Girls - Are you happy pre-op or do you want surgery???

[tsparisangelline]

its the internet, what did you expect?

lmfao girl i just had to call it out though

[TsVanessa69]

Very interesting thread indeed. Been wondering about this myself. Always curious to hear about the woman's views on there own private "situation". I know I am not the targeted demographic when it comes to this question (I'm a dude).... but I cant imagine giving up that pleasure. Touching, stroking, and having my cock licked. Not to mention cumming. Possibly losing those feelings forever would freak me the fuck out. I know many post-op women claim to still have amazing orgasms. I find this as difficult to believe as people who claim non-fat ice cream tastes just as good as the regular kind. I'm not saying they are lairs. Just that I have a hard time believing its as satisfying as the original. The mind is a powerful thing though.

I agree with you and if I ever did want to get an srs, thaose are the reasons that would stop me.
SRS is ok if you don't like your penis.
Me I like mine, I like cumming, being sucked and the warmth of an asshole taking every inch with joy.
If I got rid of my working penis, I want a working vagina.
I want a wett pussy that has a clit, a period and ovaries, I don't think you can buy that yet

[TsVanessa69]

lmfao girl i just had to call it out though

I co-sign. Too made up sounding for me, plus no pics.
I mean if I was in school as a girl, wouldn't I have class pics to prove??
My daughter went to school as a tranny, and in her yearbook and pics, she is in drag. Plus the whole mother buying hormones on the internet because a doctor was crazy was a bit much

[tgirlzoe]

I don't know if any of you remember me, a conversation with my sister led me to this site again. I see things have been rearranged a bit.

Anyway, I haven't looked into surgery too seriously because my student loans eat up more of my extra income and the more I can whittle away at those, the better. If I get surgery, it will probably be in Thailand -- Suporn or Chettawut.

I'm fairly over the whole tranny thing, I don't go to chatrooms or forums, I don't know any trans people in real life and I certainly don't see myself in any sort of activist role. I like boys, I like sex. Just as I was five years ago, I have zero interest in any guys who are particularly into trannies or who are bisexual in any way. I still stick to that ideal of only becoming involved with guys who I meet just normally, who only know me as a girl, and then slowly revealing my secret (though a couple times it has been revealed behind my back by friends who knew).

I'm currently interested in two guys. One was someone I was involved with (mostly just sexually) in college a few years back and have maintained a friendship with (though mostly not in person) and we've talked about getting back together or at least hooking up. The other is a new boy who I don't know as well, but met through friends.

The first guy, when we became involved, I told him before we had even kissed. He very slowly became more and more comfortable with my body. The new guy, we didn't even talk about my transness really before we had sex. He found out after he had met me, from mutual friends. But we didn't talk really about it. Indeed, when we were making out in bed I was nervous because I wasn't entirely positive he really grasped the situation or what exactly he knew. But I went down on him (briefly) and then he went down on me. None of the guys I had been with before had ever gone down on me but were always kind of dubious about it (though I'm sure if I had longer relationships, it would have happened). It was just for a little while and then he came up and said, "I've never done anything like that before."

He was away for the summer so I haven't really seen him much but he told me that he's fantasized a lot about that night and the idea of taking me in his mouth was very fascinating and attractive to him. I've never been much for receiving oral sex (no bio-guys have gone down on me but GGs, FTMs and MTFs have) but in terms of acceptance of my body as sexual was what was more important. We're just starting this thing and seeing if it goes anywhere but I think he's much more comfortable with my body right off the bat than other guys have been. He has still been going through the "Does this make me gay thing?" and we've talked about that and what it means (I told him, "Not to mention exes but you are not the first guy I've had this conversation with, it's an extremely common worry.").

So he is fascinated by my penis but the other guy, who I was formerly involved with, seems much more ambivalent on the subject. He likes me for me, but he would probably be happier if I was a GG. We've talked about surgery before but he hasn't really said one way or the other what he would prefer.

As someone said above, of course I would rather be a GG than a tranny but that's not really a possibility. The question is only whether I want what is surgically possible or not. It's not like I'm going to have ovaries and a uterus and everything and be a normal woman. I'm simply going to be a tranny with a neo-vagina, which isn't nearly as appealing.

I'm 25 years old. When I was 18 or 20, being a tranny was very enticing -- scary but enticing. I was thinner and cuter and more bold about guys. But it's one thing for a guy to be into a cute little 20 year old with a penis, but could I imagine being a 60 year old woman with a penis? Could I imagine still having to take spiro when I'm 60?!? What about if I go to the hospital or die or something else happens and everyone finds out I'm a tranny? It's one thing to be looking into somebody's background and find something suspicious but to have a penis there to unequivocally define me as a tranny, that's so incredibly embarrassing. I'd rather that information be as private as possible.

I've never seen a neo-vagina up-close-and-personal so I can't say much about it other than seeing pictures online. I think having sex with a post-op would give me a much better understanding of what we're dealing with here in contrast to a natural one.

So it's an open question, I lean towards getting surgery simply because I could not imagine having a penis my entire life and having to hide it and never being able to have just normal sex. I try to be as normal as possible, I have a job (even if it sucks) where nobody knows about my condition, I do not at the moment have friends not from work who don't know but I like it when that happens, I just want to be normal. I want to have normal relationships and getting married and adopt kids (however unlikely that is to be allowed), I want resolution to this, I want to be settled into where I am going to be.

Getting surgery seems the best way to do that, not that I have any idea of how to do that, short of winning the lottery or finding a good man with a good job.

[rockabilly]

I always remember a cute redhead Zoe.

Good luck to you.

[Nicole Dupre]

If I have SRS, it will not be for a good 5 years.

I'll have an orchi much sooner; prolly within the next two years.

[tgirlzoe]

I always remember a cute redhead Zoe.

Good luck to you.

Thanks for remembering me.

I popped in because my sister was looking at porn. No, really, she said her friend's girlfriend did a Penthouse college shoot and was showing me. I said I had hotter (internet) friends who did porn...

A friend texted her and asked what she was doing, she said, "Looking at porn with my sister". LOL, yeah, we're perverts.

Anyway, the tranny drama doesn't hold my interest anymore, still I miss all you guys and girls!