Taking it in the ass. An acquired taste?

[astridshayxxx]

Hey All

Actually when I was first starting out I didnt enjoy anal for like the first few times but then I started to like it and find it really erotic. At the time I had an Aussie boyfriend, okay what is it with ANZAC guys and Anal?, and actually didnt think I would enjoy it but or Butt I learned to love it.

Sort of the same with initially giving blowjobs but then again when I was younger I was much more into girls than the boys. Now love both.

I think it was partially letting myself enjoy different sexual pleasures as a girl and accepting myself more.

Cheers

Astrid Shay

[arnie666]

When I fuck a girl in the ass, I actually don't care about her douching an whatever you call it because I find quite a few girls get embarrased if there shit on your dick when you pull out and I enjoying seeing them look uncomfortable. The best time was when I fucking this girl up the arse who virtually everyone I know hated at a party, because she was a right bitch . Even when I was chatting her up she was interested she still acted like a bitch. But she got drunker and drunker and I fucked her up the arse. When I was done I went downstairs and said 'look she's shit on my dick '.

Next day she never talked to no one and even her own mates thought it was funny and people kept copying me in my accent saying 'look she's shit on my dick'.

I enjoy taking it from shemale escorts too. Why? because it's a bit naughty , I enjoy feeling dominated and used , and because strangely I know it will hurt a bit but have to take it so they get off. But they have to be very pretty though, and I pay big bucks to get very attractive girls to do it. But funnily enough I would never take a strap -on from a GG or even a finger as in relationships my shitter is exit only.

[ralph dibny]

Actually I got sick when I got shit on my dick after fucking some girl in the ass (it happens more with girls, since trannies usually are better prepared for these matters, though some accidents happen one time or another), but since anal sex is my favorite kind, I got used to it (obviously, I get up and go to the bathroom to have my dick cleaned as soon as I take my dick off her ass), and I think it´s a small price to pay for the huge pleasure given.

[RangeHova]

I have heard from some close friends who had prostate exams who said it was the first time that they ever had anything bear their assholes and they damn near came from that small amount of contact.

That gland is super sensitive. If it is touched the right way, you will enjoy it the very first time it is stimulated. It didn't hit me as being physically pleasurable until maybe my third time. The first few were just to make my ex feel like she was special (she was) and wanting to give her something no one else ever had.

For me, I only have let two very very serious girlfriends (and one very close fuck buddy) go there with me and to be honest it wasn't something either one of them really desired (not the fuck buddy). I wasn't itching to have them in me and visa versa. We did it just out of the heat of the moment and being so into one another that it just seemed to be taking sex to another level. I think the fact that there was a big emotional bond that it made it much more enjoyable.

I think if I just did it with someone who I didn't have a bond with it would feel a whole lot different, a whole lot less enjoyable. There is a certain amount of vulnerability in the act that for me would make it less enjoyable with a stranger no matter how attractive or sexy she was. I would need a lot of trust and comfort with the girl. If not I probably wouldn't be able to relax which is a vital part of the act to make it feel good. I think most guys (myself included) have that built in and built up anxiety with the asshole so it takes a lot to get past that.

In all relationships, I topped the girls 90% of the time. I much prefer to top. But on the same hand, when the moon and the stars aligned and my exes would hit it right and I was in the right mindset, had plenty of foreplay, was drunk with love, and into her completely, that act was something really special.

[Danielle Foxx]

everyone taking it in the ass...

PLEASE CLEAN YOURSELF INSIDE.

I find it akward asking a man to douche.
ive never said it directly. but ive pranced around it to no avail.

" Baby... have you ever had that not so fresh feeling??? "

[tstv_lover]

Hey All

Actually when I was first starting out I didnt enjoy anal for like the first few times but then I started to like it and find it really erotic. At the time I had an Aussie boyfriend, okay what is it with ANZAC guys and Anal?, and actually didnt think I would enjoy it but or Butt I learned to love it.

What do you mean? I'm strictly top in the relationships I've had with tgirls but never had anal sex with GGs, although that was mostly their choice!

[MacShreach]

(it happens more with girls, since trannies usually are better prepared for these matters, though some accidents happen one time or another),

+1

[GPrime]

I think a lot of it has to do with the emotional baggage you bring to the table. If you approach the idea of anal sex with the preconceived notion that anal sex (or sex in general) is somehow bad or dirty or wrong or immoral or whatever else then you are somewhat predisposed to not like it.

In talking about this with partners and friends I've also found quite a few that managed to grow up with a very uncomfortable attitude towards their own asses. It's fundamentally just another body part, and there's no real reason to regard it has horribly gross unless you're with someone who has some hygiene issues, and if that's the case you have larger problems.

This is all important because more than with any other type of sex you have to want anal sex to be enjoyable. If someone with even the most basic degree of skill starts sucking your dick you're going to feel pleasure, but anal sex can be exceedingly uncomfortable unless you are comfortable enough with your body, your partner, and the act of anal sex itself in order to relax your muscles and allow yourself to be comfortably (and pleasurably) penetrated.

This is why I get so damn mad at people who try the "oops" method of initiating anal sex. You can't just try and surprise your partner with a cock up their ass, and doing so not only gives them a negative association with anal play but makes it twice as hard for the next guy/girl to get past their anal defenses.

On a personal level, I approached anal sex with the utmost sexual curiosity and was very open to it. I was also young enough that any homophobic notions of "Oh, that's gay" hadn't entered my mind. I was therefore able to derive quite a bit of enjoyment from anal play early on, and have been lucky enough to find girls willing to indulge me.

As a man, I think anal play is particularly powerful because it allows us to experience something that is normally a "female" thing: being penetrated. Having an actual part of your partner's body inside you, whether it's a finger or a fist, is astonishingly intimate.