TS WHO WANTS CHILDREN

[TsJANIRA]

Aww ,,lol thx u sweety,


Honestly, if I had been born with the " Equipment "...to give birth I would of love that chance to encounter giving birth to a little life.....

I never really thought of donating my sperm . Adopting would most definite be a route I would go, Just for the reason of giving a baby or a child the love and attention is has lacked and making he or she know that they weren't abandon , but chosen by the right person to give them what they have always wanted.......UNCONDITIONAL LOVE !!!

[texastanite]

Yea i was thinking about adoption not knowing how hard it would be to do that. It would def. be later on in life but time go by so fast, its always good to plan for later. So tell me if you had a husband would you still consider adoption or would the sergant thing come into play

[TsJANIRA]

Honestly I would go at it alone... Why? "What if things don't work out with me and their father after we adopted",, It would be too painful, and I have seen plenty of single parents who go at it and do a amazing job at being a parent and yet there is no second parent in the picture. Sure , it's easier and less confusing for the child , but to subject a child through all the heartache of splitting up , and the whole separation song and dance,, it'll be too much for the poor child, coming from parents who are divorced and seeing all the hell it caused, i would not.. & cannot endure that pain onto a child .

[whatsupwithat]

Lol this thread went to shit , its was a shitty thread to start with , I was just bored

I thought it was great thread and something I think about all the time. I would love to see the day when it wouldn't be a problem for myself and my partner to adopt. Of course, I'd have to find the right partner first, but it's a dream I'd love to make a reality some day.

[speedking59]

Soccer Mom, nothing wrong with that, Im sure we all have a little Desperate Housewife in us somewhere, lol.

I know my detractors will smugly scoff at this statement, but I have strong maternal instincts. I'd be an excellent mom.

i'd have children with you. you would be a fierce mother.

[Wordzy]

get a dog, they're alot more fun!

[loveless]

My battleplan:

Become a guide dogs puppy walker for a couple of years to get some training in how to look after dogs (and help out the guide dogs ofc.)

Then get my own dog

Then, pending pressure from a future g/f, kids happen. Ideally adoption after the point when they're babies. I'm not a fan of babies.