Transexual Occupations

[SexxxyJade]

Because I know your type, She was only an example of how you slay girls, escorts or whoever for no reason. Unfortunately you judge a person by thier occupation instead of getting to know them as a person. Because im an esxort im also a golddigger? a hoe? I should be arrested? My occupations says nothing about me as a person, about my charcter, simple an occupation like any other.

P.S. This is one of the main reasons I dont wanna do this for long, so i guess i can say thank you for the motivating me to stop...people like you....

[Caleigh]

Isn't the point of this thread that Jade wants to get out of the sex industry and get a straight job?

And Jade, in case you never looked, I"m TS, not a guy.

I will say again, get some education, make some kind of plan based on what you really like to do (besides have sex ) and then figure out how to make it happen.

Am I the only person that somehow managed to pay for electrolysis doing 9-5 work??

[mixedprettyboy]

Anyway, I'm glad that you have a plan and decided you're not going to do this forever. Too many girls say that, but don't stop because they're truely gold diggers. They're just out for the money. I was taught that people who have sex for money are hoes and hoes aren't to be respected. I'm not into GG's who are escorts either so it's not like I'm only singling out trannies who do it. I mean, being an escort means you only have your body to offer and nothing else. That to me seems like YOU have issues with yourself as well.

[SexxxyJade]

Isn't the point of this thread that Jade wants to get out of the sex industry and get a straight job?

And Jade, in case you never looked, I"m TS, not a guy.

I will say again, get some education, make some kind of plan based on what you really like to do (besides have sex ) and then figure out how to make it happen.

Am I the only person that somehow managed to pay for electrolysis doing 9-5 work??

The point of this thread has nothing to do with me getting out of the sex industry. I will always be a "sex symbol" unlike alot of transgenders who tryyyy to live as women. My post was pointing out the fact that I didnt want to escort forever, I will always do movies and always have my site, whoch in my ooinion is a safer way out.
As far as you being a TS or not is far from my concern Miss Caleigh, Im only reading your advice and taking it in...maybe you should write the site adm and asked to be labled as a Hot Hung Angel if you want to be distinguished as one. Congratulations for trasitioning without escorting, I will commend you for that, but you are no better than any girl who has done it differently..judging from your pictures.....anyway thanx again for the CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM.....and goodday to you!

[Caleigh]

This is a quote from your first post:
As of late...realization has set in that if I dont make a change, if I dont do something, that I will be doin this for the rest of my life, and honestly I dont want that. I would love to have a regular job, live a regular life, and not let my day to day activities not revolve around my cell phone and clients.

The reason I re-iterated that I'm TS is because just after my posting YOU posted and complained how you weren't getting any advice from other girls.

I will mention to NYCe to change my designation so that people understand I'm TS since it seems to affect the way people act towards you on here.

And lastly, I never said, nor meant to imply that I am in any way better than anyone else. I was just bitching about having had to eat ramen and plain pasta for years to pay for electro and hormones. That's all.

I was just trying to give you some support in your stated (see above) desire to get a "straight" job. Whatever you choose in life I wish the best for you.

blessings
Caleigh

[SexxxyJade]

Its cool girllll thx
but from now on, keep it cute!

[TomSelis]

Wow this was an interesting turn of a thread.

know when you posted here this is more of a "guys" board. I saw that you posted on the "other" board too and got pretty much the same response.

The only thing I will say is, sometimes the best advice you can get is from someone on the outside looking in. You know like the little boy saying "THE EMPEROR IS NAKED!!!" It might not be what you want to hear but it's still real as any advice you might get from a girl.

[Saintrose]

I will say again, get some education, make some kind of plan based on what you really like to do (besides have sex ) and then figure out how to make it happen.

Am I the only person that somehow managed to pay for electrolysis doing 9-5 work??

Jade...I agree with Caleigh.
Forgoing present gain for future reward is the way to go. By that I mean...you will have to make sacrifice. Figure out waht you like to do and then go to school for whatever degree, diploma or ceritficate you need. Considering what you do now...I don't know if you really care for working for someone. You strike me as a very independent sister...you might do better being your own boss (as you are now ) in a more mainstream line of work.

Caleigh is right that turning tricks isn't the only way to pay the bills, get elctrolysis etc. My TS girlfriend holds down a regular 9-5, and is taking steps towards finishing her business degree.
I myself have my bachelors... it has opened doors and given me opportunities that I would have otherwise not had. I made the sacrifice...went to school and worked part time,sometimes crappy, jobs to make ends meet. I was lucky to have a supportive family structure to help me. I'd get home late from school while most of the guys in my hood were selling drugs and alll that mess. Some of them are dead others locked up etc. It's all about choices...

I've recently seen a thread about "vintage transsexual porn stars"
When the topic came to where they are now...many are dead from disease, and the few living have long since faded into the shadows. The point is as fine as your body is, it is not immune to the ravages of time. Save your money girl, invest it, property ownership...

Just the fact that you started this thread indicates how intelligent a lady you are! I wish you the best and I know you will be successful in whatever you eventually decide to do after you give up escorting

[ANIYAH]

When growing up as a Transsexual in New York I can honestly say i saw alot of Ts with real jobs .."Who was surged outt"...I feel that alot in most cases transexuals from the south mainly ,Georgia, N.c,S.c and other small country states are not exposed to what more GLBT Foward states Like Nyc ,and cali....A prime example of this is the Harvey milk school which is a school that caters to only glbt youth Located only in Nyc,and sanFranncisco... No other schools like this across the country....And not to mention the 100s of GLBT organization throuout Nyc and sanfrancisco..etc
This could be the reason Jada May feel that Most Ts are Escorts..Because I thinking she really hasnt been exposed to the full Ts Spectrum except from what she can see online,on Tv,Newspapers ..etc
But i can Honestly say that i will stop escorting very soon and start college for Graphic design or Advertising and Marketing ...And i do take my escorting very seriously because i feel if ur gonna do anything be the best at it ..and this is what i have choosen so im gonna be one of the best.. although i plan to quit the footwork i will still keep my feet in the Sex Industry Cause i enjoy selling sex from all aspect

[rick_932]

I've recently seen a thread about "vintage transsexual porn stars"
When the topic came to where they are now...many are dead from disease, and the few living have long since faded into the shadows. The point is as fine as your body is, it is not immune to the ravages of time. Save your money girl, invest it, property ownership...

cosign, thats some real shit there