Advice Time

[saifan]

Trying to get a feel for what the right move is here. Quick story: Saw a girl as a client back in March and since that time we meet up in a non-business manner each time she is in town. She spent 2 days with me this past weekend before heading off for Thanksgiving.

I touch base with her today and she tells me she is coming back my way tomorrow before she heads back west. I say great, "I'll pick you up at the airport to save you the trouble of public transit and what not." She admits that it will be a pain but declines my offer. She says I am too far from the airport and have done enough for her in the past few months already.

Question: Do I disregard and show up at the airport anyway?

[saifan]

Anyone?

[Jericho]

Question: Do I disregard and show up at the airport anyway?

Not a good idea.
She could well be meeting somone there.

[saifan]

Question: Do I disregard and show up at the airport anyway?

Not a good idea.
She could well be meeting somone there.

Good point. But why would she even bother telling me that she is coming back? I pretty much pick her up all the time.

[Jericho]

Question: Do I disregard and show up at the airport anyway?

Not a good idea.
She could well be meeting somone there.

Good point. But why would she even bother telling me that she is coming back? I pretty much pick her up all the time.

Dunno.
Polite way of blowing you off without burning bridges?
Who knows.

Either way, if she's said no and you turn up anyway, it's probably not going to end well.

[rockabilly]

Maybe she really wants you to pick her up. :

Do what feels right bro. And let it play out naturally.

[saifan]

Question: Do I disregard and show up at the airport anyway?

Not a good idea.
She could well be meeting somone there.

Good point. But why would she even bother telling me that she is coming back? I pretty much pick her up all the time.

Dunno.
Polite way of blowing you off without burning bridges?
Who knows.

Either way, if she's said no and you turn up anyway, it's probably not going to end well.

All good points. Guess I'm sleeping in tomorrow.
Thanks.

[MRSJHANIAHLOVE]

umm she might want the dick when shes settled in... but has a paying client picking her up, OR she has a different freebie picking her up and wants to save you for when shes all fresh and not looking or smelling like shes been traveling. lol