This a question for all the ladies.

[magicone]

How do you feel about bottoms? Do you have more respect for men who treat you like genetic women and top you, or men who want to play the girl and get popped in the ass?

It seems to me you all spend this great amount of money to get all lady like and dolled up so men will see you as you feel, female.

So doesnt it defeat the whole purpose when you have to bend over some dude and basically be a regular gay man? Im just asking the girls so all you bottom fellas fall back and read their responses.

[NickTheQuick]

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[WendyWilliams]

So when a genetic female puts on a strap on and fucks a guy is she now labeled a "gay" man. I think you guys who dont bottom try and worry about someone else's asshole.

I love living as Wendy, I feel whole and complete. What do I consider myself? Nothing but Wendy. Labels are ways society try and discriminate therefore I dont make those judgement calls. If you are attracted to females and the feminie qualities of a woman and you happen to have a freaky side whether its with a butt plug, a strap-on or a transsexual dick that guys is nothing more than being freaky not gay.

Does it bother me, hell no. I am a sexual individual and love the way a masucline man makes me feel when I look into his eyes and he has total control of my body and then on the flip side I love the control and feeling I get when I am the top. I still live my life as a female and am perceived than why should I allow others to define my sexual positions as who I am? On the same note if a guy is comfortable with his sexuality that he feels comfortable enough to explore bottom aspects as long as he is having sex with transsexuals and females I feel he is living a heterosexual lifestyle.

[AllanahStarrNYC]

Does a sexual position identify your physical attraction to another gender?

If a woman, gg, stick her finger in a man's ass while sucking his dick, or licks his ass- does that purely make him gay?

Ok let us go back to the basics-

Heterosexual- You like the oppsite sex.

HomoSexual- You like the same sex.

BiSexual- You like both sexes.

Now what happens if you like transsexuals? There is no word for that is there?

Sexuality is a vast and complex subject that can not be defined and regulated into those three categories primarily because they do not aplly to everyone.

I am what I am , and because a man likes a dick in his ass does not make him less of a man than any other man. I have met many gay men, who were more "men" a lot of straight guys I know.

What makes a man a man is not what he likes in bed dear- same applies to a woman.

[The American Nightmare]

Does a sexual position identify your physical attraction to another gender?

If a woman, gg, stick her finger in a man's ass while sucking his dick, or licks his ass- does that purely make him gay?

Ok let us go back to the basics-

Heterosexual- You like the oppsite sex.

HomoSexual- You like the same sex.

BiSexual- You like both sexes.

Now what happens if you like transsexuals? There is no word for that is there?

Sexuality is a vast and complex subject that can not be defined and regulated into those three categories primarily because they do not aplly to everyone.

I am what I am , and because a man likes a dick in his ass does not make him less of a man than any other man. I have met many gay men, who were more "men" a lot of straight guys I know.

What makes a man a man is not what he likes in bed dear- same applies to a woman.

That sums up the subject perfectly.

Now I'm absolutely certain that this topic will never come up, ever again!

[ezed]

I love living as Wendy, I feel whole and complete. What do I consider myself? Nothing but Wendy. Labels are ways society try and discriminate therefore I dont make those judgement calls. If you are attracted to females and the feminie qualities of a woman and you happen to have a freaky side whether its with a butt plug, a strap-on or a transsexual dick that guys is nothing more than being freaky not gay.

Does it bother me, hell no. I am a sexual individual and love the way a masucline man makes me feel when I look into his eyes and he has total control of my body and then on the flip side I love the control and feeling I get when I am the top. I still live my life as a female and am perceived than why should I allow others to define my sexual positions as who I am? On the same note if a guy is comfortable with his sexuality that he feels comfortable enough to explore bottom aspects as long as he is having sex with transsexuals and females I feel he is living a heterosexual lifestyle.

With this reponse, you nailed it!!!!! Key phrases..."I am a sexual individual" and "when I look into his eyes ". The definitions, the convenient category boxes, which society MUST PLACE EVERY INDIVIDUAL IN OR ELSE THEY CANNOT SLEEP AT NIGHT KNOWING THAT THERE IS AN ORGANISM OUT THERE THAT HAS NOT BEEN DEFINED AND IS RUNNING AROUND UNBOXED!!!!! It's not the definition... it's the heat and desire that is generated when the eyes connect, and then the warmth of skin on skin, and then the telepathic message communicated through the eyes, that says I am so attracted to this individual that I want to make this beauty as satisfied as possible. The greatest pleasure is feeling their body quiver in unbridled ecstasy....and seeing their eyes when they do.

If you inhibit your passion due to preconcive notion you will never experience the ultimate ecstacy. And you will always wonder as you type on the keyboard ... saying "heh, heh....heh, heh....heh, heh (picture Bevis and Butthead) heh heh....that's gay!"

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By the way, Wendy if your ever in Boston, I would love to make eye contact with you, but I must let you know I'm 51...oh fuck it who am I kidding, you got it nailed kid....if we do meet, whatever happens or doesn't so be it, you got it nailed.

[ezed]

why when you type a long message does it double post

[hwbs]

just take your time and let it upload....sometimes if u dont get confirmation, it is still loaded on the board...

[leasly]

angela, you are such a grovy chick baby

[cheribaum]

Its called an oxymoron and it really annoys me that men actually think us t-girls would rather be a top than a bottom. It's one thing when some hot straight boy wants to get topped by me and its another when a 250 lbs. guy wants to lay on his back and have me put his legs over my shoulder, I am not some heavyweight so topping most men is uncomfortable, dissatisfying, and more of a work out than a pleasant experience, especially when they have A SHITTY KITTY!!

Some guys actually freak out when I tell them topping doesnt turn me on, Its just like "magicone" said, Im not a ts nor do I get all dolled up because i want to be butch and top a man, It makes me want to tell them to go out and find a "gay boy" or crossdresser to top them. It's the truth about how I feel about the subject. Now mind you, the hornier I am the more willing I am to do it.... Some men get lucky and thats all I want to do w/ them. It really depends on the mood. Sometimes I'd rather top the guy than have him penetrate me just to get the session over, The guys always say, "I want to satisfy you" and with saying that, their legs are in the air or their ass is up in my face.... T-girls in porn are getting paid more for their work than say a ts escort, So we arent as enthusiastic about certain things that you guys see the T-girls doing in the videos. Porn is acting and believe me I can be an actress, But dont ask me if I want to top you, cuz Ill honestly tell you "no" I don't. And please dont assume just because I got a HARD dick that I want to stick it in ur butt!!!
I get paid to do my job, so If theres something you want, Just tell me to do it. Otherwise Im really not interested in topping you!

I realize this post is going to turn a lot of people off and I may be crossing some lines, but get real... I doubt most girls want to top a man taller or heavier in body weight than them...