Cant pass

[Jericho]

whats the op?

Opening post, or Original poster.

In this case, opening post.
So, what's the ulterior motive?

[mons147]

lol to be happy and content

[alyssats]

just for me do what you feel and think that is good for you. be happy in life

boy or girl youre beautiful Mons147

by the way a big percentage of TS admirer/chasers are actually guys who want to be a TS girl also. Also a big percentage are CDs. Most of my clients even they dont tell me i could easily feel if they want to be a TS girl also or they are closet CDs. Even in this site i know so many guys who want to be a TS girl and are closet CDs they just dont open up

[indeed]

Every guy who wants to know knows who the ts in the room is. The guys that look at TS's as real females and are in denial about it dont.

Its always been weird to me that a guy wants his ts to be ultra passable. Why not just go after a real female.

If they say they like TS cock they cant say they arent gay. For me, I date real girls, and mess around with TS's on the side. There is a difference. a big one

[Nicole Dupre]

There is a difference. a big one

A big one in your asshole?

[SarahG]

by the way a big percentage of TS admirer/chasers are actually guys who want to be a TS girl also. Also a big percentage are CDs.

Yea, definitely. It seems there are a LOT of chasers out there who use trans porn as therapy of sorts in trying to deal with being trans themselves. Which is interesting considering how prolific it is for trans people to think "chasers are nasty predatory perverts."

I am actually starting to wonder if a lot of the chaser-bashing is just masked transphobia kind of like the radical feminists out there who will talk about empowering women to wear what they want to wear, but then get all pissed off as soon as they see women with shaved legs, or wearing skirts, or a corset (I've seen feminists debate whether a feminist can still be a feminist and wear a corset because they're "objectifying").

[SarahG]

i've been reading around the site at tons of different posts and i was wondering where some these guys get off criticizing certain woman who they claim "cant pass" and throwing remarks around of why they would even bother transitioning...

Criticizing can be fair, it depends on how it is done. There are guys out there who find breast implants a sexual turn off, it would be criticizing if a guy turned a girl down (gg or trans) for having breast implants by saying 'sorry, I don't date girls with implants.' But that's fair, if that's what he finds to be a turn off, that's just the way it goes. Expecting him to like girls with implants wouldn't be right, just as expecting all guys to like girls who can't pass wouldn't be right. Though hopefully most guys would know not to word it like "sorry I don't date girls with implants" when being hit on by a girl who has them. TACT is a good thing.

The problem is when someone goes the next step to using stuff like that to judge people's value as people. There is a difference between someone saying "I can't stand porn with girls who can't pass because its a turn off for me" and saying "people who can't pass are worthless and shouldn't have transitioned."

[bte]

by the way a big percentage of TS admirer/chasers are actually guys who want to be a TS girl also. Also a big percentage are CDs.

I know some of my friends that are into transsexual porn consider themselves to be a woman trapped in male's body. They do not transition due to scrunity [sic?] from family and friends.

Although one friend that I finally convince that she should do what is right is checking into FFS and hormones, so its a step in the right direction.