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03-04-2009 #31
There are bi guys out there who are heavily into BOTH sexes, so its possible that although the guy had a gay guy BF, he may have also been genuinely into girls as well.
Like this one bi guy I know, he has sex with soo many gay guys- but he really does like girls as well. I don't know how he decides who or what to be with on a given night, but I've never asked either. Maybe he's got it all planned out in advance (i.e. "mondays, thursdays, saturday's I spend with girls, tues, wed, fri's I spend with gay guys...").
As to why some tgirls hate gay guys- as I've been saying for years the only thing trans people have in common with gay people, is the people who hate both groups. The enemy of your enemy is not always your friend, and there are no shortages of stories to show that some factions in the gay community are extremely hostile to trans people. When hasn't there been some kind of major LGBT get together... only to have a lumberjack lesbian get on stage to tranny-bash? Then there are all those stories (and indeed there are many) of flamers making a scene in public places to out trans girls (like on dates, at restaurants, etc).... it's easy to see why there maybe some tension at times between the two groups.
To say nothing of the mental question of "if this guy claims to be gay, and finds me attractive- then what does that say about my body?" Its one thing if someone says they are bi (in the true sense of the word), its another thing entirely if someone is asserting they only find guys attractive while walking over to a tgirl to hit on her.
And maybe its easier to withdraw from life
With all of its misery and wretched lies
If we're dead when tomorrow's gone
The Big Machine will just move on
Still we cling afraid we'll fall
Clinging like the memory which haunts us all
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03-04-2009 #32Originally Posted by Ts CinthyaNY
What I will say is that any man who sucks cock is not completely straight. This is undeniable.
ETA: Sorry to call you names earlier Cynthia, it's easy to get carried away on the internet. I still believe the things I said but there is no need to insult.
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03-04-2009 #33
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I really wish that nature didn't make mistakes. All of this shit is just too confusing. Listening to someone who has a cock that likes men talk about how she hates guys who like men just hurts my brain. I just wish that everyone who was mentally one sex was born in the body that correctly represented that mindset.
I have the personality and people skills of a retarded home-schooled kid.
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03-04-2009 #34Originally Posted by dgs925
I am not homophobic it's just I am not into gay guys, not matter how cute they are they like other man... So where that put me... he is looking at me as a man not as a woman just because I have a "penis", that's low.
Not sure about you, all the guys I been with consider themselves Straight and they are quite many... Can you take that out of their minds? no. Call one of the guys here that he is gay or he is in certain degree he is HOMOSEXUAL he will just turn against you.
Love...
Cinthya.
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03-04-2009 #35
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"I used to dream, it became a reality. Now the reality it feels like a dream..." You are who you truly believe you are, I am now the one my mirror reflected .
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03-04-2009 #36
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Cynthia... entertaining story. Sorry it had to happen to you.
One more reason to not date at home with someone you don't know. I'm glad we never had an incident like that when we were active. Though I had a guy get so drunk I had to drive him home to ensure he didn't pass out in our living room... LOL
As for the rest.
Am I gay? Well let's explore this. I'm in a same sex relationship with another transsexual girl. So I guess no matter what we do we're stuck with being "gay." At least we are happy.
Giggles,
TS Jamie
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03-04-2009 #37
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03-04-2009 #38
Sounds like a weirdo.
"That's what i thought you said."
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03-04-2009 #39
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Originally Posted by Legend
I have the personality and people skills of a retarded home-schooled kid.
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03-05-2009 #40
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Man, this is the most bullshit-laden thread ever! Hand me some febreze!!
First off, some if you are very ignorant about sexuality. I don't know if you're just young or what, but you can't just classify someones sexuality based on sexual organs. I know it seems like this is logical, but that's because you're a simpleton, and sexuality is not simple. Gay and straight are EXTREMES on a continuum and basically NO ONE is either or. We ALL fall somewhere in the middle. Yes you, Mr. Straight guy who's attracted to female body builders, and you who likes GGs with flat asses and no hips!
Oh you think a guy who sucks a beautiful girls cock is gay, but a dude who fucks hairy-assed Buck is straight, simply because he has a pussy?! Pa-lease! You're an idiot.
Sexuality is about what takes place in your head! There's a big difference between what you do and what you are! You can do alotta gay shit, and still be straight, and you can never have sucked a dick in your life and be a total FAG!
Secondly, tgirls, like everyone else, come in all different types. Some want to be GGs. Some are content being what they are. Some LOVE their cock. Some see it as a birth defect. Some wanna chop it off. Some would never.
There's no set of rules that says "TSes act like this, TSes are attracted to that. Being TS doesn't exempt them from the continuum: TSes can be straight, gay or bi, although these tags get confusing (a straight m2f TS would be considered gay as a male).
Lastly, Legend you probably, scratch that... you DEFINITELY need to lie on a couch and talk to someone, because you need to be enlightened about YOURSELF. Yeah I get the noble idea you have that a TS is no different than a GG and that's why I like them, but ultimately that's bull also. The fact is they ARE different in many ways, other than just a cock. It's like saying "I like girls with tattoos for the same reason I like any girl, the tattoos are irrelevant". That's ok, but more precisely you ACCEPT girls with tattoos. That's fine and dandy if you're not SEEKING out girls with tattoos, are a member of a site dealing with girls with tattoos. The fact that you belong to HA suggests that your interest is not in their being like GGs at all, but that there are underlying, maybe subliminal impulses that you are acting on, and the fact that you can't see this is disturbing!
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