Dating girls not 100% passable

[dc_guy_75]

I've dated a variety of tgirls and while I've never dated a girl who was 100% passable (I'm not that lucky), I've found that if you focus the conversation on her, you tend not to notice the double-takes and people trying to listen in on the conversation.

Maybe I'm being paranoid, but I can sense it sometimes (and I realize 99% of people can give a fuck, most are just curious)

Of course, being with a tgirl, you're only experiencing a fraction of what they have to deal with everytime they go out in public...

How do people here deal with it when their date is clocked?

Any advice, I'm just trying to deal with it.

[JamesHunt]

I've dated a variety of tgirls and while I've never dated a girl who was 100% passable (I'm not that lucky), I've found that if you focus the conversation on her, you tend not to notice the double-takes and people trying to listen in on the conversation.

Maybe I'm being paranoid, but I can sense it sometimes (and I realize 99% of people can give a fuck, most are just curious)

Of course, being with a tgirl, you're only experiencing a fraction of what they have to deal with everytime they go out in public...

How do people here deal with it when their date is clocked?

Any advice, I'm just trying to deal with it.

If you're out on a date with a tranny, or even just out socializing as fellow members of the human race, and somone gives her and you that look, just grab hold of her crotch and start a heavy snogging session, they'll usually fuck off

[Jericho]

How do people here deal with it when their date is clocked?
Any advice, I'm just trying to deal with it.

Unless they really get in your face, pay 'em no mind, just ignore them.

[TsJennifer]

Wow. Thats a good point to bring up. Im curious to hear what guys say.

When I first transitioned my biggest concern was to be passable now I really dont care if people were to clock me. "So what if Im a TS, Im hotter than most women!" Thats the outlook most TS girls should have if there afraid of being clocked!

[marcelloNYC]

"Sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will never harm me."

Focus on her and only her—pay them no mind.

By saying something back, you may be provoking them to do something more. If you are alone, you first concern is protecting the woman you are with. Be smart.

[NYBURBS]

Wow. Thats a good point to bring up. Im curious to hear what guys say.

When I first transitioned my biggest concern was to be passable now I really dont care if people were to clock me. "So what if Im a TS, Im hotter than most women!" Thats the outlook most TS girls should have if there afraid of being clocked!

I think it's a matter of growing comfortable with yourself and what you like. The first time I went out on a public date with a TS I was paranoid about every glance or what people thought. Now I care far less but I think it also helps to just concentrate on the person you're out with instead of everything going on around you. It also helps if you're out in a place like NYC where people are more inclined to mind their own business. Just my two cents

[Quiet Reflections]

if you worry what others think you will end up very lonely. there is no such thing as 100% passable even the hottest get clocked on occasion I'm sure. just treat them like the ladies they are and you will be fine

[jaycanuck]

Don't care. I was with a girl on a street car one night and a lot of people around us were staring. I just didn't acknowledge. I saw the hotness I had with me.

[TsJANIRA]

If you care about the person it should not be a factor, and if you do care ......then that is your insecurity not hers.




Many men are quick to be with a transsexuals behind closed doors (Passable or not)......But in public they look like their about to run off screaming,,, due to the fact that they cant handle being public with a ts.



Very few men have their balls on right , to not care what the world thinks of their preference in Ts's.....VERY FEW!

[Quiet Reflections]

If you care about the person it should not be a factor, and if you do care ......then that is your insecurity not hers.




Many men are quick to be with a transsexuals behind closed doors (Passable or not)......But in public they look like their about to run off screaming,,, due to the fact that they cant handle being public with a ts.



Very few men have their balls on right , to not care what the world thinks of their preference in Ts's.....VERY FEW!

I cant imagine a man alive that wouldn't want you on his arm in public