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05-05-2009 #1
Preparing for SEX?
I have never done anal before,giving or recieving,and don't know if I would ever get a chance to.I have often wondered how you prepare for anal sex.I mean having anal sex is different from having vaginal sex,everything is not all that clean back there,neither are pussies but you get what I mean.
When you go out on the town for a good time and you meet a guy at a club and just so happen to sleep with him on a one-night-stand,I am pretty sure you don't give yourself an enema or "douche" every night thinking that you are going to get some dick.
I only ask this question because not everything is like a porno where after the dick comes out of the ass looking like it has been spit shined ready to provide the load.
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05-05-2009 #2
Re: Preparing for SEX?
Originally Posted by FIRSTTIMER
Originally Posted by jcinva
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05-05-2009 #3
Have you ever douched before going out or have done anything else to prepare for the night?
What do you do before you go out other than get ready and look pretty?
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05-05-2009 #4
Good question, one I probably need answered to be prepared for possible encounters in the future.
Common sense says that if you shave, take a shower, etc. for most formal encounters with new people, having impeccable hygiene for first time anal intimacy would seem to follow.
I'm sure enemas are common in TS vids, except that aspect is left out of the scene.
It shouldn't be messy, IMO, unless you intend for it to be.
The only "mess" should be cumming out the head of a swollen cock!!!
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05-05-2009 #5Originally Posted by giovanni_hotel
Originally Posted by jcinva
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05-05-2009 #6
I recently been giving it up, the butt tha is, to a long time friend pretty regularly. Not eating too late really helps or not doing it after just eating.
You can kind of feel "backed up" and if you do dont go exploring.
I like em hung!
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05-05-2009 #7
do some pupu before going out and wash it clean down there
enema is always the best for me
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05-05-2009 #8
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whatever you do don't use enema's or douche's every day , you're bowlsystem will become accostemed to it and will start functioning less.
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05-05-2009 #9
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Obviously from a cleanliness standpoint it would be best to give yourself an enema (or do it with your partner) beforehand to make sure your back passage is cleaned out.
However, this is not exactly good for your intestinal health. Just like any other part of your body, your rectum and colon have a fairly delicate balance, and flushing them out all the time can affect their ability to do their jobs.
I generally save deep cleanings for first time play with a new partner or for special occasions where your back door will be getting an usually long or extensive workout.
The rest of the time you should be fine if you just visit the bathroom beforehand, have good basic hygiene, and make sure that your diet is healthy. If you're getting enough fiber, especially leafy greens and fruits, you really shouldn't have too much of a problem with backed up waste. Evacuating your bowels before sex should be fine.
The most important thing though, and the thing that it seems like a lot of people forget about, is that if you're really that uncomfortable with coming into contact with someone else's waste then you really shouldn't be going anywhere near their ass. Learn to not take sex and your bodily functions too seriously and if an unexpected mess occurs you can both laugh about it.
"Reality is that which, when you stop believing in it, doesn't go away." -- Philip K. Dick
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05-05-2009 #10
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interesting topic