What about these married men and ts??

[hippifried]

I'll take a freebie if I can get it.

I've been blissfully divorced for over 35 years, & you probably won't get a lot of response from the type of guys you're describing.

There's some wierd cultural meme that says paying for sex straight up is somehow demeaning to both parties. Probably started by women, trying to protect their marriage privileges & protections. Personally, I've found that paying up front is a lot cheaper & less hassleable than marriage or even dating. Especially dating.

[fred41]

I was walking in Midtown and some idiot kept following me and I ask him what the fuck was up and he said he was married and and wanted to fuck around. I ask how much was he spending, and he said didnt I like to have fun. I said fun is not sleeping with another bitches man an unless I was being paid for the service. he said I didnt know what i was missing out on. hahahaha. Where the fuck do these men get the fuckn nerve?????
Not to mention the guy who promised me $500 when i told him I was coming, then his wife called me bitching at me, like I hit up trickasses for money. I told that bitch her man was a cock lover and cheated on her all the time and laghed and hung up.

Guys like that are total dickheads....ya gotta wonder what would marry an asshole like that.

[droog]

I told that bitch her man was a cock lover and cheated on her all the time and laghed and hung up.

so why do ts's do this? i mean why can't you just be chill and mellow and not make such a big deal about it? i mean, if you'll tell a guy's wife or gf that stuff so easily, what's to stop you from telling a guys' parents (single guy or not) the same thing if you got really mad at him for something? and don't say oh, the guy should be out to his family anyway if he's with me or dating other ts.. or insinuate that somehow those comments could be perceived as normal. imo, those types of comments shouldn't be said to anyone, whether all parties know or not.

i am not married and i am single... yet i believe that fear that a ts is capable of saying this (or phrases like it) may be a reason why most men do not bring ts girls around family or maybe friends. this is the type of shit we're worried about, not whether you pass or not... i mean, like in your case.. so some guy was hitting on you. so what- i mean you look hot and he was trying to get with you. that's what guys do, not like it's a new concept or something out of the ordinary. and you end up outing him to his gf because he thought you looked good? that sucks.

[SarahG]

I told that bitch her man was a cock lover and cheated on her all the time and laghed and hung up.

so why do ts's do this? i mean why can't you just be chill and mellow and not make such a big deal about it? i mean, if you'll tell a guy's wife or gf that stuff so easily, what's to stop you from telling a guys' parents (single guy or not) the same thing if you got really mad at him for something? and don't say oh, the guy should be out to his family anyway if he's with me or dating other ts.. or insinuate that somehow those comments could be perceived as normal. imo, those types of comments shouldn't be said to anyone, whether all parties know or not.

i am not married and i am single... yet i believe that fear that a ts is capable of saying this (or phrases like it) may be a reason why most men do not bring ts girls around family or maybe friends. this is the type of shit we're worried about, not whether you pass or not... i mean, like in your case.. so some guy was hitting on you. so what- i mean you look hot and he was trying to get with you. that's what guys do, not like it's a new concept or something out of the ordinary. and you end up outing him to his gf because he thought you looked good? that sucks.

Anger and frustration makes people do ugly things

[Bobzz]

Why do they think we should "hook-up" with them for free?

I'm not sure that "should" is the right word, maybe it's more like "might". Just like not every provocatively dressed woman is a working girl, not every provocatively dress transsexual is a hooker. And by the way, lots of transsexuals who are working girls sometime like to just get laid or have sex because it's just fun. Not every t-gal is "on the clock" or as mercenary as you are (not that there's anything wrong with it ... you're totally upfront about it). I've seen pictures of you wearing pretty provocative clothes in public, maybe one of them should have a saying on it like "I don't give it away"

Why do they make appointments to see an escort then can't because the wife came home unexpectdly, and they can't call to cancel because they would get caught?

That probably has more to do with the class of clientele that see you. I'm in the service business too (the second oldest profession, they say) and it pisses me off when clients make appointments and don't keep them. If I can't keep an appointment, I call and try to reschedule. On the other hand, if when I call to reschedule and I get a raft of shit or some sort of drama, I'll never call back and most likely write a bad review about the encounter. Having said that, the truth is a) shit happens, b) guys get cold feet and c) they occasionally do get busted by the wife/girl friend. You might be better off using credit cards or paypal and charge a small up-front non-refundable reservation fee, but your current clientele might not have the funds or the savvy to understand that. That might be one way to upgrade your clientele too.

Why are the the ones who critiscse a ts for being a working girl when they are lowlife cheaters??

At some level, this is kind of like biting the hand that feeds you. I'm sure that even your best and more frequent clients (the married or paired ones anyway) would really appreciate knowing that you may think of them as lowlife cheaters. I think the reality of the situation is that a lot of guys criticize ts's for being working girls because a) they feel guilty about seeing a ts escort, b) they want the girl for themselves, c) they hate that which they cannot possess or d) all of the above. They're conflicted, you're not. Move on.

Any of the MANY married men on here care to enlighten me?

I'm just saying ... ya know?

[TsVanessa69]

Because you're a worthless tranny and you should be glad *any* man is the least little bit interested in you.


Even by my lights, that's harsh, but, let's face it, that's how the majority think

Bad day?
Fuck 'em!

I was walking in Midtown and some idiot kept following me and I ask him what the fuck was up and he said he was married and and wanted to fuck around. I ask how much was he spending, and he said didnt I like to have fun. I said fun is not sleeping with another bitches man an unless I was being paid for the service. he said I didnt know what i was missing out on. hahahaha. Where the fuck do these men get the fuckn nerve?????
Not to mention the guy who promised me $500 when i told him I was coming, then his wife called me bitching at me, like I hit up trickasses for money. I told that bitch her man was a cock lover and cheated on her all the time and laghed and hung up.

You should have pulled the mace bottle out of your purse and maced the asshole! You sound like you love the attention?

Well to be honest, guys always follow ts in Mid Town, especially the dl boys, they follow u a few blocks then talk to you when the coast is clear.
Thats normal in NYC.

[TsVanessa69]

I told that bitch her man was a cock lover and cheated on her all the time and laghed and hung up.

so why do ts's do this? i mean why can't you just be chill and mellow and not make such a big deal about it? i mean, if you'll tell a guy's wife or gf that stuff so easily, what's to stop you from telling a guys' parents (single guy or not) the same thing if you got really mad at him for something? and don't say oh, the guy should be out to his family anyway if he's with me or dating other ts.. or insinuate that somehow those comments could be perceived as normal. imo, those types of comments shouldn't be said to anyone, whether all parties know or not.

i am not married and i am single... yet i believe that fear that a ts is capable of saying this (or phrases like it) may be a reason why most men do not bring ts girls around family or maybe friends. this is the type of shit we're worried about, not whether you pass or not... i mean, like in your case.. so some guy was hitting on you. so what- i mean you look hot and he was trying to get with you. that's what guys do, not like it's a new concept or something out of the ordinary. and you end up outing him to his gf because he thought you looked good? that sucks.

So you think its ok for married men to easte escorts time, gg or ts, make apointments then not keep them and we should be ok??
Once you fuck with my money game on.
Its a daym shame these bastards fuck with people and cheat on their wives whom the promised to love and be faithful to.
Then people like you side with them??
Come on thats bitchassness.

[TsVanessa69]

I'll take a freebie if I can get it.

I've been blissfully divorced for over 35 years, & you probably won't get a lot of response from the type of guys you're describing.

There's some wierd cultural meme that says paying for sex straight up is somehow demeaning to both parties. Probably started by women, trying to protect their marriage privileges & protections. Personally, I've found that paying up front is a lot cheaper & less hassleable than marriage or even dating. Especially dating.

Married men who are NOT faithful. Its sad that the people who dog us are the real assholes. what is the pourpose of marraige? Leave work, pay me to suck my cock thn go home and kiss wifey in the mouth with dickbreath?
Or make an appointment don't keep it then a legit client want to come at that same time,but you think you have a cleint already so you tell the legit one you have that time taken, aND LOOSE OUT.
Or that i get angry females calling me a homewrecker because he man is paying me.
I NEVER approach guys or trap clients.
Any man i see inciates contact with me and i now keep careful record, save emails and IM convos, so when some angry wiv gets out of pocket I have proof.

[TsVanessa69]

I told that bitch her man was a cock lover and cheated on her all the time and laghed and hung up.

so why do ts's do this? i mean why can't you just be chill and mellow and not make such a big deal about it? i mean, if you'll tell a guy's wife or gf that stuff so easily, what's to stop you from telling a guys' parents (single guy or not) the same thing if you got really mad at him for something? and don't say oh, the guy should be out to his family anyway if he's with me or dating other ts.. or insinuate that somehow those comments could be perceived as normal. imo, those types of comments shouldn't be said to anyone, whether all parties know or not.

i am not married and i am single... yet i believe that fear that a ts is capable of saying this (or phrases like it) may be a reason why most men do not bring ts girls around family or maybe friends. this is the type of shit we're worried about, not whether you pass or not... i mean, like in your case.. so some guy was hitting on you. so what- i mean you look hot and he was trying to get with you. that's what guys do, not like it's a new concept or something out of the ordinary. and you end up outing him to his gf because he thought you looked good? that sucks.

I just re-read what you typed and realized, all that talk and you said NOTHING.
Get a clue.
I am talking about married men making appointments and wasting y time and fucking with my money.
You went into something all together different.

[knick140@yahoo.com]

hey at least your real about your shit Vanessa69 guys do have a choice of escorts and if they chose u they have to handle what comes