OK to be with a TS because they say they are really female

[Distance]

This thread is filled with hate and insecurities. Well I do not need anyone to define my sexuality. I don't fellate nor take it in any place, thank you very much.

Is it just me or do these two sentences contradict each other? On the one hand you're saying that a definition of your sexuality is unnecessary. On the other you're making it clear that you don't partake in traditionally 'gay' activities. I don't think your problem is with others defining your sexuality, I think it's that you don't know how to do so for yourself.

~BB~

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You may think what you want, it does not matter to me. I posted what I just did in regards to the op and his own quest for answers -which I thought was odd- and the way the thread derailed. Oh wait. Maybe you had to tell me this because, again, you have and have had issues with your own sexuality for years. That and/or because there is Danielle's pic on my profile. Well, I did not even want to allow myself a reply in the 'playboy radio thread', as you seem hell bent on thinking 'Danielle's doers' are chasing you and hurting you around every virtual corner of the net. Post away if you may.

Uhh... I don't have any issues with my sexuality and never have. Actually, I just made an observation about your own paradoxical statement. I'm sorry if it was too accurate for your taste.

And I hate to disappoint you but my life doesn't revolve around Danielle. That would have been a nice out for you if it were true though, huh?

~BB~

You're totally paranoid about that Danielle thing...or you are just pretending like a frowning masculine Diva -no idea what you are on, but I reckon you should stop: it's bad for you. I don't care what you do, or what you claim you are etc. Be half of what she is and then you can probably start talking...all I have seen of you here, despite some at times clever observations, is constant nagging and attacking, bordering o.c.d.



You can claim what you want about my sexuality, and that is just fine. On the other hand, one has read how you yourself have admitted to have been fighting your deep homosexual desires for years, fooling yourself and your entourage, marrying, and giving your ex wife a child. So whatever...and...touché.

Spoken like a truly insecure would-be gay man.

As far as I'm concerned, I never had a desire to be with men until after I started transition and I'm at peace with both that and my former life. If I wasn't, do you think I would even bring it up? You're the one who's questioning as exemplified by your own post. YOUR words. Not mine.

~BB~

There, I will hand it to you. I am what you think I am. And more.
As for your insecurities or 'non insecurities': look at you, god damn it. You'd scare Freud and kids at halloween without a costume.


Time for me to leave...and leave you to what you do best: getting fucked and fucking yourself up.

[BellaBellucci]

There, I will hand it to you. I am what you think I am. And more.
As for your insecurities or 'non insecurities': look at you, god damn it. You'd scare Freud and kids at halloween without a costume.


Time for me to leave...and leave you to what you do best: getting fucked and fucking yourself up.

That's not fair. Kids love me. It's adults that can't handle the challenges I present.

~BB~

[Bob's Tgirls]

I justify my attraction to TS ladies because they say that it was a biological mistake that they were born male and that they are actually female . Do other men here have doubts like myself that it is not ok to be attracted to or have sex with TS girls ?

Danger!!! long winded response ahead.

My opinion is to be with whoever you want and don't concern yourself over labels. If you do, it can get a lot more complicated. You could start asking yourself questions like what really qualifies as a TS. Does she have to be on hormones or have a boob job to qualify. Or does any boy dressed up as a girl qualify. Does she have to live full time as a girl or is part time OK.

The reason I say this is that there are some really hot "tgirls" out there who live as males, but dress up to perform in shows or work as escorts. But in reality they are not transsexuals. Should that stop you if you are attracted to a person?

I think most guys who are into tgirls go through this questioning of one's own sexuality. I did and most of my male friends (who are into tgirls) have as well. The question "Am I gay?" pops up in forums and chatrooms with some regularity.

Eventually you will just say fuck it and have fun and not care about the labels or you will continue to struggle with this and not enjoy it so much. Good luck with just saying "fuck it".

[BellaBellucci]

I justify my attraction to TS ladies because they say that it was a biological mistake that they were born male and that they are actually female . Do other men here have doubts like myself that it is not ok to be attracted to or have sex with TS girls ?

Danger!!! long winded response ahead.

My opinion is to be with whoever you want and don't concern yourself over labels. If you do, it can get a lot more complicated. You could start asking yourself questions like what really qualifies as a TS. Does she have to be on hormones or have a boob job to qualify. Or does any boy dressed up as a girl qualify. Does she have to live full time as a girl or is part time OK.

The reason I say this is that there are some really hot "tgirls" out there who live as males, but dress up to perform in shows or work as escorts. But in reality they are not transsexuals. Should that stop you if you are attracted to a person?

I think most guys who are into tgirls go through this questioning of one's own sexuality. I did and most of my male friends (who are into tgirls) have as well. The question "Am I gay?" pops up in forums and chatrooms with some regularity.

Eventually you will just say fuck it and have fun and not care about the labels or you will continue to struggle with this and not enjoy it so much. Good luck with just saying "fuck it".

Gotta co-sign. Well said.

~BB~

[Nicole Dupre]

(Ok, maybe I'm just a weee bit sadistic, but these bozos are knee deep in the chiffon and taffeta now! )

Right on cue. I'm an angry queer, Nicole.

Thank you.

You're quite welcome. And thank you for coming out, thailor. That was quite brave, and I applaud you. You're "here & queer", and that's just thuper.

Personally, if I had known that you two rectum wranglers were into WoW, I'd probably have checked your hard drives for jpgs of muscular knights wearing capes and shimmery leotards. I mean, that's not quite what I'd call well-adjusted heterosexual behavior on your parts. No, ma'am. Alpha males don't play with their joysticks all day as they ride around on sparkly unicorns. But now that you're here, you can download all the cock à la carte pics you want. Personally, you have my pity. Angry gay men are some of God's most lonely creatures.

But you two masochists should be warned that the transsexuals here are all likely to be much prettier than the female archetypes whose vaginas you both hatched from, and whom you both cathected a sexual aversion to strong-willed women over. Maybe your mommys confused you because they were both so butch? I dunno, but that's no reason to hate on girls who still have the plumbing those hags must have always envied.

Anyway, I'd better go now. 'I don't really wanna hurt you. I don't really wanna make you cry'.

[blacktgirls]

I justify my attraction to TS ladies because they say that it was a biological mistake that they were born male and that they are actually female . Do other men here have doubts like myself that it is not ok to be attracted to or have sex with TS girls ?

Danger!!! long winded response ahead.

My opinion is to be with whoever you want and don't concern yourself over labels. If you do, it can get a lot more complicated. You could start asking yourself questions like what really qualifies as a TS. Does she have to be on hormones or have a boob job to qualify. Or does any boy dressed up as a girl qualify. Does she have to live full time as a girl or is part time OK.

The reason I say this is that there are some really hot "tgirls" out there who live as males, but dress up to perform in shows or work as escorts. But in reality they are not transsexuals. Should that stop you if you are attracted to a person?

I think most guys who are into tgirls go through this questioning of one's own sexuality. I did and most of my male friends (who are into tgirls) have as well. The question "Am I gay?" pops up in forums and chatrooms with some regularity.

Eventually you will just say fuck it and have fun and not care about the labels or you will continue to struggle with this and not enjoy it so much. Good luck with just saying "fuck it".

i'm a big fan of your work and i loved Tgirl Fantasies 14 , especially the behind the scenes . when that little cutie , Maui , was trying to pee on the toilet while sprung on Viagra it was so hot! i also like that you used girls from the U.S. in the movie because it's kind of sexy to think that you could run into one of these girls in some club .

• that movie is the only TS porn i've seen that had a behind the scenes .

[transmaven]

Nicole,

Your post to Rockabilly was extraordinarily mean-spirited. Why do that? why work to hurt with such intensity? It *is* sadism, and it's wrong. He's obviously a decent sort, trying to make his way in the world.

So much phony hardmindedness on this bitter thread, so much unhappiness pretending to be truth.

I guess that's just the way it is, huh?

[phobun]

Nicole,

Your post to Rockabilly was extraordinarily mean-spirited. Why do that? why work to hurt with such intensity? It *is* sadism, and it's wrong. He's obviously a decent sort, trying to make his way in the world.

So much phony hardmindedness on this bitter thread, so much unhappiness pretending to be truth.

I guess that's just the way it is, huh?

Billy is a good guy and repeatedly showed Nicole kindness, yet Nicole hates him for it. It says quite a lot about how Nicole views Nicole. No doubt there's bigtime psychopathology and demons there. In many ways Nicole can only be pitied.

[Nicole Dupre]

Nicole,

Your post to Rockabilly was extraordinarily mean-spirited. Why do that? why work to hurt with such intensity? It *is* sadism, and it's wrong. He's obviously a decent sort, trying to make his way in the world.

So much phony hardmindedness on this bitter thread, so much unhappiness pretending to be truth.

I guess that's just the way it is, huh?

The way it is is that I am not being put on a guilt trip to patronize him. Instead of defending a weak man who's a liability here, you should be defending your sisters if you are TS. Two cowards are calling us "men" and this person, who has insisted that I consider him as BF material(?), is now enjoying their cruel sense of humor? Not as my friend he won't. I've tried being pleasant and honest with him, responded to his PMs, sent him a pic or two, etc. But I'm drawing the line here and now.

If you want to enable him to be a dysfunctional mess, be my guest. But he will obviously cling to anyone who gives him the time of day. I don't hate him. I don't hate homeless people either, but I'm not being put on a guilt trip for not inviting them over and cooking them all dinner. If you take in every stray, you become a crazy cat lady. Therefore you accept that you can only be as good to others as you can be to yourself. I'm not a martyr. One by one, girls leave this forum. If you're content wth that phenomenon, I suppose "that's just the way it is, huh"?

[Nicole Dupre]

Nicole,

Your post to Rockabilly was extraordinarily mean-spirited. Why do that? why work to hurt with such intensity? It *is* sadism, and it's wrong. He's obviously a decent sort, trying to make his way in the world.

So much phony hardmindedness on this bitter thread, so much unhappiness pretending to be truth.

I guess that's just the way it is, huh?

Billy is a good guy and repeatedly showed Nicole kindness, yet Nicole hates him for it. It says quite a lot about how Nicole views Nicole. No doubt there's bigtime psychopathology and demons there. In many ways Nicole can only be pitied.

I never asked for his "kindness". And I hate no one, so save your stabs at pop psych. The mentally ill uber-hater here is you, ma'am.

Now enjoy your new found hero status with the forum's obese emotional cripple, your fellow WoW aficionado, and Mother Teresa aka Transmaven. You all deserve each other. Maybe you should start a guild and all wear matching leotards.