Questions about sex....

[mac.B]

These are things that I really want to know. no jokes.


Pre op:What is the actual pleasure of being penetrated? How good does if usuallly feel, does it depend on the guy doing it? Does sixe matter and if so how much is enough?

Post op: What is orgasim like for you? What happens?

[peggygee]

These are things that I really want to know. no jokes.


Pre op:What is the actual pleasure of being penetrated? How good does if usuallly feel, does it depend on the guy doing it? Does sixe matter and if so how much is enough?

Post op: What is orgasim like for you? What happens?

Fascinating question, and one on which I could almost write a treatise,
as I have experienced so many types of orgasms.

Back when I was a pre op, and anal sex was the only type of sex that I
could engage in, it was fun and acceptable, most times pretty good,
particularly when he would hit my prostate gland, and did allow me to act
in a female capacity.

But psychologically it wasn't 100% fulfilling as I still had a penis, and that
was a soure of angst for me, and though i did enjoy sex quite a bit, having
a penis still kept inhibited me quite a bit.

As to my orgasms, pre orchiechtomy and pre GRS: physically they were
okay, but psychologically they were lacking as I previously stated.

When I had an orchiectomy, there were no more involuntary or early
morning erections thus no "sword fights" with my boyfriends. There
was also the ability to "have orgasms" multiple times, in a short period of
time, but no skeet, skeet", which was great.

Post op, things are as they should be: I have clitoral, vaginal, and G spot
orgasms, though of course not all at the same time.

What's the diiference you ask?

A clitoral orgasm is brought about by clitoral stimulation and a vaginal
one through vaginal penetration.

FYI, post op women do have G-spots.

This is due to a remnant of the prostate gland (long-term hormone
therapy causes it to atrophy and shrink) being left in place, and
providing sexual sensation through the anterior wall of the vagina,
analogous to the so-called G spot' of natal females.

Of the three types I would say that the clitoral one is the quickest, easiest,
and more intense of the three for me.

[rockabilly]

Hmm knowledge really is power ... and knowing is half the battle. Thanks Peggy.

[cookiepuss]

Thanks here as well Peggy. Very insightful!

[mac.B]

These are things that I really want to know. no jokes.


Pre op:What is the actual pleasure of being penetrated? How good does if usuallly feel, does it depend on the guy doing it? Does sixe matter and if so how much is enough?

Post op: What is orgasim like for you? What happens?

Fascinating question, and one on which I could almost write a treatise,
as I have experienced so many types of orgasms.

Back when I was a pre op, and anal sex was the only type of sex that I
could engage in, it was fun and acceptable, most times pretty good,
particularly when he would hit my prostate gland, and did allow me to act
in a female capacity.

But psychologically it wasn't 100% fulfilling as I still had a penis, and that
was a soure of angst for me, and though i did enjoy sex quite a bit, having
a penis still kept inhibited me quite a bit.

As to my orgasms, pre orchiechtomy and pre GRS: physically they were
okay, but psychologically they were lacking as I previously stated.

When I had an orchiectomy, there were no more involuntary or early
morning erections thus no "sword fights" with my boyfriends. There
was also the ability to "have orgasms" multiple times, in a short period of
time, but no skeet, skeet", which was great.

Post op, things are as they should be: I have clitoral, vaginal, and G spot
orgasms, though of course not all at the same time.

What's the diiference you ask?

A clitoral orgasm is brought about by clitoral stimulation and a vaginal
one through vaginal penetration.

FYI, post op women do have G-spots.

This is due to a remnant of the prostate gland (long-term hormone
therapy causes it to atrophy and shrink) being left in place, and
providing sexual sensation through the anterior wall of the vagina,
analogous to the so-called G spot' of natal females.

Of the three types I would say that the clitoral one is the quickest, easiest,
and more intense of the three for me.

Thats comforting to know. I kinda thaught that when ts' have sex with us that most of the pleasure was psycological and that most of the time that they were either in pain or kinda worn down to the point where they felt nothing at all. im still kinda confused about the multiple orgasims w/o the ejaculation tho. I experienced that before (not as a bottom) but I really enjoy orgasim the other way. How deep is the prostate gland tho, how big does the guy have to be and how long does he have to keep hitting it for you to get your orgasim?

in terms of the post op orgasims... what are they like really? how will i know that youve done it and does it depend on the guy? Is there a visual aspect of it like my orgasims and how intesnse are the usually?

[peggygee]

Hmm knowledge really is power ... and knowing is half the battle. Thanks Peggy.

Thanks here as well Peggy. Very insightful!

You're most welcome, and I thank you both for taking
the time to read it.

[peggygee]

Thats comforting to know. I kinda thaught that when ts' have sex with us that most of the pleasure was psycological and that most of the time that they were either in pain or kinda worn down to the point where they felt nothing at all. im still kinda confused about the multiple orgasims w/o the ejaculation tho. I experienced that before (not as a bottom) but I really enjoy orgasim the other way. How deep is the prostate gland tho, how big does the guy have to be and how long does he have to keep hitting it for you to get your orgasim?

in terms of the post op orgasims... what are they like really? how will i know that youve done it and does it depend on the guy? Is there a visual aspect of it like my orgasims and how intesnse are the usually?

I'm running late, headed to work, will get back to you ASAP.

[cuck999]

i got fucked last week for the firsy time by a very fem tg, the penetration was painful but not so bad, but, I really did not feel a thing. So my question is beside discunfurt what am I supposed to feel?