Post-op Tgals and Hygiene issues

[Bigguy]

i have been a post op for over 7 years and the novelty of being who i a has not worn off nor will it ever

I like post-ops as much as any other transsexual (or gg for that matter) I just think some of the guys who don't like it are more vocal about it.

i went for a diffrent procedure

I didn't know there was a different procedure. What is it and does that one entail?

Just curious if this isn't getting to personal for you, were you the type of gal that hated her penis before the surgery? I've talked to a few girls like this and they would never use their penis sexually in any way. Then there are some that have before surgery and I think it may give them a little insight of how a man may feel during sex.

oh by the way i just decided that if anyone ever comes over to me and says what a shame that i had my srs i dont care where i am im going to slap them across there face

I agreee with you 100% there, that is just stupid for anybody to think that way.

[BlackAdder]

Do you honestly think that theres are the only comments I base my opinion on???? Ive actually gone off this board(yes, it is possible) to research post-operative procedures, once I actually knew what they were...Ive ready plenty of case studies surfing around the net, about the ones that went wrong and the girls who get suicidally depressed and wished they could go back....

Can the attitude Dina, I was only saying what *I* would say if my SO suggested she wanted to go post-op.....

We dont give a fuck about what youve done with your life; Live it like you want....Just like I live mine

[nyc curious]

Could the awful smell be attributed to a smegma build up, or would this no longer be an issue after SRS?

Also a one question slightly off topic. After an SRS operation, is it still possible to have a prostate orgasm?

[Saintrose]

I think a nasty smelling pussy or that white stuff that comes out sometimes is about the grossest thing about women. I'm a huge fan of the female body.

I co-sign that statement !

When was in college ....went on a trip and we were staying at a marriot hotel. Went a few doors down to check on some girls in another room. Knocked on the door and as it opened the most vile repugnant stench hit me.
So the girl who answers the door sees the obvious distress on my face. She steps out into the hallway and explains...Turns out one of the girls wasn't maintaining herself...yeast infection I guess ?... and the entire room smelt like some type of dead fish. Needless to say I didn't enter their room that weekend !

[Saintrose]

I think a statement like "I'd be strongly opposed to my girlfriend wanting to go post-op" says volumes about you and little about how you're meant to care for the wellbeing, both physically and mentally of being with someone you love. If it's just the genitalia you're interested in....well let's not go there again, huh?
If a TS wants to go post-op, then most likely it's the end result of years of wanting it, saving money, going through hassles and finally becoming the person she's wanted to be - not for you, not to be a porn star but to be herself. Good for her.
seanchai

Very well said !!!

[Saintrose]

oh by the way i just decided that if anyone ever comes over to me and says what a shame that i had my srs i dont care where i am im going to slap them across there face
this is my life
im not living for others enjoyment or sexual fetishes im living for me
i may not have everything but i have self respect and thats all i feel i really need
im sorry if this is coming off strong but i feel there needed to be a voice on this issue that knows something about it
Dna Marie

Dina: Anyone that ignorant an insensitive probably isn't worth the energy to slap !

It definitely is a personal choice. As a man I can't imagine a day without my penis. No, it doesn't totally define me or my manhood but it is a part of me and who I am. Similarly I guess for some mtf transgenders their penis is no more than extra appendage or foreign object. Again having srs doesn't totally define who they are...but if it in anyway makes them feel more natural, comfortable and in tune with themselves then more power to them !

My gurl and I have discussed it and it seems as though..she is definitely leaning towards having srs. I've grown to really care for her as a human being....not for what is between her legs ! Regardless of her decision I'll support her 100%

[Dina Delicious]

BLACK ADDER
none of my comments were geared to you
they were statements on how I felt
so maybe the ine that need to can the attitutde is you
oh and by the way i would love some links to the case studies i would find that very interesting
and i dont give a fuck about how you live your life either

Dina Marie

[AllanahStarrNYC]

i hate it when guys on here and girls are always talking about depressed post ops- who kill themselves

well - since being in this community for about 12 years- all the post op women i know were extremely happy with their decision and not one has killed herslef. i only know one girl who died and it was an od- in those 12 years i have known far more pre ops who have dies from ods, suicide, aids, or were killed.

its quite obvious most men on here like pre op-s hence "hung angels"

i personally will eventually have srs as well-
and trust me when the time comes- it is going to be for ME-
if i have a boyfriend and he leaves because i am having srs - well then he wanted the cock and not me as a person.

[hondarobot]

This damn SRS thing.

A lot of times Tgirls just don't get where some of us "regular" guys are coming from. I don't give a damn if a girl has a vagina or a shecock or a fuckin biomechanic time machine on her crotch (the time machine would be pretty cool though). It's her choice what she want's to do obviously, but there is the Loss Of Orgasm thing that any guy who likes a girl would be obligated to address. I don't want to see any girl do something that she would deeply regret in the future, and can't be reversed.

Yeah, post-ops say it the best thing they ever did. What would anyone expect them to say after something like that?

Lots of people have argued that post-op girls can still cum. How do you actually proove that? And if it's not true, then I think the the operation in most cases would be bad. Cosmetics vs orgasm just doesn't balance out in my opinion (and I realize it's more complicated then that, but I'm breaking things down to the basics). It's "finishing the process" vs "drawing a line".

I know when a GG has orgasmed because of profound contractions of her vagina and increased lubrication (most other factors can be faked). Neither of those, from what I've heard, take place with a post-op.

I realize many girls hate having a shecock, can't live with it, and those girls should correct that. But many times that's not the case. If she just wants to "fit in" with other girls, that's just goofy.

I don't want to see anyone do something that would rob them of the ability to orgasm. Someday SRS may be improved to allow such a thing, but I really just don't believe it's possible right now.

DISCLAIMER: I realize we've tossed this topic around like a beach ball many times, but I'm lashing myself to the main mast and riding out the storm until the ship sinks on this one. I think in most cases it is a bad idea given the medical science available at the moment.

[hwbs]

well if u really love the girl and respect her feeleings......nuff said