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10-16-2009 #31
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does anyone else here feel a degree of guilt for their attraction to TS ladies ?
if not than why keep it a secret ?
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10-16-2009 #32
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Re: Another closet case
Originally Posted by phobun
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10-16-2009 #33
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There's a sound sub-conscious reason why he called himself phobun when he joined HA.
He's always homophob-in' to the other forum members.
What if all these fantasies come flailing around?
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10-16-2009 #34Originally Posted by eclipsemint
Just because I'm telling you this story doesn't mean that I'm alive at the end of it.
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10-17-2009 #35
Re: Another closet case
Originally Posted by phobun- your solution is that i choose my own belief on whether it is right or wrong and that whichever i choose , as long as i accept myself , will make it ok .
- most of the TS girls say they are straight in their profiles on escort and dating sites .
- i guess these doubts on wether it's gay or not to suck TS cock can only be solved between one' s self and God .
and that's why the cubs will never win the series
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10-17-2009 #36
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Re: Another closet case
Originally Posted by blacktgirls
moscow agrees and so does Dan Savage!
http://slippery-digit.blogspot.com/2...e-you-gay.html
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10-17-2009 #37Originally Posted by blacktgirls
The girls who attack guys are the most insecure of all, and for good reason. But what to expect if you look like a hairless male biker with a boa? What to expect if you have tiny male nipples and overpaid for a breast augmentation (no doubt performed with this instrument)? What to expect if no one gave a damn about your "Ask ____" thread, or if you knew better than to even start one, as you watch sweet Alyssa's thread go to 70+ pages? Just ignore the bitter, aging clowns who try to put you down.
You believe in God, and I respect that. You probably believe that he already knows what's in your heart and that he knows you're imperfect. Perhaps there is value in how you approach your interest? Transsexuality has always been a source of distress for humans, so maybe you are helping others to heal their dysphoria by treating and accepting them as women, rather than by throwing stones and crying sinner, or by primarily focusing on your own self-indulgent pleasures like so many cock-bandits do?
It's not easy to dump a belief system you probably grew up with, but for the sake of others, bear your cross quietly. You are the imperfect man you are, and that is not going to change. Realizing yourself for the man you are will remove a poisonous element that can make others feel uncomfortable. But if nothing else, focus on accepting others first, rather than your own insecurities. Transsexuals are women and want to be treated as such, so if you're a self-confident and attentive gentleman to the woman you admire, you'll obviate anyone's attempt to belittle you as a queer.
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10-17-2009 #38
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Originally Posted by blacktgirls
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10-17-2009 #39
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I think when guys say they hide their interest in transsexuals(which is a cowardly act in my opinion) a secret its really saying they still think of transgender women as guys because they don't wanna be preceived as being gay by there peers, a real guy wouldn't be so insecure about himself to care what other people think of him or his transsexual date or whatever, he would always look a her as a female and wouldn't give a damn what other people think.
And guys who say stuff like being gay is a sin and things like "no homo" really come off as the opposite of what they're trying to portray themselves to be.This very guy invented the term "no homo",
"no homo" yeah right.
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10-17-2009 #40
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Honestly, I call guys like Belial "fags" and "queers" because they're so damn obnoxious ,thinking they're somehow a higher life form than anyone who fall into the LGBT category. Belial's got his head up his ass if he thinks the lynch mobs would skip over him if they knew what he enjoyed jerking off to. To the typical homophobic hater, he might as well be gay. But catch this: WE ALL MIGHT AS WELL BE GAY. SO GET USED TO IT UNLESS YOU'RE READY TO CHANGE IT, YOU FAGGOTS.
Btw, wtf would be so bad about being gay if you really were? What other people would think of you? I mean, you've got to be kidding us all, if that's what it boils down to for you. Spare us, please.
Saying that TS are 'just a fetish' is also pure nonsense. Fetishes relate to inanimate objects, not other human beings. We're real people, made of flesh and blood. Call a spade a "spade", and move on. Imo the deep denial those guys live in is far worse than any sexuality ever could be. The guys who make us a dirty little secret 'fetish' deserve to give the donation the most. You can't have your cake and eat it too, fellas.
As for the OP, who's wrestling with a morality issue here; that's the saddest, if not the silliest, problem you could ever have with being attracted to transsexuals. Sex between consenting adults is a cake walk. Yet he's acting like he's been jerking off to snuff or kiddie porn.