sound familiar to you girls???

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

What girl who is proud of herself dates could date one of these comfused closet case bozos?

most of us have self-esteem and worth issues, dont you think?
even if we dont know it or try to work on it.

so theres a lot of settling for guys like that, no?

Yes, and that's why I'm currently not looking for a LTR. Or I should say, if I find myself in one, it won't be because I was seeking it. Any guy who reveals no immediate deal-breakers, and who wants to change my perspective, is welcome to try. But I know my own pattern of making myself vulnerable to guys who take advantage of my need for validation. I can see it coming a lot easier now. So currently, I only seek clients, fuck buddies, or sugar daddies. Heavy emotional stuff is not on my to-do list. lol

lol

~Kisses.

HTG

[Alyssa87]

I don't understand what the big deal is. If your attracted to someone does it really matter whats below the belt? I happen to be attracted to TS's and really don't care who's watching me. Now to find a TS that I will take out on a "date" is another story. Not because I have a problem being seen with them but because I have a problem finding someone who actually wants to be taken out. I'm not some fat old bald guy , I'm young and inshape. I don't get it I'm not looking for a LTR just someone to hang with. Girls not every guy you meet is a dickhead!!

perhaps you're looking in all the wrong places..some girls don't want to hang out unless you got money for their time.

some? you mean all ts care about is money

I think Jen had it right. he's looking in the wrong places. as are most men who go on about this gripe.
If you're cruising porn boards, tranny clubs, and escort/cam ads what do you expect?
These girls work sex in some form or another. and when they get approached in those settings, they act like it.

There are many many tgirls who do not have to, or simply wont cash in on their dicks like a lot of us do.
Most times i wish i didnt feel the urge to attain the very expensive look i'm going after.
But these girls arent making themselves available to men with shemale fantasies and/or dick fixations.
They stand nothing to gain from it. Money isnt enough of a lure.

[Alyssa87]

What girl who is proud of herself dates could date one of these comfused closet case bozos?

most of us have self-esteem and worth issues, dont you think?
even if we dont know it or try to work on it.

so theres a lot of settling for guys like that, no?

Yes, and that's why I'm currently not looking for a LTR. Or I should say, if I find myself in one, it won't be because I was seeking it. Any guy who reveals no immediate deal-breakers, and who wants to change my perspective, is welcome to try. But I know my own pattern of making myself vulnerable to guys who take advantage of my need for validation. I can see it coming a lot easier now. So currently, I only seek clients, fuck buddies, or sugar daddies. Heavy emotional stuff is not on my to-do list. lol

oh i hope some guy sweeps u up, and turns u into a big softee!