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    Default WHATS THE BEST AGE TO LEAVE ESCORTING??? HOW LONG IS 2 LONG?

    WHATS BEST AGE YOU THINK...FOR T.S TO GET OUT OF ESCORTING & SETTLE DOWN & SAY GET MARRIED OR BE WITH 1 MAN???

    POST YOUR THOUGHTS...



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    this should be good



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    until the die



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    Before one has an arrest and or criminal record.

    *LOL*



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    In my personal life,

    I was working to get what I needed done as far as transition. Not only that but to give myself some kind of work after adult work. I had focus and ambitions, they were not just dreams filled with self doubt.

    I think hopefully these young women that are just now starting to escort think wisely about those who came before them, where are they now, where were they then.

    Use your examples wisely. I have seen some ladies fall flat on their face publicly and personally due to bad examples and empty dreams.

    I think a lady is too old when she thinks she is too old, or obviously when she isn't paying for her advertising and travel expenses anymore. When business dries out then you know it is time to move on.

    Age is nothing but a number. I know several ladies in their fourties who escort and who are extremely well kept and classy.


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    WHAT?! You mean you're all just wasting my time?!!

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    I agree Danielle! Till you cant pay that ad anymore!
    I am not tied to just escorting, so now I just do it for the extra money for my drag costumes and to travel.
    I used escorting to pay for my transition and live comfortable and safe while I was doing it. Now after I get my new breast implants in october, I will be at where I want to be and how I wanted to look. So it will even be less relevant in my life.
    I have a job now and in school to get my certifications to become a counselor. And I will be going back on stage with my real love in life, my drag shows.
    I am making a whole new wardrobe and updating the costumes I already have.
    Escorting for me was a means to the end, but not the end in itself. Of course now I will just see clients if I feel like it. The freedom of not depending on that to get thru in life, I am a much happier person.



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    On A More Serious Note:

    Have always felt and stated that one should "work" as a means to an end, then get out and move on.

    The "end" could be medical/transitioning costs, education, short term financial need, or long term financial goal, whatever, the thing to do is have some sort of goal that upon reached, one quits.

    By and large when one is "new" and or "young" hoe, that is probably the time when an escort is going to bring in his or her most income. Leaving aside certain "stars", most peak after that, then it is a slow decline. New photos, body and or face work may lessen or slow the decline, but with the advent of review sites, word get around fast. Also the ever increasing number of new and fresh competition entering the market tends to lower the rates of "older" workers. Again, leaving aside stars and famous performers, but even then.

    For long as there have been hoes and madames, smart ones took their profits and did something with them that would or could provide them with income aside from escorting. This could range from investing to purchasing real estate, or laying the groundwork for a "legit" business or trade.

    IMHO it has always been the height of good taste to leave anything when one is on top of one's game. If an escort once took in $1000 from dates, and now can barely get $200 or less, then it is time to move on. In short when an escort finds he or she is working harder and making less money, it is a clear signal their shelf life has expired.

    OTHO, if an escort "retires" while he or she is still fresh, then a come-back tour every now and then will be warmly greeted.



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    Very well said.

    Business aside, this also has more to do with psychological imbalance then money, really...

    Sex work is in trans history, as our society is exposed to more and more ladies such as Candice Caine, Calpernia Adams, Roberta Close, even Gia Darling and her empire. Kids eventually will see that there is hope for the outcasts as well.

    It is an understatement when I say that the influence for the internet media has made a tremendous impact in trans life. More and more you hear of girls growing up to be just like regular folk.

    When trans women were more in oppression there was a higher number of ladies who would turn to sex work, on a psychological note that seems to be related to oppression and not self worth as much.

    Even older ladies who had given up hope have recently revived their lives and are doing extremely well for themselves such as Meghan Chevalier. Who continues to be an incredible light of inspiration with her recent accomplishments.

    Not only are the ladies doing well for themselves but also to better educate people on the internet and discussion forums. It is not all about sex anymore in chat rooms and forum, as clearly seen here by the veteran posters. Men and genetic females are seeking understanding to their own sexual urges towards trans women and taboo "hook ups" such as Eros and other working girl sites.


    It's not about age as you can see. I am 33 now and I feel more fulfilled then any time in my life and I can thank that to adult work. I hope in my "young age" I made an impression and gave people pleasure. Giving people pleasure is a great fulfilling trade, if you ask me.

    I am blabbering lol


    Quote Originally Posted by jcinva
    Quote Originally Posted by 2009AD
    ps: HA is not the place to look for love, I'm sure you know that, just wanted to remind you.
    WHAT?! You mean you're all just wasting my time?!!

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    When the skanky tricks start haggling and you stop and consider it.


    I hate being bipolar...It's fucking ace!

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    Don't escorts stop aging at 26? Lisa Lawrence has been 26 for 15 years.



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