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    Vasto Lorde Gold Poster Quiet Reflections's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tika
    Quote Originally Posted by RubyTS
    pay him no mind he doesnt know me or my capabilities. some people just say things on here for shock value. I dont respect the opinions of people i dont know or dont respect
    It's "she", not "he", you ignorant tramp. I'm starting to see where your employability is headed from the way you're reacting and expressing yourself.

    This is why I'm a transwoman working in the medical field as a caregiver, bettering myself and being respected by my employer - and you're sucking cock for money.

    It's people like me that make the world a better place by providing a positive example for the public. You and the other TS's working in the sex industry drag the rest of us down - the ones that want to be more than just sex objects.


    I really don't give a fuck if it's judgemental, holier-than-thou, or whatever. I'm better than you and that's all there is to it. I'm sick and fucking tired of you shallow, plastic skanks thinking that big fake tits and silicone-injected hips make you a better person somehow.
    Why the fuck do you get on this site? Escorting is in fact the oldest profession. But anyway, For you to make a judgment like that based off the little you know her from her posts shows your ignorance. I know quit a few whores that went through the nursing program at the college near me and while they weren't " making the world better" for so called good money they were getting drunk and sucking cock for a shot of jagermiester, a cigarette and a backhanded compliment. if you really want to be positive instead of looking down on the ladies in the industry why don't you leave your holy pedestal and get the word out to the youth of America about tolerance of your fellow man. A job doesn't make a man it just pays his bills what you do in general has zero bearing on how good of a person you are. Example you have a good job and you are clearly a shitty person



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    Quote Originally Posted by seanchai
    We have a potential job available. Work from home - you'd have to pretty much spend most of the time surfing, cutting and pasting and sending emails.

    It's a fairly menial job and it may be beneath your expectations (as may the pay) but it might tide you over until you find something better?

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    I'd like to hear more about your job seanchai. It can't be much (if any) more menial and low pay then my current job. And who knows if it's work at home I might be able to do it and my regular job too. You can PM me or email me to share details if you don't want to list them publicly.

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    Ruby, I am impressed how you handle yourself on this board. Often times, like in this thread, you don't take the bait on people trying to drag you down. Other times, when it seems timely and appropriate, you don't back down, you stand your ground, and dish it right back. Your stories are well written, and your concerns are legit, most of the time. If I remember right... you're in your mid or late 20's, and I'd say you're quite mature and experienced in life. Those are things that will come in handy in the broader workforce.

    A couple of ideas....

    Take a good look at your work history, even those jobs from way back when. When I take inventory of some of my very early jobs (30 yrs ago!), I marvel at how different they were... glass cutter, unloading produce trucks, putting up hay for farmers, back room food preparation, and hardware stock boy. Some of these jobs I really enjoyed. My point is there could be some hidden diamonds in your employment history that are a good fit for a position today.

    Second, think about possible jobs that might be needed in this down economy. One that comes to my mind is someone who has initiative to put together housing co-ops, or even help transition people btwn housing situations. It's not just the foreclosed upon who are looking for new housing. Many others are economizing, going from solo living situations to group situations. Go to rental placement agencies, etc., and tell them you're interested in helping them fill up their apartments, houses, etc.

    No knock against secretary, admin asst jobs... but your extroverted personality is largely wasted there. Show an employer you work well with the public and can close a deal, and they'll hire you. And if there's one thing good escorts are good at... it's closing the deal.

    Good luck!



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    LOL. Thats the best advice given to me so far, and im very impressed that u take notice of how i handle myself on here. Thaks so much.



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    my .02 cents

    Tika I've read what you had to say in response to Ruby's question posted here in this thread and quite honestly it's appalling. She genuinely asked a question to better her life and you IMO looked to tear her down mentally. Your choice of words towards her were demeaning and my question to you is: What would you do if you were fired tomorrow and no other temp agency or medical provider offered to hire you? Please don't bullshit around saying you wouldn't consider escorting because let's face it, unless you're a crossdresser and can still throw on some dockers and a dress shirt you'd have a difficult time landing a job in these dire times.

    Is it possible that you could have been sincere and humane towards Ruby and possibly told her how you slithered into the medicare field? Sure it is.....

    Is it possible you could have supported someone who like it or not is a sister of yours in this lifestyle? Sure it is

    Yet the best response you had was to try and insult her and anyone else like her on this forum who might have been curious about taking the path she's starting to walk.

    Shame on you.................

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
    my .02 cents

    Tika I've read what you had to say in response to Ruby's question posted here in this thread and quite honestly it's appalling. She genuinely asked a question to better her life and you IMO looked to tear her down mentally. Your choice of words towards her were demeaning and my question to you is: What would you do if you were fired tomorrow and no other temp agency or medical provider offered to hire you? Please don't bullshit around saying you wouldn't consider escorting because let's face it, unless you're a crossdresser and can still throw on some dockers and a dress shirt you'd have a difficult time landing a job in these dire times.

    Is it possible that you could have been sincere and humane towards Ruby and possibly told her how you slithered into the medicare field? Sure it is.....

    Is it possible you could have supported someone who like it or not is a sister of yours in this lifestyle? Sure it is

    Yet the best response you had was to try and insult her and anyone else like her on this forum who might have been curious about taking the path she's starting to walk.

    Shame on you.................

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    So let me get this straight you insulted Ruby for asking that question but you used to do this?

    Quote Originally Posted by Tika
    I used to work for FemmCams and it wasn't all that great. The income was more supplemental than primary, if you know what I mean.

    Their rates used to be $1 a minute to the customer with the performer getting 40% of that. It's now at $1.50 a minute and 50% to the performer, which is about double - more reasonable, but still not a living wage.

    Most of the time I just sat in my chair and read, listened to music or surfed websites. Most of the guys were pretty down to earth. A few just act like pigs. "Show ass. Show tits. Show cock." then they leave after like a minute. There was a lot of dead time during a session, but it's a fairly small site.

    Anyways, if you have spare time during a day, it's not a bad way to pass the time. Don't depend on it for steady income though.
    YOU FUCKING HYPOCRITE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Fuck outta here, people like you are the worst!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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    chalk one up for the mod



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    Ruby, Times are tuff right now but whatever you do, just believe in yourself and don't give up.
    Good things will eventually come!



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