I'm dating a Tgirl .... It's not so easy as I thouhgt !

[Alyssa87]

maybe this is because i'm damaged (or blessed- depends how u look @ it) but..

if you can muster up the guts to cut unsupportive people out of your life, you'll be happier for it.

even if that leaves you with a few.


to me, it felt good. like cleaning the house, or doing a disk cleanup.

[jaycanuck]

maybe this is because i'm damaged (or blessed- depends how u look @ it) but..

it you can muster up the guts to cut unsupportive people out of your life, you'll be happier for it.

even if that leaves you with a few.


to me, it felt good. like cleaning the house, or doing a disk cleanup.

+1

[JonnyT]

maybe this is because i'm damaged (or blessed- depends how u look @ it) but..

if you can muster up the guts to cut unsupportive people out of your life, you'll be happier for it.

even if that leaves you with a few.


to me, it felt good. like cleaning the house, or doing a disk cleanup.

easier for some than others im sure but thats what it takes and things still mght not work out.

[Alyssa87]

maybe this is because i'm damaged (or blessed- depends how u look @ it) but..

if you can muster up the guts to cut unsupportive people out of your life, you'll be happier for it.

even if that leaves you with a few.


to me, it felt good. like cleaning the house, or doing a disk cleanup.

easier for some than others im sure but thats what it takes and things still mght not work out.

whether it works out or not, the attraction to tgirls remains i assume.
better that you be open and know who really loves YOU- and not just parts of you.

[jaycanuck]

I'm not going to lie....I've been into tgirls for about 20 years now...and when I was younger I'd purge (throw out my videos) because I was worried about what others would think.

About 10 years ago I realized that this interest wasn't going away anytime soon...nor did I want it to. I also realized that this is my life and I have only 1 of them....so I began enjoying it in whatever way I wanted.

As well, the fear that you have in others finding out....may not be the same across the board. I was afraid but found that my friends or family didn't care. And as Alyssa said....to those who do care...fuck em. They aren't living your life.

[SarahG]

maybe this is because i'm damaged (or blessed- depends how u look @ it) but..

if you can muster up the guts to cut unsupportive people out of your life, you'll be happier for it.

even if that leaves you with a few.


to me, it felt good. like cleaning the house, or doing a disk cleanup.

Absolutely!

Unless you have a thing for drama, hostility, and self punishment there's no real reason for anyone to stay around people who are mean or belligerent.

[DaLonelyGuyNJ]

Dude.....some advisories:

1) Ditch the so-called friends.
2) Many people go through life never finding someone they love and care for, if you find that person, GO FOR IT!
3) Tell your family you are the same person you have always been.

[Martin C.]

Hi friends, I really appreciate all the advices you gave me. Now I'm here with my Tgirlfriend reading the posts you guys wrote and there're some that really worked for me. Our relationship got more serious today 'cause we made an HIV tests and we are ok (but comdons forever) and talking a lot about our lifes. The advices worked for me mostly 'cause she has a open mind ,,, but like Kelly Shore said my girlfriend is understanding that I'm going through. I'm working each day to fuck the unsupportive people. Thanks guys!!!

[dc_guy_75]

If you're reading the thread with your gf, it means you're both communicative with eachother, I think..

I've been there, and will probably experience (what you're going through) again...

You're not alone, I hope you have the strength and mindset to deal with it all.

[fred41]

Best of luck to the both of you in whatever future paths you choose.