1st relationship with ts

[Buhdook]

so let me get this straight
all you guys jumped straight and didnt give a fuck or you just banged escorts til your wallet dried out? or you think yr cool cos you hide out in clubs behind closed doors only spilling out onto street to be seen with gals with enough guts only after a dozen or so jack and cokes piss easy in my opinion!
all you gals i suppose didnt feel at all nervous about going out for that 1st time dressed ?
cummon im only human its right to be nervous its natural just like giving that cute ass that passed you one more quick glimpse
you may all free to take the piss i really dont give a fuck
i will be going out with her and ill enjoy and make most of it cos iwant to and thats what its all about init?

Dave, I'm going to go out on a limb here and take a guess...but it English your second language? I'm having a hell of a time deciphering what you're writing!

[alyssats]

show her the url to this website. I am curious to see her take on the subject )

THANK YOU!! And guys wonder why so many girls escort. Ive said it before and I'll say it again, as long as men treat me like a dirty secret, I'm gonna keep charging. Dont look down on us because we are smart enough not to let men use us as a fuck and dash. Look at yourselves and how you treat us.

wow such a nice post I love it

[NYBURBS]

double post woops

[NYBURBS]

If you have to live your life for others you are not living - you are existing! You are not a man if you cannot live for yourself! What is between your legs is a sorry excuse for your poor judgement and behavior.

Danielle I understand you are going to have a certain perspective, and for the most part I would agree with you. I am a pretty self confident guy, and I have been on public dates with TS girls; however I'd be lying if I said I wasn't worried or overly conscious of the event the first couple of times. Now I'm at the point where it doesn't matter to me if someone snickers or says something under their breath, but that doesn't mean that I can't understand this guy and try to give him some advice.

Of course I've felt pressure when i was younger but now i know better,i'm not letting total strangers affect me or possibly make me hurt someone i care about.I tend to care about love ones rather then strangers I'll never see again in my life.

PS I applied this to everyone if i wanted to date a girl with one arm i would, if i wanted to date a fat chick i would and i wouldn't care about what strangers thought of me,i live for myself.If you consider not hurting love ones i manly thing then oh well.

Look Legend I completely understand the whole family and close friends issue, and I'd be lying if I said it's not something I've considered also. In fact while there might be someone worth rocking that boat for I'd certainly make sure of it first.

My main point to you in the earlier post though was that most people have been where this guy currently is, and a little compassion and encouragement go a long way. Dismissing him as unfeeling, or thoughtless, or pathetic (which are all things various ppl have said here) is just not the way to go in my personal opinion. Of course ppl are free to disagree me.

[Legend]

My main point to you in the earlier post though was that most people have been where this guy currently is, and a little compassion and encouragement go a long way. Dismissing him as unfeeling, or thoughtless, or pathetic (which are all things various ppl have said here) is just not the way to go in my personal opinion. Of course ppl are free to disagree me.

How else are you to interpret when someone says they are embarrassed to be with someone in public but unfeeling, thoughtless, and pathetic.Just because they are transgender doesn't mean they feel any different from any other girl if you tell her you don't want to be with them in public.

[bossman]

take her out.

of course you'll be nervous about someone seeing you but when it's all done you'll be glad you did it

[TsVanessa69]

My main point to you in the earlier post though was that most people have been where this guy currently is, and a little compassion and encouragement go a long way. Dismissing him as unfeeling, or thoughtless, or pathetic (which are all things various ppl have said here) is just not the way to go in my personal opinion. Of course ppl are free to disagree me.

How else are you to interpret when someone says they are embarrassed to be with someone in public but unfeeling, thoughtless, and pathetic.Just because they are transgender doesn't mean they feel any different from any other girl if you tell her you don't want to be with them in public.

The 2 things I notice most that guys bitch and moan about with ts are this:
1. Most ts are escorts, nobody meets up for fun.
A guys version of fun with a ts is, come over maybe smoke a blunt, fuck, nutt and leave.
You can't call them when you need somebody to talk to. You not going with me to the club to chill and you not even gonna walk with me to McDonald, yet have the balls to get mad because I want to be compensated for my time. Fuck that! If all I'm good for is a fuck, then you gotta pay me for that fuck, because you are acting like a TRICK!
2. Why do ts like thugs?
Plain and simple, the guy man enough to go out with me, be seen in public with me, is a thug. These pussy ass bitchs who hate on thugs and why they get no love from ts , NEWSFLASH!!!! We are human, we need affection and friendship just like evrybody else. So what if you havce a legit job???? That doesnt make you man enough to deal with a ts. That means you have business sense. I'll take a caring thug over a pussy ass white collar anyday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[TsVanessa69]

show her the url to this website. I am curious to see her take on the subject )

THANK YOU!! And guys wonder why so many girls escort. Ive said it before and I'll say it again, as long as men treat me like a dirty secret, I'm gonna keep charging. Dont look down on us because we are smart enough not to let men use us as a fuck and dash. Look at yourselves and how you treat us.

wow such a nice post I love it

Its the truth. I used to escort to pay for stuff I needed done, thinking when I got all pretty and worked, men would treat me different, they don't .So if I'm gonna be used and left aside, pay me, that way I can enjoy a lavish lifestyle alone, then be broke and alone. With all the men bitching and moanning on sites like these about ts this and ts that, only 1 in 10000 have actally even seen a ts in real time.

[jaycanuck]

My main point to you in the earlier post though was that most people have been where this guy currently is, and a little compassion and encouragement go a long way. Dismissing him as unfeeling, or thoughtless, or pathetic (which are all things various ppl have said here) is just not the way to go in my personal opinion. Of course ppl are free to disagree me.

How else are you to interpret when someone says they are embarrassed to be with someone in public but unfeeling, thoughtless, and pathetic.Just because they are transgender doesn't mean they feel any different from any other girl if you tell her you don't want to be with them in public.

The 2 things I notice most that guys bitch and moan about with ts are this:
1. Most ts are escorts, nobody meets up for fun.
A guys version of fun with a ts is, come over maybe smoke a blunt, fuck, nutt and leave.
You can't call them when you need somebody to talk to. You not going with me to the club to chill and you not even gonna walk with me to McDonald, yet have the balls to get mad because I want to be compensated for my time. Fuck that! If all I'm good for is a fuck, then you gotta pay me for that fuck, because you are acting like a TRICK!
2. Why do ts like thugs?
Plain and simple, the guy man enough to go out with me, be seen in public with me, is a thug. These pussy ass bitchs who hate on thugs and why they get no love from ts , NEWSFLASH!!!! We are human, we need affection and friendship just like evrybody else. So what if you havce a legit job???? That doesnt make you man enough to deal with a ts. That means you have business sense. I'll take a caring thug over a pussy ass white collar anyday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Disagree with both points, but that's ok. Everyone has opinions.

[pnwguy24]

The response to this thread is absolutely ridiculous. Every single person has trouble coming to terms with themselves related to this issue. Be it the girls having to be open and honest with their family about being transgendered, dealing with transitioning while working in public etc etc... Guys that date trans women go through struggles as well. It takes TIME to get used to. I never said it was right, or fair, but its a fact deal with it. Its easy to say you should just " be yourself" and not give a fuck. I agree that we all should be ourselves, and love who we love and not care what others think. That does not mean that is easy, and there is no pressure or nervousness involved. This is a reality of the world we live in. I am open with everyone I know, and really don't care what people think. But you know what, growing up when I was younger it was hard. It was confusing and scary. That is a natural fucking reaction to the culture we live in. I speak from the perspective of someone who has dated TG's openly and honestly. I was always proud of whoever I was with, but I would be LYING if I said I wasn't a little nervous or hesitant the first or second time. Most of these guys just refuse to tell it straight.