just curious if im the only one

[Navi]

nothing is hopeless. o_0 just hard

[rockabilly]

It's because of jerks using and abusing these ladies that makes it hard for us nice guys to start relationships w/ them. They keep waiting for the other shoe to drop or close off their hearts completely.

[Navi]

I too am in pursuit of a loving ltr . It's an uphill battle here and sometimes i feel as if i'm pushing a big rock up a steep hill ... only to have it roll back down when i'm on top. My point is ... I believe that there is a match out there for everyone, someone who just fits. Best of luck ... to both of us.

thus the hard part. i hate jerks, and useing someone is wrong in my book. trust me i am right there with ya. o_0

[Nicole Dupre]

I think finding a soul-mate is a matter of chemistry and synchronicity; being in the right place at the right time. Many times guys are approaching the girls who are 'working' one thing or another, wheteher they realize it or not. But if 99% of the time, that's how we even appeared on your radar in the first place, how much potential do you honestly think you'd have? There are guys who bang their heads against that wall repeatedly. If you want to fall in love with an escort, it stands to reason that she just may be high maintenance financially. Otherwise, you are in the same position as every other guy; looking for that 'special someone' with 'something extra'. lol

[rockabilly]

Thanks for the insight Ms. Nicole.

[Navi]

i am look'n to fall in love. i just dont go looking for it, sad really that i dont look. i work in movies and there is a lot of people that want to use you to move them selfs a long and dont care who they step on to do it.

[Ryz]

that's life.

[Nicole Dupre]

It's because of jerks using and abusing these ladies that makes it hard for us nice guys to start relationships w/ them. They keep waiting for the other shoe to drop or close off their hearts completely.

I think you're underestimating how little we let the jerks ruin the next guy's chances. But then again, I'm not sure if this happened to you or it's just a theory you have.

But if you are on here this much you are not in circulation to meet women. That's going to work against you in the long run imo. Also, I wouldn't beat the 'I'm nice a guy who just wants to fall in love' thing into the ground. Personally I'm only receptive to a REAL guy who has no preconceived notions about love.

[Navi]

mmm... i just dont care is the thing, about love right now any way. i work to much. i do want to fall on love yet i care not. if it happens it happens.

[rockabilly]

I do all my post from mobile Ms. Nicole. I'm not trapped behind a monitor ... but you are right , i should be in the mix . But there is no mix to get into around here and w/ work and grams ... i just dont have time to socialize. At least i can post and talk to you lovely ladies.

And i dont think my notions of love are preconceived. Love is different for everyone i'll give you that.