Monogamous relationship question

[jjhill]

I would use myself as the example. Say you was in a monogamous relationship for four years. You never cheated and your partner never cheated. And she is on birth control, but you still wanna wear a condom just because she can forget to take the pill. She thinks you wanna wear the condom because you might be cheating, or think she's cheating. what would you do?

[2009AD]

Tell her exactly what you wrote. "I wear a condom, because you sometimes forget to take your birth control pill." Then talk about the situation. End of story.

[jjhill]

Tell her exactly what you wrote. "I wear a condom, because you sometimes forget to take your birth control pill." Then talk about the situation. End of story.

Thanks AD, now should I do that, or do as your quote says lol

[phobun]

I would use myself as the example. Say you was in a monogamous relationship for four years. You never cheated and your partner never cheated. And she is on birth control, but you still wanna wear a condom just because she can forget to take the pill. She thinks you wanna wear the condom because you might be cheating, or think she's cheating. what would you do?

Unless she has conceded to missing the pill, simply explaining that she might forget can be tricky... "what, you don't trust me to take the pill?"

And no, I don't. I have known more than one guy whose girlfriends have used pregnancy to trap them into marriage. Besides, the pill's ability to prevent pregnancy is never advertised at 100% even if they take it exactly as prescribed.

[Odelay]

The pill is not a 100% effective birth control method. Period.

The best way to avoid pregnancy is by using multiple birth control methods.

If she doesn't know these things, she really aughta listen a little more carefully to her doctor when she goes in for a visit. If she hasn't had any discussion with her doc about birth control issues since she was 16, she probably should get a refresher course.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

Tell her exactly what you wrote. "I wear a condom, because you sometimes forget to take your birth control pill." Then talk about the situation. End of story.

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[jjhill]

thanks fellas!

[Ben]

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[nysprod]

I would use myself as the example. Say you was in a monogamous relationship for four years. You never cheated and your partner never cheated. And she is on birth control, but you still wanna wear a condom just because she can forget to take the pill. She thinks you wanna wear the condom because you might be cheating, or think she's cheating. what would you do?

Dude, she a girl, you ain't gonna win in this area, go bb.

Tell her exactly what you wrote. "I wear a condom, because you sometimes forget to take your birth control pill." Then talk about the situation. End of story.

That sounds good but the problem is that when you use logic on a woman she'll either:

1. start to cry.

2. throw something at you.

3. 1 and 2.

[RallyCola]

tell her you think she takes the pill because she is cheating on you and see how she likes it when the shoe is on the other foot