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Thread: Tranny hard facts!
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08-07-2009 #31Originally Posted by BellaBellucci
But I digress, this is only some of the people who are out there on sites and in groups that allow diverse membership. Saying they're all like that would be as erroneous as saying universally that "everyone who starts hrt at 18 won't need FFS to pass"
And maybe its easier to withdraw from life
With all of its misery and wretched lies
If we're dead when tomorrow's gone
The Big Machine will just move on
Still we cling afraid we'll fall
Clinging like the memory which haunts us all
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08-07-2009 #32Originally Posted by SarahG
I respect you as an intelligent person, but I have heard you speak negatively abut older transistioners numerous times, saying ones “suddenly transistion at age 50” while going away for the weekend. The way I see it, if you deny someone the right to transition, or alternate gender expression, then you are giving someone else to right to deny you the same thing. That is why free speech advocates will defend the rights of someone they disagree with.
I believe a community which is inclusive gains greater power through greater numbers. It has been mentioned earlier in this thread that some trans people, define themselves as being better than others. I believe that this holds the community as a whole back. If an older transistioner implies that they are ‘better’, the answer is not, “no younger ones are better”. The answer is that everyone’s experience is valid because we are all on the same path. The ones that arrive late are still on the same road, ready to fight in the same battle.
I recently remembered hearing that two t-girls I had met who were roommates, started arguing over who was better than the other. One murdered the other. So in the end did it really make any difference who was better? They were both trans women trying to survive in a sometimes hostile world. But what destroyed both, was their lack of respect for other trans women.
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08-07-2009 #33Originally Posted by yodajazz
Take the recent thread (which I believe is what prompted your post) about that boxer in the UK, my beef (which I plainly said at least a few times in that thread) was with the newspaper painting it up to be a simple weekend trip to "get a sex change" as if that's what the whole process is.
I am going to find fault with anyone, trans or not, who paints transitioning as being simply a "sex change surgery" or a weekend clothes spending spree.
...if you deny someone the right to transition, or alternate gender expression,...
Have you seen anyone in this thread, or the other one, say "no one should transition after #[assigned age]?" Am I just going blind here and haven't seen it?
In fact I specifically said in THIS thread that I am uncomfortable with the primary versus secondary labels because they offer the medical community no treatment advantage while putting those who would be defined as secondary (aka late transitioners) at risk of greater gatekeeping problems.
I would understand you bringing this up if I were saying "you know, at what point should you just say 'you're too old to transition'" but I never, ever, said that and have even made remarks explaining why someone would want to transition, even if it was at that age.
At what point would these "late transitioners should be able to transition too!" statements being injected into these threads cease to be arguments to become a tool of dramatic effect, or intellectual dishonesty? It would be like going into every race-flame-war thread in HA and lecturing people that "black trans people should be able to transition to." ....okkkay, what's that have to do with the price of crude oil on mars? Its being brought up now why? Has anyone said otherwise?
And maybe its easier to withdraw from life
With all of its misery and wretched lies
If we're dead when tomorrow's gone
The Big Machine will just move on
Still we cling afraid we'll fall
Clinging like the memory which haunts us all
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08-07-2009 #34
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Originally Posted by SarahG
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08-08-2009 #35Originally Posted by SarahG
I do recall a previous discussion about whether cross dressers, were a benefit or hurt trans causes. If I remember correctly, I think that you took the position that their public image hurt trans acceptance. This then calls into question what your general attitude towards crossdresser is. That is where the 'gender expression' part comes from. I do understand that every human group has people in it who may be bad for the overall image. This is especially true in racial relations.
If I do misunderstand your intentions at times, it's because I do respect you enough to try and understand your writings, and I make it a point to read your posts. I want to keep you honest. You say many things that I completely agree with, even in this thread. If I am wrong, it is still done out of love, with the thought of the greater community in mind. I did hesitate to post on this thread. But I saw what appeared to be an attack on older transistioners. But now, it has been said that this was in regard to some specific people.
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08-08-2009 #36Originally Posted by Nicole Dupre
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08-08-2009 #37
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i think some would be well served to listen what trannygirl15 has to say on this subject...
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08-29-2009 #38
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I think this is a stupid thread and it should be taken down. There are no hard facts here.
If we're going to discuss this topic, let's get trannys here who were actually diagnosed as primary according to the HBS, outdated and skewed as that research is.
Then we can have a discussion involving and concerning who here has a verifiable history indicating that they are "primary". Otherwise, this is a THREAD FAIL, and is a ploy to ostracize other trannys on HA.
Again, I was diagnosed as "primary", got the "intersexed" diagnosis, and it never improved my quality of life.
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08-29-2009 #39
What happened with the other thread with Hara and Nicole goin at it?
Originally Posted by tjinla2001
I AM A GUY NOT A TRANSSEXUAL!
I AM A GUY NOT A TRANSSEXUAL!
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08-29-2009 #40
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I'm not "going at it with her" at all. I don't want to talk to her AT ALL, for the millionth time.
But this thread is just blatantly divisive, and should come down. I don't care who wrote it.