Ladies - Are you Lonely???

[Solitary Brother]

What I am getting from you is that your unhappy with yourself and are looking to other people or other "things" for validation.
Thats what I am getting from you.
You have to be realist.....
The lifestyle of a porn star doesnt prepare you for when you are not one.
Not too many guys would think having a relationship with an ex pornstar to be an attractive option.
Im not saying its fair or right but it is what it is.
Plus being transgendered is hard enough but when you have done a lot of porn movies and escorted on top of that it make is really hard to find someone.
Your potential pool of guys ISNT that big because of some of the choices YOU made.
I could see LOTS of guys going for you IF you didnt have your former career hanging over your head because your so beautiful and undetectable.
Think about this though.....this guy is going to go through SO MUCH shit because your a very well known pornstar and lots of guys watch porn.
So your choices are a bit truncated.
You have to be realistic and that is something that most of your girls arent you want your cake and eat it too.....youve been having that way for so long.
Im just being real with you Danielle.

Look.
You have accomplished so much already....
You were born a boy and now your a BEAUTIFUL WOMAN!
Doing that is REALLY tough and you should be proud.
But dont think your owed anything or your being persecuted because your
not.
You have to be honest with YOURSELF first and start from there.

Good luck to you in your future endeavors.

[Nicole Dupre]

We've got a bitter hater here. I think that's pretty obvious.

Quit talking about yourself in the third person sweet cheeks.

You are my bitch. Bow, and suck the DONG.

[rockabilly]

We've got a bitter hater here. I think that's pretty obvious.

Quit talking about yourself in the third person sweet cheeks.

You are my bitch. Bow, and suck the DONG.

[MrsKellyPierce]

I think there are many great men out there, but a lot of men can't ever accept a womans past. Escorting and porn.....there are very few that will view this as just your past. Its just hard for a man to know that he has something that another man paid for and then the social stigma of who you are. The 'pornstar fame' and what not are all deflectors for many men. I hope you find the happiness you deserve Danielle, from meeting you, you are very fun and a sweet lady. You are obviously intelligent, beautiful, and longing for change and value in your life. Hopefully a man out there will recognize this in you!

However on the not telling him what you once were, is a personal choice. But you should want to be with a man that knows all your past and accepts it all, because then if you don't its based on a weak foundation that will just crumble. You will tie yourself up into feelings that would of never been there if he would of known from the start. You are playing with a game of win and lose, and the outcome most of the time is you lose. You are setting yourself up for failure my dear.

From dating my boyfriend he taught me how to be completely honest and if the person doesn't like it from the first time talking they can move on or choose to stay. That way there are no surprises, you dont waste time, and no true feelings are invested. On our first conversation he told me everything about his past etc, I told him most of mine but I left out that I have dabbled in escorting here and there. He found out and was very mad, but luckily he forgave me. He told me if he would of known from the start that I escorted we would not be dating and we would not still be talking. I told him my whole past, pleading for him to forgive me. How I ashamed of myself I am, and how it made me feel when I did it. I told him the reasons I did it (surgeries) it was very freeing. It taught me from now on to be honest a 100 percent, because skeletons pop up always! Now he knows everything about me and I think we are moving on and moving forward with no secrets. Thats the kind of love everyone should have!


Porn has given me many things in life, its helped me transition. It's helped me to have the option to go back to school, and other financial oppurtunities. For me though the social stigma that comes with it is almost not worth it. Some may view that as weak of me, however the being recognized in public, and the pre-judgements that you go through have made me very depressed myself and I sometimes can't deal. Its the reason I have been on hiatus for the extent I have been on. I get emotional when I go on a set. So I feel you Danielle in many ways. Sometimes I think to myself I would of rather stayed with out surgeries than have led a life of porn and sex, then other days I thank my lucky stars for the things it has brought me. The social relationships and romantic relationships are when I regret it most. It just kills your heart when someone doesn't see you for who you really are, and they only see the 'pornstar' before them and the person they think you are. I only wish you the best Danielle! You know that!

XoXo

Kelly

[jason-brown]

Nicole, as much as I adore you this thread isn't about you, it's about Danielle. As my previous comment was deleted allow me to rephrase.

Danielle, you are lucky that he only bitched you out over the phone and didn't physically harm you. There are men, one in CO actually, who will beat a girl to death when they find out she was born a man. Honesty is always a good policy, or if you're going to lie make sure he can't google the lie and find you out (I assume you told him your porn name for some silly reason)

[Nicole Dupre]

Nicole, as much as I adore you this thread isn't about you, it's about Danielle. As my previous comment was deleted allow me to rephrase.

Danielle, you are lucky that he only bitched you out over the phone and didn't physically harm you. There are men, one in CO actually, who will beat a girl to death when they find out she was born a man. Honesty is always a good policy, or if you're going to lie make sure he can't google the lie and find you out (I assume you told him your porn name for some silly reason)

How would you know how lucky she is, sociopath?

[Nicole Dupre]

This guy's agenda is interesting. He's an HD guy for sure, and has issues with everyone but his own forum's queen.

[jason-brown]

Nicole, as much as I adore you this thread isn't about you, it's about Danielle. As my previous comment was deleted allow me to rephrase.

Danielle, you are lucky that he only bitched you out over the phone and didn't physically harm you. There are men, one in CO actually, who will beat a girl to death when they find out she was born a man. Honesty is always a good policy, or if you're going to lie make sure he can't google the lie and find you out (I assume you told him your porn name for some silly reason)

How would you know how lucky she is, sociopath?

Put down the pipe Nicole and slowly walk away. Let me explain it again so that maybe this time you'll understand.

Danielle, you are lucky that he only bitched you out over the phone and didn't physically harm you. There are men, one in CO actually, who will beat a girl to death when they find out she was born a man.

Read that again and then tell me if you still don't understand. She wasn't physically harmed and for that she is lucky.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

Nicole, as much as I adore you this thread isn't about you, it's about Danielle. As my previous comment was deleted allow me to rephrase.

Danielle, you are lucky that he only bitched you out over the phone and didn't physically harm you. There are men, one in CO actually, who will beat a girl to death when they find out she was born a man. Honesty is always a good policy, or if you're going to lie make sure he can't google the lie and find you out (I assume you told him your porn name for some silly reason)

How would you know how lucky she is, sociopath?

Put down the pipe Nicole and slowly walk away. Let me explain it again so that maybe this time you'll understand.

Danielle, you are lucky that he only bitched you out over the phone and didn't physically harm you. There are men, one in CO actually, who will beat a girl to death when they find out she was born a man.

Read that again and then tell me if you still don't understand. She wasn't physically harmed and for that she is lucky.

I watched that court case and what's interesting about the Colorado guy is that for someone who didn't know she was transgendered he sure did go to govt. officiated buildings with her weeks before..........

[Nicole Dupre]

Read that again and then tell me if you still don't understand. She wasn't physically harmed and for that she is lucky.

I can read, Jason, and I question why you made the association. You made a point with your deleted post, so don't try insulting our intelligence. You're "courage" bs was just as transparent.