A Gay guy a Tranny Chaser? ... yuck!

[SarahG]

There are bi guys out there who are heavily into BOTH sexes, so its possible that although the guy had a gay guy BF, he may have also been genuinely into girls as well.

Like this one bi guy I know, he has sex with soo many gay guys- but he really does like girls as well. I don't know how he decides who or what to be with on a given night, but I've never asked either. Maybe he's got it all planned out in advance (i.e. "mondays, thursdays, saturday's I spend with girls, tues, wed, fri's I spend with gay guys...").

As to why some tgirls hate gay guys- as I've been saying for years the only thing trans people have in common with gay people, is the people who hate both groups. The enemy of your enemy is not always your friend, and there are no shortages of stories to show that some factions in the gay community are extremely hostile to trans people. When hasn't there been some kind of major LGBT get together... only to have a lumberjack lesbian get on stage to tranny-bash? Then there are all those stories (and indeed there are many) of flamers making a scene in public places to out trans girls (like on dates, at restaurants, etc).... it's easy to see why there maybe some tension at times between the two groups.

To say nothing of the mental question of "if this guy claims to be gay, and finds me attractive- then what does that say about my body?" Its one thing if someone says they are bi (in the true sense of the word), its another thing entirely if someone is asserting they only find guys attractive while walking over to a tgirl to hit on her.

[dgs925]

There is not a degree of gayness, to me either you are or not, no gray areas there.

A lot of the world agrees with you. To a lot of people, if you suck cock and have a cock that makes you gay. I'm not one of these people. I understand the idea that a mtf transsexual identifies as a woman, and not as a gay man. I totally respect that.

What I will say is that any man who sucks cock is not completely straight. This is undeniable.

ETA: Sorry to call you names earlier Cynthia, it's easy to get carried away on the internet. I still believe the things I said but there is no need to insult.

[CaptainGeech]

I really wish that nature didn't make mistakes. All of this shit is just too confusing. Listening to someone who has a cock that likes men talk about how she hates guys who like men just hurts my brain. I just wish that everyone who was mentally one sex was born in the body that correctly represented that mindset.

[Ts CinthyaNY]

This is the most ignorant shit I've read in a long while.

The real bullshit is the homophobia and hypocrisy in your post. You were offended because the guy who paid money to suck your cock was not a straight man. What the fuck?

Any guy who is not turned off by the sight of a naked pre-op ts's "clitty" is not totally straight, and any guy who loves to suck on your tits is not totally gay. Sorry to vent, but you spew some bullshit in your posts.

You have your reasons to point it out like it. Sarah already explained and she understand me... There is a word: TRANSPHOBIA and it had hurt and killed many TG woman, and as you may not know the transphobia is most likely happens in the LGBT community. Gay guys do not really hang out with TS woman unless you are part of the show on stage or taking them to straight guys so they can get part of the sexual game. If you do not think so like it happened to Allanah Star couple of times when she tried to get into a gay club in Chelsea? they just did not allowed to get in with other 2 TS... So what you call that... Transphobia.
I am not homophobic it's just I am not into gay guys, not matter how cute they are they like other man... So where that put me... he is looking at me as a man not as a woman just because I have a "penis", that's low.

Not sure about you, all the guys I been with consider themselves Straight and they are quite many... Can you take that out of their minds? no. Call one of the guys here that he is gay or he is in certain degree he is HOMOSEXUAL he will just turn against you.

Love...
Cinthya.

[Ts CinthyaNY]

*** double post ***

[justatransgirl]

Cynthia... entertaining story. Sorry it had to happen to you.

One more reason to not date at home with someone you don't know. I'm glad we never had an incident like that when we were active. Though I had a guy get so drunk I had to drive him home to ensure he didn't pass out in our living room... LOL

As for the rest.

Am I gay? Well let's explore this. I'm in a same sex relationship with another transsexual girl. So I guess no matter what we do we're stuck with being "gay." At least we are happy.

Giggles,
TS Jamie

[Legend]

The guy was your typical cock bandit only into transgender women because of their penis.

????

I thought that was the reason why we're all into transgender women, guess i was wrong.

I'm lost...why are you into TS's?

I'm into them for the same reasons i'd be interested in any other genetic girl,personality and if we share the same interest,me liking transgender women has nothing to do with a penis.

[Helvis2012]

Sounds like a weirdo.

[CaptainGeech]

I'm into them for the same reasons i'd be interested in any other genetic girl,personality and if we share the same interest,me liking transgender women has nothing to do with a penis.

lol. Wow. I don't know who you are trying to gain points with but that is some funny shit. I can understand you having that view on a person you met out in real life ala The Crying Game. Someone you really connected with prior to finding out they were a TS. But with this being a TS message board your statement ultimately sounds like a bunch of bullshit. Why would you even come here if you solely desired a "woman". I can understand many reasons for people being on this board... Being a cock bandit. Simply being curious. Appreciating something you view as unique. Connecting with pornstars. Etc... Maybe its because I am a newbie or ignorant in the ways of TS culture but I just don't get your view.

[sucka4chix]

Man, this is the most bullshit-laden thread ever! Hand me some febreze!!
First off, some if you are very ignorant about sexuality. I don't know if you're just young or what, but you can't just classify someones sexuality based on sexual organs. I know it seems like this is logical, but that's because you're a simpleton, and sexuality is not simple. Gay and straight are EXTREMES on a continuum and basically NO ONE is either or. We ALL fall somewhere in the middle. Yes you, Mr. Straight guy who's attracted to female body builders, and you who likes GGs with flat asses and no hips!
Oh you think a guy who sucks a beautiful girls cock is gay, but a dude who fucks hairy-assed Buck is straight, simply because he has a pussy?! Pa-lease! You're an idiot.
Sexuality is about what takes place in your head! There's a big difference between what you do and what you are! You can do alotta gay shit, and still be straight, and you can never have sucked a dick in your life and be a total FAG!
Secondly, tgirls, like everyone else, come in all different types. Some want to be GGs. Some are content being what they are. Some LOVE their cock. Some see it as a birth defect. Some wanna chop it off. Some would never.
There's no set of rules that says "TSes act like this, TSes are attracted to that. Being TS doesn't exempt them from the continuum: TSes can be straight, gay or bi, although these tags get confusing (a straight m2f TS would be considered gay as a male).
Lastly, Legend you probably, scratch that... you DEFINITELY need to lie on a couch and talk to someone, because you need to be enlightened about YOURSELF. Yeah I get the noble idea you have that a TS is no different than a GG and that's why I like them, but ultimately that's bull also. The fact is they ARE different in many ways, other than just a cock. It's like saying "I like girls with tattoos for the same reason I like any girl, the tattoos are irrelevant". That's ok, but more precisely you ACCEPT girls with tattoos. That's fine and dandy if you're not SEEKING out girls with tattoos, are a member of a site dealing with girls with tattoos. The fact that you belong to HA suggests that your interest is not in their being like GGs at all, but that there are underlying, maybe subliminal impulses that you are acting on, and the fact that you can't see this is disturbing!