*Obligatory* She don't dig ___________ people post...

[Man Fuck It]

Met this girl from a local website (name withheld), she saw my ad and decided she'd like to get to know me more (this is a TS girl). On the ad I listed everything about me, I was smart, athletic, professional, well educated, down to earth...everything except me being a half breed...well better yet, me being black. She goes on by saying how she really like what she said and asked if I could describe my physical attributes more...so I obliged. Needless to say when I typed well i'm mixed, she says, "mixed with what"...I told her, half dominican half black...she says "ummm sorry, I don't do black guys." Excuse me???!!! Mr. "Man Fuck THIS bullshit" was about to come out...but I thought about it and decided it wasn't worth it, afterall i'd probably end up aiding whatever fucked up stereotype or preconceived notion she already has about "black" guys. Funniest thing about this story is that you'd expect this girl to be white or asian (as they are mostly the TS women who don't dig bruhs) but this girl was black...lol...bruhs, I hate to say it but we are so far down the shit pole it's not even funny...how did we get stuck with the label of either: broke, illiterate, criminal, or dangerous...these (TS) women for the most part have a mortal fear of us...damn

[GroobySteven]

...how did we get stuck with the label of either: broke, illiterate, criminal, or dangerous...

Unfortuantely, from paying the cable/TV bill and going to the movies for the establishment who portray blacks as that way - as it sells.

seanchai

[TgirlloverinPA]

OK, alot of what you're going is through the media, and sometimes personal experience. Most of us white guys aren't strong enough to overpower a ts, wait, I'm drunk and this isn't the post I wanted to make. I was trying to be funny, didn't work.


Look I'm sorry. Al I can suggest is to be very, well, great withthe girls and do everything you can to break the stereotypes. B/C as a bi-male that wants 3somes with black men, we need to bridge this gap!!!!

[TgirlloverinPA]

OK, now that was funny! Or was it, dum, dum, dum!

[Kiely_Marie]

I dont label blk men like that ... I love em'!

[Man Fuck It]

...how did we get stuck with the label of either: broke, illiterate, criminal, or dangerous...

Unfortuantely, from paying the cable/TV bill and going to the movies for the establishment who portray blacks as that way - as it sells.

seanchai

true

[Man Fuck It]

I dont label blk men like that ... I love em'!

Sits, stairing at his empty inbox...Man Fuck It needs love too!

[speck]

You are probably not going to like this answer, but it is mostly the truth, and your ability to read axactly what I am saying will speak volumes about who you are.

This goes for both GG providers(streetgirls and low level providers under $300) and ts escorts.

There is the following perceptions amoung providers:

1.) Black men are cheaper than men of other races and will try to bargain, even to the point of agreeing to one price, then bringing less money with them.

2.) Black men are more likely to be rougher during sex, or perhaps even beat and rob the provider.

I don't think the above statements can be disputed. The perception DOES exist, to the point that even black pimps tell their ho's not to see black guys.

Now, the challenge to you, as a black man, is to either counter the above statements, or figure out a way around the perception. I suggest you figure a way around the perception. The best way to do this is meet the girls in person, outside of escorting...maybe a local club or something.

[magicone]

First off a BIG BULLSHIT! to the post above. Like we are all broke and over aggressive. I guess were a bunch of big black cavemen with clubs boppin women on the head draggin'em back to our caves and fucking the shit out of'em while the whites are gentle romeos that take it slow and easy

The TRUTH is Maybe its creepy for them(black tgirls) to fuck with us because we remind them of when they were just lil gurly boys and we used to beat they ass on the playgrounds and call'em sissies and punks when we were all little bad ass boys. they probably still got those bad memories ya'know? they see us as the old childhood nightmare they are trying to escape.

[RubyTS]

As a tgirl myself, i can undestand where she is coming from. Most girls wont waste their time talking, but i enjoy helping where i can.
In the years that i have been dealing with men, i must admit that although i've had some bad experiences, i thank god that mine dont compete with some stories i've heard. Girls get together sometimes and talk about things they've been through and these stories, BELIEVE ME, are horrible! Some girls get scared off and dont want to take the chance at all of having a bad encounter. They stereotype for their own safety which is totally understandable.
Im honestly surprised that after the things i have been through, i judge only the person! I could easily be racist but i know there are some good black men out there... its just that the majority mess it up for the good guys.
And in my life, every negative encounter involved a black man. I've been raped, had a gun to my head, robbed, chased by a car! I've had some traumatizing memories involving black guys but after dealing with people on a massive level, i've managed to become a pretty good judge of character! Most girls r cold and very business like, but i'm very selective and take my time getting to know the guy before meeting. Most girls wont do that, so they will immediately jump to conclusions.
I suggest that what u do is show a lot of personality with a girl! U have to make her comfortable with the tone of ur voice, without sounding fake, or trying too hard! And its easy to get mad at the girl, but understand where the problem stems from. She's only doing what she thinks is in her best interest. So if you're gonna be mad at anyone... be mad at the guys who r screwing up the rep. of being a black man!