hard to come across on a post like this with exactly what you intended. Hell its hard to post anything and not say something that is taken wrong or stick your foot in your own mouth... and as if by fate let me use myself as an example. And with a little luck Ill be able to extract my foot from my own mouth even if it means eating a few words of my own.

Nicole Dupre
PostPosted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 12:35 am

Honestly, I've yet to meet a girl who's made a blanket statement like "I can't stand my clients".

Your right of course, sorry - I generalized too much

Ive heard girls make staments like that and much worse when a client has bugged the living crap out of them in some way... but just like anyone who has a job might bitch about it from time to time and not "really" mean it completely after a rotten day at work and say all kinds of shit. Its just a form of venting.

My intent was if any girl finds themselves, angry, upset, or otherwise needing to vent in a hostile manner more often than not or carrying some of that forward and letting it spill on others that have nothing to do with the real reason...well then something needs to change for the better, but if its only occasional its just because its work like anything else and I dont think that anyone has a job that hasnt had a crappy day or two worthy of bitching about.

Bitching about your job every now and then just means its still work.

I love this gal!!
But yea I just had to call out BULLSHIT!
Guys who deal with ts on a personal level, non-escort don't make bitchass threads like this.
Guys who want to play, know they have to pay, and can afford to play, don't make these kinds of threads either.
How does that go again??
IT AIN'T TRIKKIN IF YOU GOT IT!!!
I find that those who make these types of posts are the sour grapes of the bunch!
Yes I am an escort, but on the flip side, I am human and a woman.
I do live outside the ts label as a woman, and I deal with and date straight men that I like and we all good.
Seems like somebody needs to fix their looks, personality or have some game.
Then there would be NOO reason to post this type of bullshit!!
Do i give a fuck?/
Nah!
I still get paid, and my papi's are always there to handle the rest.
Oh yea I can pay my bills, and I live alone.
At this point in my life my papis are there for my emotional and sexual pleasures.
When they don't please me anymore, they are replaced!