Does anyone here actually have a TS girlfriend?

[archineer]

I'd add that i've met quite a few older guys who spent most of their lives married to genetic girls, and slept with ts' on the side. All the time they really prefered ts' but they couldn't handle the stigma. Now they regret their decision and moan they've wasted their lives with the wrong women. They're old now and no one wants them. I wonder how many of the guys here are like this?

[simon13]

thank you for your nice comment Angelina

[archineer]

Oh please your all full of bullshit you don't want to date anyone all you want is to fuck and chuck.

Wrong. I'm so tired of meaningless sex. But if a guy said he wanted to date you, I bet you'd run a mile.

[Stoked]

Dan and Simon, has either of your girlfriends been in porn?

And you talk about marrying them, why are you waiting?

[simon13]

no she has never been in porn and we are getting married next year around june 25th we hope,
didnt know i had to invite you to it as well

[SarahG]

I think a lot of the guys who do the LTR thing with trans girls don't post on boards like these as often.

[rockabilly]

Oh please your all full of bullshit you don't want to date anyone all you want is to fuck and chuck.

That's a sad comment Ashley. You don't know my heart or what i truly want , when i first posted here i said i want a ltr and that has not changed.

[SarahG]

And you talk about marrying them, why are you waiting?

Because if you want the marriage to be legally recognized it has to be after the girl has 1- had SRS, 2- had all her papers changed. If the couple live in a state where that's not enough (Texas, Ohio, Tenn, etc.) they'd have to move to a more progressive state (NY, NJ, CA, etc.).

A trans girl and a guy could be married whenever they want, even while the girl is pre-op- if they're willing to put up with having a marriage that the government does not recognize. There are even some churches & preachers out there who would be willing to do a service like that. It would be basically like a common law marriage, only both people would have to file taxes separately, they would be unable to put each other under their health insurance, they would not be seen as a couple by customs when traveling abroad, and they could be forced to testify against each other in court.

There's a lot of paperwork involved without state recognition, like each having power of attorney over the other so that they can make medical decisions in case the other is hurt in an accident, living wills, overly technical estate wills, each doing HIPAA disclosure waivers with all their doctors, the girl would have to go through the name change process yet again to take the guy's last name.

Some non-trans straight couples do it this way as well. There are a few religious sects in the US who see it as a sin to use marriage licenses and thus live out their lives without state recognition.

But that's one of those "check local laws first" things, in a couple US states it is a felony to "pretend" to be married when you're not in the eyes of the state (aka no marriage license). A couple states define it as fraud. Why? Because that forces couples to go through the state, which ensures the state gets that marriage license fee (its always all about the money).

[pontgmc]

Have I ever dated one? Nope, but its because I don't specifically seek them out. I don't have a desire to go to the TS "parties" or anything like that with the hopes of meeting a TS girl. I like all women, and if the next one I happen to date is a TS than thats cool, but I'm not gonna be out just chasing transsexual women!

[archineer]

And you talk about marrying them, why are you waiting?

Because if you want the marriage to be legally recognized it has to be after the girl has 1- had SRS, 2- had all her papers changed. If the couple live in a state where that's not enough (Texas, Ohio, Tenn, etc.) they'd have to move to a more progressive state (NY, NJ, CA, etc.).

A trans girl and a guy could be married whenever they want, even while the girl is pre-op- if they're willing to put up with having a marriage that the government does not recognize. There are even some churches & preachers out there who would be willing to do a service like that. It would be basically like a common law marriage, only both people would have to file taxes separately, they would be unable to put each other under their health insurance, they would not be seen as a couple by customs when traveling abroad, and they could be forced to testify against each other in court.

There's a lot of paperwork involved without state recognition, like each having power of attorney over the other so that they can make medical decisions in case the other is hurt in an accident, living wills, overly technical estate wills, each doing HIPAA disclosure waivers with all their doctors, the girl would have to go through the name change process yet again to take the guy's last name.

Some non-trans straight couples do it this way as well. There are a few religious sects in the US who see it as a sin to use marriage licenses and thus live out their lives without state recognition.

But that's one of those "check local laws first" things, in a couple US states it is a felony to "pretend" to be married when you're not in the eyes of the state (aka no marriage license). A couple states define it as fraud. Why? Because that forces couples to go through the state, which ensures the state gets that marriage license fee (its always all about the money).

Thats so narrow minded. In the UK trans people can change their birth certificate and marry even if they haven't had, or have no intention of getting SRS.