What if your married/attached but into ts?

[edwardsjimfresno]

So for any married or men in a heterosexual relationship like myself. What do you do? I know for me it gets hard because I do like dick and my girl does not have one. Is it cheating?

Would you consider it cheating if your partner wanted to mess around with a woman becuase she also likes vagina?

[Nowhere]

Cheating is being in a committed relationship and being with someone else at the same time. It doesn't matter who with. What's so hard to understand?

[Odelay]

Dan Savage who has penned the sex advice column "Savage Love" for something close to 20 years now, advises to be open with your hetero partner. Explain your curiosity, your fantasies, etc., and see where it goes. He also advises the partner to be open to allowing the TS admirer to have such an experience, and to lay down rules by which that might happen.

We live in the year 2009. Living in the closet was fashionable like 40 years ago.

[sunairco]

Dan Savage who has penned the sex advice column "Savage Love" for something close to 20 years now, advises to be open with your hetero partner. Explain your curiosity, your fantasies, etc., and see where it goes. He also advises the partner to be open to allowing the TS admirer to have such an experience, and to lay down rules by which that might happen.

We live in the year 2009. Living in the closet was fashionable like 40 years ago.

Dan Savage is also Gay and not in a heterosexual relationship with a GG. You're not going to find many straight females that don't consider a commited relationship mutually exclusive.

[sucka4chix]

Sadly, most guys who see TS escorts ARE married.
Contrary to some new wave opinions, honesty IS NOT always the best policy! Telling a wife or significant girlfriend that you are attracted to chicks with dicks is rather selfish and self serving. What's the point? Certainly not to make HER feel better. More than likely to give you license to act on your fantasy. Girls are fragile, and many who find their man likes dick question their own self-worth. A loving person wouldn't put someone through that.

[Odelay]

Dan Savage who has penned the sex advice column "Savage Love" for something close to 20 years now, advises to be open with your hetero partner. Explain your curiosity, your fantasies, etc., and see where it goes. He also advises the partner to be open to allowing the TS admirer to have such an experience, and to lay down rules by which that might happen.

We live in the year 2009. Living in the closet was fashionable like 40 years ago.

Dan Savage is also Gay and not in a heterosexual relationship with a GG. You're not going to find many straight females that don't consider a commited relationship mutually exclusive.

LOL! When I first started reading Savage 20 years ago and I saw heteros write into him I thought... "You're crazy! He's gay! Why are you asking for his advice?!"

Then after reading him for a couple of years I realized he gives better hetero advice than any other person I know. Anyone who is stuck on... "Savage is gay" is only missing out.

Anyway, you totally missed the point. Savage is saying... before you cheat, talk with your partner. Even assuming you're correct that there are few het partners who wouldn't consider a relationship to be mutually exclusive, not talking to her is the one surefire way of never knowing if you hit the jackpot and have one of those who are an exception.

[Odelay]

Sadly, most guys who see TS escorts ARE married.
Contrary to some new wave opinions, honesty IS NOT always the best policy! Telling a wife or significant girlfriend that you are attracted to chicks with dicks is rather selfish and self serving. What's the point? Certainly not to make HER feel better. More than likely to give you license to act on your fantasy. Girls are fragile, and many who find their man likes dick question their own self-worth. A loving person wouldn't put someone through that.

LMAO. A loving person wouldn't even consider cheating on her.

Let's put this one to bed... we're not talking about "loving people" here. We're talking about selfish married guys who are tired of their old lady.

[sucka4chix]

Ok, entertaining thoughts of infidelity have nothing to do with love or lack of it. It has to do with carnal urges and being able to control them. No one except you was assuming these people don't love their partners. The OP, as I recall, simply asked "what do you do".
To suggest you tell a GG your fantasy which they can't fulfill, is irresponsible. If you don't give a fuck, sure, tell them. But if you want to keep what you have, that's ludicrous!

[Cathy]

I have a similar situation. I am married and love my wife. If I were to start my life over, I would want to spend it with a T-Girl as I love women with a cock. However, my wife is understanding and if I go out of town, she understands and has no objection to me being with someone else. She knows I love her and also knows this type of encounter is infrequent.

So with that having been said. I am a good husband but absolutely love T-Girls and have had some incredible times with them.

[LilWyte]

wow you guys are dumbasses