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Thread: Why Are Some 'Girls' So GAY?!
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07-17-2009 #61
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07-17-2009 #62Originally Posted by SexChangeTranny.com
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07-17-2009 #63Originally Posted by sheyum
Peggy articulated her position well and I'm going to go with her wisdom on this issue. Alyssa has a good heart, but I think she is being overly generous to the "girls" who act gay. Some may act out as a defensive mechanism, but I believe most do it because 1) they see their gayboy friends do it all the time and it probably seems normal, 2) they think any misbehavior would be considered cute anyway since they see themselves as so hot or 3) they want to attract guys like SB who like shrieking nellies in skirts.
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07-17-2009 #64Originally Posted by Alyssa87
Not long at all. Nanosecond at most. Practice what you preach will be something good for you to remember.
Don't Compete. CREATE!- Earl Nightingale ... YOU are responsible for YOUR life. Change what you don't like. Stay away from the news and people who hate life.
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07-17-2009 #65
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Props to the poster of this post. I have often wondered the same questions.
Depite the isues that came up on this post, I do think that both side were right. I think for a girl to be taken seriously that she needs to put that gay shit behind her or at least save it for the gay club and work her way into leading a life that exist more in the real world.
But I have also seen how some girls do use the gay scene, the gay friends and culture as a defense mechanism. They would rather go out and be flamboyant and loud than to try to pass and to fail. For them being clocked/read while trying to pass is worse than being the loud ass tranny. Its sad but it is a reality.
I've known some really beautiful, visually passable girls that will get in a 'straight' situation and damn near close down, partly due to gear and partly because they haven't socialized themselves enough around non gay people that they don't know how to be open in such situations. Livinghere in Atlanta, I see plenty of girls who have the looks to go almost anywhere and pass but deal in almost exclusive gay circles unless they absolutely have to venture outside of that world. I've sen girls gravitate to hooking just because it allows them to deal less with a straight world'
Becoming a passable looking girl is hard enough that many girls put so much effort into how they look and don't spend nearly enough time on everything else. And like Peggy said, some don't want to take those extra steps because they really and truly don't want to be seen a female.
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07-17-2009 #66
Even though Alyssa and I have had our little contretemps, I would never confuse her with someone mean-spirited. She seems painfully nice in fact. At least most times and with most people.
And she *is* very bright. That shd. never be held against anyone, esp. someone as young as she is.
I too am impressed if she used the word "doldrums." Excellent word that describes a state rarely lasting long on HA.
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07-17-2009 #67
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Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl
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07-17-2009 #68Originally Posted by transmaven
That's all fine and dandy, Transmaven, but when she comes to'save the day' of these so called 'girls' and have the nerve to type.. SHE THINKS SOME TGIRL PORN MODELS ARE UGLY AND/OR MASCULINE.. Especially on a board where so many of these tgirls are in porn, it needs to be brought to attention.
I have no problem with that person. We don't know each other, but she can save the super-save-a -____- act for someone else. Those tgirl porn models, as she typed may feel like a woman AND act like a woman and may try as hard as they can to look the best they can. As for the boys who slap silicone in their chest and ass and run around topless in public and saying, 'they can do it because they're a man', that's a different subject..which bring's about: Why Are Some 'girls' So Gay.
As I stated, I despise confrontation, but I won't be played the fool by someone of double standards and who has shown their true colors for their 'sistas'.
Don't Compete. CREATE!- Earl Nightingale ... YOU are responsible for YOUR life. Change what you don't like. Stay away from the news and people who hate life.
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07-17-2009 #69Originally Posted by JeniferTS
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07-17-2009 #70