Guys that don't suck dick and girls who hate their dick..

[gilly1112]

Yes... I notice guys who explicitly seek me out because I am trans tend to be obsessed with trying to give me a BJ compared to guys who happened to meet me and found out.

Do the guys who happen to just meet you still suck your cock sometimes?

[MsDazzler]

Nope, they don't.

[LovinThaTSLadiez]

I suck dick! YAY!!!!

[NoahNomad]

I knew my tg girlfriend before she transitioned. We were good friends when I asked her to be my girlfriend, and early on in her transition --- two years later we are engaged. Bottom line is, we were friends, we dated, and she will be my wife soon SO to me, it would be crazy to have a part of her body that I was unwilling to touch, to lick, to kiss.

It takes time to gain trust and comfort with some tg women, especially if they are more dysphoric about their penis. For me, I use all female terminology with my girlfriend (and any other woman, ts or gg) and I do what feels right in the moment. I don't go down often but when I do it's simply because I want to please her in the most complete way and I want her to be able to completely let go and not feel any kind of insecurity about it. I think for a straight guy it can be difficult to find yourself comfortable enough to go down without any weird feelings, but when you are in a relationship it is much different and much more natural.

With that being said, I have only dated one tg woman (my girlfriend), and I was not searching for tg women to date at the time that we got together. If I happened to hook up with a tg woman outside of a relationship, I wouldn't be going down on her...because I wouldn't care enough to want to please her orally, if we could just fuck. I think TG women looking for straight men have to examine if a man is going down to please himself, or to please her.

[wiltthestilt]

I suck dick! YAY!!!!

[garypeters123]

If a pro advertises herself as a bottom, does that mean she doesn't like having her dick sucked?

[NoahNomad]

No, it means that she does not top. Plenty of girls only bottom but enjoy oral, or at least tolerate it from a paying client.

[fivekatz]

Bring a sex partner to orgasm to me is key part of having sex, other masterbation would be fine, after all I know just what touch, when and how really gets me off.

So mutual enjoyment is the key to having sex with another, if either or both partners aren't into pleasuring each other they should have a less physical relationship. OTOH if one of the two sucks at sucking maybe the partner should spend the time coaching the other because a good partner does want to bring joy to other after all, even in casual sex.

[Rusty Eldora]

OK for sex I am very oral and really love giving and receiving oral from my partner. Intimacy is giving your partner the most enjoyment possible and they to you. If as a couple there are things that are enjoyed and things that are not, they can be worked out. However, if there is an imbalance in what is sexually desired that is the start of the abyss that can break the couple apart.

Nearly all people, but particularly women, are self conscious about things with their body. Our media drives into women daily that a Size 4 dress is big, breasts should be D's, faces perfect, nice clothes, the correct purse, and so on. Much less of this happens to guys. We can all improve, but nearly all women are beautiful, in particular if they have inner beauty.

I can see TS women having a dilemma with their stick. SRS is expensive, and the results are not certain. Having an intimate partner make the best of what she has is probably the best course.

[flabbybody]

Yes... I notice guys who explicitly seek me out because I am trans tend to be obsessed with trying to give me a BJ compared to guys who happened to meet me and found out.

Ok so lets say a guy seeks you out specifically cuz you're trans and he wants to blow you and you let him. and lets say his technique is flawless, (wet deep throat fucking, no teeth)..... would you let yourself enjoy it and get into it or basically be creeped out and want him to just finish ?