Would You Marry A TG ?

[biguy4tvtscd]

Average household income in the US is what, 44 grand before taxes? That works out to both spouses working 40 hr work weeks @ just under $11/hour.

If you're over 25 and still making under $11 per hour, I think it's time to reassess your career path.

If you think you should be able to raise a family while earning less than $11 per hour, than you really need some therapy.

[SarahG]

Average household income in the US is what, 44 grand before taxes? That works out to both spouses working 40 hr work weeks @ just under $11/hour.

If you're over 25 and still making under $11 per hour, I think it's time to reassess your career path.

If you think you should be able to raise a family while earning less than $11 per hour, than you really need some therapy.

Math is far from my strongest subject, but when I googled average American household income, the states ranged from 40-50 grand depending on the year.

A typical American household has more than one person employed, no?

45,000/2 working spouses = each brings home *roughly* 22,500 before taxes.

22,500/52 weeks in a year = 433$ per week.

433/40 hour work week = $10.82 per hour.

[muhmuh]

What is the perk of a guy getting married?

if the girl is geeky enough you may get to wear a snazzy decoder ring all the time?

[droog]

Many admirers here would like to date a Tgirl (TS/TV/Shemale) or just to go bed with them, but would you marry TG ?

see, this is probably why a lot of ts don't get married. your question displays the ts mindset perfectly. because most ts just see men as "admirers" (that word is so fuckin lame btw) and tricks, most men realize there is never any other possible relationship choice with a ts other than a client/provider situation; so unless the man the ts is interested in is rich, she will make an "exception" and call him her 'boyfriend' even though in reality he is still a client, just like the others. since all ts care about is money, how could a marriage possibly work out?... or even a relationship for that matter?

[alpha2117]

The answer is yes but there are conditions (there are always conditions in life).

I'd need a girl who had made up her mind how far she was going with surgery. I dont mind how far, I just need to know going in. Surgeries are expensive and you need to make long term budgetary plans. Also frankly I dont want to marry someone who is going into hospital every 6 months to getcosmetic surgery. Some girls love to do that but to me at a certain point it becomes very overdone.

No working - and I dont mean not working in a real job. Some people are comfortable with their partner working, I'm not. I'm not marrying someone who thinks it's okay having sex with someone else.

Adoption laws & kids. I'm not fussed either way on kids but if she wants them then what are the laws, impediments to having them etc. Again it's a money thing because I need to know going in those costs. It effects how I spend now even if it's 5 years off. If she wants a kid then it's little Mr Saver and spend wisely if not then sure lets take a holiday to Europe because you only live once.

You sound like a cheap charlie without much reserve.

Actually the total opposite. I'm anything but cheap but what I am is practical. In a normal marriage you normally know going in if you plan on having kids and it totally effects how you spend. Well with a Tg girl it becomes more complex. Depending on adoption laws you may well be able to adopt but it may end up costing a lot of money as you you are probably adopting a kid from another country. There are a lot of costs involved in that. Plus then there are all the normal costs that come with kids. Most Tg girls dont end up having kids because it is difficult and expensive. So what I said was the absolute truth. If I was marrying a girl who really deep down wanted a kid then I'd move the world to make that dream come true and if that means I might have to cut down on my spending right now to make that dream possible.

Same with surgery. If the girl wants to go the whole hog then thats expensive. The plastic surgery bills run up to around 100,000 if you are using top guys and doing a lot of procedures. Breasts, cheeks, jawlines etc etc do not come for free.

Frankly you sound like someone who is cavalier and doesn't really consider the realities of a real relationship. I do. The question was about a marriage not a 6 month dating situation and a marriage is a lot more complex than just going out.

I could of just put in the standard bs that sure i'd marry a TG girl in a heartbeat but the realities of a marriage are it's about making a real committment to another person. That means helping them acheive their long term wants and needs. If those needs are really expensive then you have to prepare for that. I doubt too many people on here have a spare million or two lying around to buy a home, adopt a kid, pay for that kids needs plus those of a partner whose medical needs are more expensive than average instantly. Hell just buying the home part can be difficult for people.

I guess that will teach me for giving a real answer to a question rather than just shallow bullshit.

[Distance]

l'important n' est pas de savoir si on veut se marier avec un trans, mais si on se mari avec la personne que l'on aime, que ce soit un homme, une femme ou un trans

C'est vrai tu as raison et je suis d'accord avec toi, mais j'ai l'impression et surtout en France que les trans ne sont qu'un phantasme pour les hommes, je ne doute pas une seule seconde qu'un homme epouserait volontier un trans mais je trouvais cette question interressante a poser et j'etais asser curieuse de savoir et je suis agreablement surprise

Et un Francais de plus. :P

J'epouserai un trans, mais pas une call girl. Les dechirements du coeur, non merci.

[JaxRhapsody]

Yep, if it would work and I wasn't looking to have a family

[AngelinaTorres]

Many admirers here would like to date a Tgirl (TS/TV/Shemale) or just to go bed with them, but would you marry TG ?

see, this is probably why a lot of ts don't get married. your question displays the ts mindset perfectly. because most ts just see men as "admirers" (that word is so fuckin lame btw) and tricks, most men realize there is never any other possible relationship choice with a ts other than a client/provider situation; so unless the man the ts is interested in is rich, she will make an "exception" and call him her 'boyfriend' even though in reality he is still a client, just like the others. since all ts care about is money, how could a marriage possibly work out?... or even a relationship for that matter?

is your point of view but I do not see things the same way, I've never had a rich bf, do not mix work and love, love is not bought and you can't bought one person with presents, love and more a matter of money, there is an attraction, love, a constant desire to please the person you love but it must be reciprocal, I find it unhealthy to pay the love of a person.Money does not buy happiness but I do not doubt that it helps but if you're rich and alone and sad how it has served you ? I try to put the money to score for years for my business but I do not intend to be escorted all my life and I do not count on anyone else but me. people that have money feel safe but hand their money they have what? a nice house, nice car but are they happy? I doubt it ...
love comes from the heart not from the wallet !

l'important n' est pas de savoir si on veut se marier avec un trans, mais si on se mari avec la personne que l'on aime, que ce soit un homme, une femme ou un trans

C'est vrai tu as raison et je suis d'accord avec toi, mais j'ai l'impression et surtout en France que les trans ne sont qu'un phantasme pour les hommes, je ne doute pas une seule seconde qu'un homme epouserait volontier un trans mais je trouvais cette question interressante a poser et j'etais asser curieuse de savoir et je suis agreablement surprise

Et un Francais de plus. :P

J'epouserai un trans, mais pas une call girl. Les dechirements du coeur, non merci.

Je te comprends comment peu t'on reellement aimer une personne qui offre son corp pour de l'argent, ou alors il faut vraiment etre fort mentalement - cela m'est deja arriver d'etre en couple avec le travail que je fais mais est ce vraiment de l'amour que cette personne avait pour moi ? je ne sais pas...

[Instrumental]

I don't want to get married at all so no.

[shemale-411]

Was engaged to my ex, so obviously the answer would be yes. It's definitely not something to get into lightly with anyone, of any gender. People marry for different reasons, the symbolism of the act of commitment, saying to someone I'm there for you forever, through thick and thin, is what it means to me.