WHATS THE BEST AGE TO LEAVE ESCORTING??? HOW LONG IS 2 LONG?

[Danielle Foxx]

WHEN THE WOMAN U LOVE LOOKS IN THE MIRROR AND SAYS IM DYING INSIDE DAY BY DAY. THEN YOU SAY STOP BABY. SHE SAYS U DONT UNDERSTAND IT CHANGES YOU IN WAYS U CAN IMAGINE. IS THIS ALL I AM? THE THINGS I HAVE DONE ARE BURNED IN MY MEMORY FOREVER. MAYBE THIS IS A GOOD TIME TO GET OUT. WHAT DO YOU THINK GIRLS. BECAUSE WE ARE BOTH DYING A LITTLE EACH DAY.

I know people don't believe in psychics however I was a bit skeptical because of my history with spirituality as a child, so...

I was at a plastic surgeon's office who my friend was doing business with and waiting in the room. So the doctor comes in and starts asking me about personal sexual encounters with females and males. He says he seen a peace of me would die each day.

I took that to heart. My soul was empty and my life had no purpose.

Then I found Jesus

JUST KIDDING ! hahahahahah

[Hannibal Lecter]

Psychological imbalance - you are affected by this phenomenon in the early beginning of your "career", in fact, that is the cause of starting it off.

That thing, "psychological imbalance" is in fact a main reason for most of the ladies to start with that somewhat oddly named thing like "business" and "career"
and "industry" and whatever, which is nothing but simply abnormal way of living your life. And things like "I'm doing this in order to survive, get my surgeries done"
etc are mostly a plain bullshit, so to speak. Just have a look at some other ordinary people: Do i really have to sell my ass to buy me a house, a tv, car etc ?
No. I'll take a loan and work hard. But if i am sexually addicted to that oddly way of living, or if i desperately want to become rich in a cheap and somewhat miserable way,
then hell, let's do it, why not.

The sad thing, however, is that many people here are in one way or another always trying to make a logical connection with prostitution and transsexualism
as things that are mutualy inclusive. That's wrong. Only a small percent of transsexuals are "sex workers", and it's allways been the case. Statements
like "More and more you hear of girls growing up to be just like regular folk" are totally wrong, because it's always been a case, we always had plenty
of the girls trying to live normal (and regular) lives from the beginning to the end. Seeing all theese "sex workers" trying to show themselves in a light
of self-declared front end representatives of transsexualism in it's entirety is nothing but sad.

So, the best age to leave escorting? Well, if you are an escort, then you are having worst ages of your life, and when you leave escorting, then your life begins for real..

[Danielle Foxx]

That thing, "psychological imbalance" is in fact a main reason for most of the ladies to start with that somewhat oddly named thing like "business" and "career" and "industry" and whatever, which is nothing but simply abnormal way of living your life. And things like "I'm doing this in order to survive, get my surgeries done"

Possibly true but like I said... kids are not bread to be hookers nor will they be if they have good positive influences in their lives, less oppression, more understanding... That's all we need - Love
It is the cure for it all.

Just have a look at some other ordinary people: Do i really have to sell my ass to buy me a house, a tv, car etc ?
No. I'll take a loan and work hard. But if i am sexually addicted to that oddly way of living, or if i desperately want to become rich in a cheap and somewhat miserable way, then hell, let's do it, why not.

I seen people prostitute what they believe in to work for a corporation, lawyers who hate their jobs...
As far as loans... you have to have an established income to be able to get a loan these days. It is extremely difficult unless you have near to perfect credit. But that is not the point. It is the "American" trend to live in a nice house, drive a nice car, eat great food at expensive restaurants and yet your credit card bill and loans could brake you if the wind blew the wrong way.

That is one of the reasons why so many "rich" folk are in a bad situation with the economy and all.

My car is payed off, my school loan is down to $3000 I have 3 credit cards with a 1500 balance that I use to build my credit. I have only my rent and utilities to pay, which is more then most americans can say. I only spend money when I have it to spend. I don't buy on credit simply because it isn't my money to use as I wish.

The sad thing, however, is that many people here are in one way or another always trying to make a logical connection with prostitution and transsexualism
as things that are mutualy inclusive. That's wrong. Only a small percent of transsexuals are "sex workers", and it's allways been the case. Statements
like "More and more you hear of girls growing up to be just like regular folk" are totally wrong, because it's always been a case, we always had plenty
of the girls trying to live normal (and regular) lives from the beginning to the end. Seeing all theese "sex workers" trying to show themselves in a light
of self-declared front end representatives of transsexualism in it's entirety is nothing but sad.

So, the best age to leave escorting? Well, if you are an escort, then you are having worst ages of your life, and when you leave escorting, then your life begins for real..

Your ideal of "good light" is extremely negative, even if your words speak of a truth that is painted with sorrow and judgement.
I am not sure if you actually have any experience in the trassexual community aside from sitting behind a computer screen basing your opinions of what a transsexual is by looking at sites such as these.

I am sure you and my therapist ( who is also a TG ) have a lot to discuss. My former therapist is actually an ex porn star who went to college while she was doing movies and escorting. Now she has turned her life around.

It is sick to me that people judge prostitution and something so horrible and yet they are only bring people pleasure ( and an occasional std or 2 ), and yet the ones who are so harsh in their views, and those who practive oppression think of themselves as "know it all ".

Puzzling how a former escort and porn star can seem so in-tune with what's real isn't it?

Judging people on the paths they take is not fair. Everyone has a destiny and we cannot help where life takes us, we just flow through it. Of corse we can change how we perceive problems and hardships as simply a lesson to be learned. If one focuses on such acts in a negative light then yes... It could have some severe psychological side effects.

We are all born pure, humanity and the environment is what pollutes us.

There are many reasons for my depression and trust me when I tell you this... It has NOTHING to do with adult work. AT ALL ! It has all to do with the fact I wish I was born a genetic woman. It gets to me, it haunts me, it lingers in my mind and it weighs my soul, but as my logical side speaks it tells me that life is in the future and not in the past and we should all make our marks in the world and help those who are less fortunate. That gives me purpose in life, fulfillment, passion, makes me driven, gives me power, energy, good karma.

[MacShreach]

Then I found Jesus

JUST KIDDING ! hahahahahah

Waah! You had me going, there. kiddo.

[MacShreach]

There are many reasons for my depression and trust me when I tell you this... It has NOTHING to do with adult work. AT ALL ! It has all to do with the fact I wish I was born a genetic woman. It gets to me, it haunts me, it lingers in my mind and it weighs my soul, but as my logical side speaks it tells me that life is in the future and not in the past and we should all make our marks in the world and help those who are less fortunate. That gives me purpose in life, fulfillment, passion, makes me driven, gives me power, energy, good karma.

Honey, I can't walk the mile in your shoes. You know that. So I can't see it from inside. What I can say, though is that I have known many women, and from our online exchanges, you are a witty, intelligent, funny, kindhearted, warm, and caring WOMAN.

It may not help, but Peggy said a while ago, "It doesn't matter how we got here, we're just women." I know that there are things you can't have because of your history, but when all is said and done, you do have a lot.

[Hannibal Lecter]

That thing, "psychological imbalance" is in fact a main reason for most of the ladies to start with that somewhat oddly named thing like "business" and "career" and "industry" and whatever, which is nothing but simply abnormal way of living your life. And things like "I'm doing this in order to survive, get my surgeries done"

Possibly true but like I said... kids are not bread to be hookers nor will they be if they have good positive influences in their lives, less oppression, more understanding... That's all we need - Love
It is the cure for it all.

Just have a look at some other ordinary people: Do i really have to sell my ass to buy me a house, a tv, car etc ?
No. I'll take a loan and work hard. But if i am sexually addicted to that oddly way of living, or if i desperately want to become rich in a cheap and somewhat miserable way, then hell, let's do it, why not.

I seen people prostitute what they believe in to work for a corporation, lawyers who hate their jobs...
As far as loans... you have to have an established income to be able to get a loan these days. It is extremely difficult unless you have near to perfect credit. But that is not the point. It is the "American" trend to live in a nice house, drive a nice car, eat great food at expensive restaurants and yet your credit card bill and loans could brake you if the wind blew the wrong way.

That is one of the reasons why so many "rich" folk are in a bad situation with the economy and all.

My car is payed off, my school loan is down to $3000 I have 3 credit cards with a 1500 balance that I use to build my credit. I have only my rent and utilities to pay, which is more then most americans can say. I only spend money when I have it to spend. I don't buy on credit simply because it isn't my money to use as I wish.

The sad thing, however, is that many people here are in one way or another always trying to make a logical connection with prostitution and transsexualism
as things that are mutualy inclusive. That's wrong. Only a small percent of transsexuals are "sex workers", and it's allways been the case. Statements
like "More and more you hear of girls growing up to be just like regular folk" are totally wrong, because it's always been a case, we always had plenty
of the girls trying to live normal (and regular) lives from the beginning to the end. Seeing all theese "sex workers" trying to show themselves in a light
of self-declared front end representatives of transsexualism in it's entirety is nothing but sad.

So, the best age to leave escorting? Well, if you are an escort, then you are having worst ages of your life, and when you leave escorting, then your life begins for real..

Your ideal of "good light" is extremely negative, even if your words speak of a truth that is painted with sorrow and judgement.
I am not sure if you actually have any experience in the trassexual community aside from sitting behind a computer screen basing your opinions of what a transsexual is by looking at sites such as these.

I am sure you and my therapist ( who is also a TG ) have a lot to discuss. My former therapist is actually an ex porn star who went to college while she was doing movies and escorting. Now she has turned her life around.

It is sick to me that people judge prostitution and something so horrible and yet they are only bring people pleasure ( and an occasional std or 2 ), and yet the ones who are so harsh in their views, and those who practive oppression think of themselves as "know it all ".

Puzzling how a former escort and porn star can seem so in-tune with what's real isn't it?

Judging people on the paths they take is not fair. Everyone has a destiny and we cannot help where life takes us, we just flow through it. Of corse we can change how we perceive problems and hardships as simply a lesson to be learned. If one focuses on such acts in a negative light then yes... It could have some severe psychological side effects.

We are all born pure, humanity and the environment is what pollutes us.

There are many reasons for my depression and trust me when I tell you this... It has NOTHING to do with adult work. AT ALL ! It has all to do with the fact I wish I was born a genetic woman. It gets to me, it haunts me, it lingers in my mind and it weighs my soul, but as my logical side speaks it tells me that life is in the future and not in the past and we should all make our marks in the world and help those who are less fortunate. That gives me purpose in life, fulfillment, passion, makes me driven, gives me power, energy, good karma.

I won't try to discuss our opposite opinions further on, simply because i see in front of me an endless loop of negativity
and that is nothing i'm looking forward to. Not any more. I have made that mistake few times before and i do not want it to
happen again. Both you and me are decent people and we really do not deserve that kind of situation.

In fact, i would like to give you a big credit for being brutally honest, ambitios, goal-oriented and brave. A girl
of that size, those qualities and that strength, but unfortunately... I will not finish that sentence, i will keep it
for myself, because it seems to me that whatever i say it will only bring me trouble and nothing else. Do i deserve that?
No, i do not.

One thing that we seem to have in common is our horrible past. I will not tell you about my history, it's not relevant here,
i will only point out that i am, pretty much like you, depressive because of just that - the history. And the cure is,
as you mentioned it yourself, to forget the past and look into the future. And even more important, to prevent the history
from happening again.

[Danielle Foxx]

That thing, "psychological imbalance" is in fact a main reason for most of the ladies to start with that somewhat oddly named thing like "business" and "career" and "industry" and whatever, which is nothing but simply abnormal way of living your life. And things like "I'm doing this in order to survive, get my surgeries done"

Possibly true but like I said... kids are not bread to be hookers nor will they be if they have good positive influences in their lives, less oppression, more understanding... That's all we need - Love
It is the cure for it all.

Just have a look at some other ordinary people: Do i really have to sell my ass to buy me a house, a tv, car etc ?
No. I'll take a loan and work hard. But if i am sexually addicted to that oddly way of living, or if i desperately want to become rich in a cheap and somewhat miserable way, then hell, let's do it, why not.

I seen people prostitute what they believe in to work for a corporation, lawyers who hate their jobs...
As far as loans... you have to have an established income to be able to get a loan these days. It is extremely difficult unless you have near to perfect credit. But that is not the point. It is the "American" trend to live in a nice house, drive a nice car, eat great food at expensive restaurants and yet your credit card bill and loans could brake you if the wind blew the wrong way.

That is one of the reasons why so many "rich" folk are in a bad situation with the economy and all.

My car is payed off, my school loan is down to $3000 I have 3 credit cards with a 1500 balance that I use to build my credit. I have only my rent and utilities to pay, which is more then most americans can say. I only spend money when I have it to spend. I don't buy on credit simply because it isn't my money to use as I wish.

The sad thing, however, is that many people here are in one way or another always trying to make a logical connection with prostitution and transsexualism
as things that are mutualy inclusive. That's wrong. Only a small percent of transsexuals are "sex workers", and it's allways been the case. Statements
like "More and more you hear of girls growing up to be just like regular folk" are totally wrong, because it's always been a case, we always had plenty
of the girls trying to live normal (and regular) lives from the beginning to the end. Seeing all theese "sex workers" trying to show themselves in a light
of self-declared front end representatives of transsexualism in it's entirety is nothing but sad.

So, the best age to leave escorting? Well, if you are an escort, then you are having worst ages of your life, and when you leave escorting, then your life begins for real..

Your ideal of "good light" is extremely negative, even if your words speak of a truth that is painted with sorrow and judgement.
I am not sure if you actually have any experience in the trassexual community aside from sitting behind a computer screen basing your opinions of what a transsexual is by looking at sites such as these.

I am sure you and my therapist ( who is also a TG ) have a lot to discuss. My former therapist is actually an ex porn star who went to college while she was doing movies and escorting. Now she has turned her life around.

It is sick to me that people judge prostitution and something so horrible and yet they are only bring people pleasure ( and an occasional std or 2 ), and yet the ones who are so harsh in their views, and those who practive oppression think of themselves as "know it all ".

Puzzling how a former escort and porn star can seem so in-tune with what's real isn't it?

Judging people on the paths they take is not fair. Everyone has a destiny and we cannot help where life takes us, we just flow through it. Of corse we can change how we perceive problems and hardships as simply a lesson to be learned. If one focuses on such acts in a negative light then yes... It could have some severe psychological side effects.

We are all born pure, humanity and the environment is what pollutes us.

There are many reasons for my depression and trust me when I tell you this... It has NOTHING to do with adult work. AT ALL ! It has all to do with the fact I wish I was born a genetic woman. It gets to me, it haunts me, it lingers in my mind and it weighs my soul, but as my logical side speaks it tells me that life is in the future and not in the past and we should all make our marks in the world and help those who are less fortunate. That gives me purpose in life, fulfillment, passion, makes me driven, gives me power, energy, good karma.

I won't try to discuss our opposite opinions further on, simply because i see in front of me an endless loop of negativity
and that is nothing i'm looking forward to. Not any more. I have made that mistake few times before and i do not want it to
happen again. Both you and me are decent people and we really do not deserve that kind of situation.

In fact, i would like to give you a big credit for being brutally honest, ambitios, goal-oriented and brave. A girl
of that size, those qualities and that strength, but unfortunately... I will not finish that sentence, i will keep it
for myself, because it seems to me that whatever i say it will only bring me trouble and nothing else. Do i deserve that?
No, i do not.

One thing that we seem to have in common is our horrible past. I will not tell you about my history, it's not relevant here,
i will only point out that i am, pretty much like you, depressive because of just that - the history. And the cure is,
as you mentioned it yourself, to forget the past and look into the future. And even more important, to prevent the history
from happening again.

The reason why we are not going to discuss it further is because you have a very radical way of seeing this topic. I on the other hand have a more passionate soul driven answer.

Life is worth more when one attempts to see it in good light and it doesn't matter if you sell it for 25 cents or 1000 dollars, it matters how strong your mind and heart are.

There is no argument there. However I can see how your past has made you a very cold individual when it comes to your opinions, and I empathize.

[peggygee]

Insightful responses, and an interesting contrast to this thread - Why do so many TS go into escorting?

[Nicole Dupre]

A. When your hole is all dried up and rancid
B. When you need the time to take up the accordion
C. When human trafficking becomes more lucrative
D. When your drug connection gets locked up
E. When Dancing with the Stars starts in a few minutes

[sugdaddie69]

Most,not all will continue to "escort" even after transitioning is complete,accustom to a lifestyle,pay bills,etc.gettin' out the game isn't easy in any hustle.even the physical transitioning is usually build around being a escort,as oppose to releasing some inter-woman.Its not true for all,but it is for most.you stay in the game until it doesn't want you any longer,or until you die.