Alyssa got checked!

[Alyssa87]

thanks ppl.


as i read that back to myself, i can see how it might seem like i dont feel sorry for her.
i feel very sorry for her. it breaks my heart, really.

im just recognising that the whole thing makes my 'issues' seem infinitesimal.
i thought maybe it would do the same for some of the ppl here.

[DL_NL]

Reality check, keeps you sane.

[Silcc69]

6 kids wow just wow.

[yodajazz]

thanks ppl.


as i read that back to myself, i can see how it might seem like i dont feel sorry for her.
i feel very sorry for her. it breaks my heart, really.

im just recognising that the whole thing makes my 'issues' seem infinitesimal.
i thought maybe it would do the same for some of the ppl here.

I think your post makes a good point. Lots of people feel sorry for themselves but don't realize what others go through. I have a friend who is burying a woman relative the same age as your friend, this week. She had heart trouble that could have been made worse by stress. And her biggest stress, was the drama of some man that she loved. And I believe she had children by him.

[arnie666]

Woke up to a missed call, voice, and text message from an old friend of my moms, who has become a friend of mine. But we don’t keep in touch much.
She’s 35 with six, count ‘em six kids. 3 baby daddies, one of them is my cousin who is my age- gross, I know.
Aaaanyway, i call her back, she tells me how she’s stressing out trying to pay bills, take care of the kids, go back to school, make money, keep the house up- all that.
The convo shifted mostly to my cousin, who is the father of two of the kids.
Really, she’s still in love with him, and is hurting because he is with another girl now and has a baby with her. He doesn’t pay child support or see his kids often.
Her plate is so full, and her life is a mess in a lot of ways.

I know quite a few girls like her in similar situations. Stressing over men who they still love and cant seem to hold down to raise their family with.




It really put me in check!
How dare I stress about some guy that doesn’t want to commit, or be serious?
I am a free bird. I still live with the parentalz, go to school on grants, make crazy cash on cam. And I look fuckin great (lol)
NO RESPONSIBILITIES! Nothing holding me down.


Ive been in the dumps over boy drama, and this just pulled me right the fuck out.

GOOD AFTERNOON HA

Why are you crying over her? She should have kept her legs shut and chosen better men, instead of feckless losers.


Oh and men aren't worth stressing over. We are all cunts sweetcheeks.

[barefootjoe69]

thanks ppl.


as i read that back to myself, i can see how it might seem like i dont feel sorry for her.
i feel very sorry for her. it breaks my heart, really.

im just recognising that the whole thing makes my 'issues' seem infinitesimal.
i thought maybe it would do the same for some of the ppl here.

Alyssa,
I know exactly what you are trying to say.
I always tell everyone that when they think they have it bad there is always someone ,somewhere that has it worse.
Be happy with what you have and good things will come to you!

[JPJP]

What about that one guy in the world who literally has it the worst? What do you tell him?

[Alyssa87]

see you in Hell

[JPJP]

He's probably deaf anyway

[Alyssa87]

then why did you ask what i would say to him?