How Does it feel to be a trick

[PeteIsHere]

Mimi, sit your tired ass down. Your attention seeking act is played out, overdone, and has become predictable. You were cute in the past but now you are desperate for attention. Exposing your tits will not get any accolades from me.

mimi is a angry lil man.

man ??? do i look angry to you ????

you guys take shit real seriously around here like your not cock hounds
BITCH get a clue

[justatransgirl]

I vote this the best thread of December! Maybe of the year! LOL

I just read all 6 or so pages since my earlier post. I don't know where to begin other than to say...

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As to the topic at hand, I can't say I've ever seen a "provider." It's not that I've got a moral objection to paying for sex, I just don't think I'd be able to take myself or the situation seriously. If I were to ever see an escort (read: prossie), I'd have to do something like take her bowling. Maybe laser tag.

Exactly! And THAT is the difference between a street whore and an escort. To the whore you are a "trick." (Cover your wallet and keep an eye out behind you... LOL)

To a professional escort you are a friend she is out to have a fun time with. She is your girlfriend for the time you have available to spend with her. Money is really NOT the issue, she appreciates that you WANT to take care of her financially, because she is your friend, not because she is a prostitute.

I personally feel a high quality call girl is no more of a prostitute than a civie GF or wife. You just pay one by the hour with no strings instead of paying the rent and car payment and - alimony after you aren't "getting it" anymore... LOL

The only difference between a professional top quality escort and a "civie" date is with the escort you know you are going to have fun and that when you get home you are going to get more than a handshake at the door after spending a bunch of money on dinner, drinks and miniature golf...

Unfortunately not too many transsexual providers see beyond the "trick" level. A few do, and most of you know who they are. They are the girls who truly have fun doing what they do, and who are fun to be with - and they are the girls you guys talk about and want to date.

As for Odelay's comment...

Hillarious thread, not so much from the question but from the answers.

Listen up: "We're all tricks!"

You pay, always.

While I agree that you will ALWAYS pay... that's why God put men on earth... You are NOT a "trick." Not at my house anyway.

I have no idea what it's like to be a trick.

That's because you've never dated Mimi...

JUST JOKING!!!

Giggles,
TS Jamie

[uber_nerd]

i still luv u even tho ur pretty rude sometimes :3

i try not to be . but it seems like i am always pushed to the limit

Increase your limit.

[sockmonkey]

Exactly! And THAT is the difference between a street whore and an escort. To the whore you are a "trick." (Cover your wallet and keep an eye out behind you... LOL)

To a professional escort you are a friend she is out to have a fun time with. She is your girlfriend for the time you have available to spend with her. Money is really NOT the issue, she appreciates that you WANT to take care of her financially, because she is your friend, not because she is a prostitute.

Personally, I'd enjoy a platonic relationship with a t-girl, in every measure the same way as the platonic relationships I have with my GG friends. Somebody with whom I can hang out, with the understanding that I'm not interested in having sex with her. I like having diverse groups of friends; it's fun getting to know people who you have nothing in common with on the surface and discovering shared interests as you go.

[sockmonkey]

Exposing your tits will not get any accolades from me.

Maybe you should look at them more closely.

[mrniceguy]

I have talked to mimi on the phone and know one of her road buddies. She is crazy in a good way from what I am told (I was also told she is packin something nice!). Shouldn't mistake people being outspoken for people being mentally ill. Think about it, how boring would this site be if everyone was plain spoken?

It is called a trick, period. However, whether its a hoe or a girl ymet at school that you like if you are spending money in hopes of eventually gettin some ass its called.....trickin' off!!!

Speaking of which, Mimi, with tits like that, you can get it...the wallet that is.

Call me!!!

[keepingitreal470]

I have talked to mimi on the phone and know one of her road buddies. She is crazy in a good way from what I am told (I was also told she is packin something nice!). Shouldn't mistake people being outspoken for people being mentally ill. Think about it, how boring would this site be if everyone was plain spoken?

It is called a trick, period. However, whether its a hoe or a girl ymet at school that you like if you are spending money in hopes of eventually gettin some ass its called.....trickin' off!!!

Speaking of which, Mimi, with tits like that, you can get it...the wallet that is.
Call me!!!

Lies Lies Lies. Now this is whats called a sad pathetic trick.

[needsum]

All I can say is I hope to no man I've ever dated ever felt like a "trick" after meeting me. I would hope that instead he feels like he just had a fun time with a friend, and that he would look forward to spending time with me again.

I think calling a man who has the CLASS to be willing to help his lady of the evening out with a little green to thank her for pleasing him with her body a "trick" or "john" is a derrogatory ghetto street term akin to calling a transsexual a "tranny," only worse.

No tricks at my house, only TREATS!

Giggles,
TS Jamie

Well said! I think the kind of guy who goes with a girl who openly refers to him and other "clients" as tricks gets what he deserves.

I've had some experience with escorts, and ofr me its about finding some mutually beneficial connection. So, like saifan said, I do my research and find out if the woman I'm seeing is going to be the kind of woman I'm looking for. If I want a cheap get-off, I'll go jerkoff in a video booth for the price of a few tokens and save my hard earned $$ for something more worthwile.

blah blah..when ur giving a girl money to fuck u ur a trick, referring to urself as a toaster or a giraffe doesnt make u less of a trick, it simply makes u a deluded trick...

blah blah yourself. I consider the word trick to be derogatory, and as mimi is unsig it in this thread, as an insult. I'm not stupid, I know I'm paying for sex--I'm not trying to deny the fact that the only reaosn why I'm with a particular girl is because I'm paying her to be there.

But if you have a lower class mentality and want to look at things purely from a perspective of "trick" and "whore" then you are tagging those people as some "thing" based on what they do rather than for who they are. I for one don't just judge someone solely on face value. I don't consider an escort a whore, nor do I consider a client a trick, based solely on the actions they are performing.

Its a state of mind that makes you who you are. if you think because you pay a girl to fuck you that you're a "trick" then so be it. I don't pay for that experience. Like I said in my original post, I'm looking for more than just getting fucked. I do research and find a girl that will give me more than just a half hearted bang in the back of a car. If I'm going to spend my money on something like this, then I make sure that I get what I'm looking for, end of story.

So go for it--label us all tricks and ho's, I don't really care. It just paints a broader picture of who you are when you generalize shit like that.

wheres george carlin when u need him...

u can dress it up any way u like, whatever helps u sleep better at nite...bottom line, ur a fuckin trick, ur a dude who pays a girl to screw u, who absent such payment would not look in ur direction twice...deal with it...i mean if u wanna find a girl who for the few minutes she gets u off uses semantics that make u feel less shameful and comforted, go ahead, but now, that ur not transacting, be honest, ur a trick, she considers u a trick and all her friends and urs do as well...end of story

Seriously, what the fuck is your problem? I think most of the 33 posts you've made thus far have been negative and attacks against other people for posting their beliefs. Did you write the book on "The Way Things Are In The World Today"? How did you get to be so fucking smart on all things?

I stated my opinion. You slammed me, as you have others, for no reason. I didn't provoke you, I stated how I feel about this topic, without throwing shit at aonyone else in the process. Yet you have to strut your shit like the rooster in the henhouse, spouting your venom for all to see, so you can be the all knowing, high and mighty cock of the block.

Lets just put it simply one more time so you can maybe get over whatever it is you feel you need to bitch with me about:

Yes, I occasionally pay for sex. I do it for pleasure, not necessity. Yes, I am aware that the particular girl I'm "buying" might not give me the time of day, but then again maybe she would if she weren't a working girl. I don't go to streetwalkers, and I don't peruse CL for the deal of the day. To girls like that, any guy is a trick.

The kind of girl I look for is the kind that goes out of her way to make you feel like you're NOT just another john to her. They make up the room, take time to talk with you and get friendly, they open themselves up sexually and don't just lay there while you pound away at them for 2 seconds. They absolutely won't suck your cock for $10 behind a dumpster in a back alley because its not who they are as a person. Does this mean that they fall in love with me or any of the other guys they sees? Absolutely not. But, believe it or not, while every girl in the industry is in it for the money, not all of them are whores and streetwalker trash. And if you try to argue with me on that, you're either bitterly Jaded because of women or you've just never been with anyone other than a $5 streetwhore.

There are women who actually try to make you feel comfortable, welcome, at ease with them and almost as if they are your girlfriend for the time you have together. To these women, we may very well be just another client, but if all we were was "just a trick" then why would they go to the trouble of making us feel anyway else? And BTW, I've encountered all types of escorts, and I don't need to try and dress up anything to make myself feel better about it. The only remorse I have is if I don't get the kind of service I'm paying for--the remores of throwing money down the drain.

All I'm trying to do by making my posts in this thread is highlight the fact that there is more to the relationship between an escort and a john than just trick and hooker. Yes, that is the basic, underlying premise: guy pays money to girl for her to fuck him.. But the "trick" mentality is just that--a state of mind. Thats all I'm saying. You think that all escorts who take time to be a girfried experience look at themselves as a whore? Nope. Thats all I'm saying.

Argue some more, state your case yet again, have a fucking blast, my friend.

[RangeHova]

I gotta be honest, I have always wondered kinda the same thing about guys who go to escorts. While I may not out it the way that Mimi put it, I have wondered what it feels like.

I like sex as much as the next person and I can say that I have been tempted to lay my money down but when it comes down to it I always felt like it would be so empty that I probably wouldn't even come. I need some kind of connection with a girl. Someone pretending to like me for cash would seem to piss me off. I think I would be mad at myself after it was over.

I don't down a guy who pays for it. I don't think I'm better because I don't pay for it. We all are different. While I might prefer to date a girl in the more traditional sense, most guys that pay for it have no real true desire to talk on the phone, go out to movies and dinners, and chill out with a girl outside of the bedroom. You gotta do what works for you.

The notion that I'm paying for it because I take a girl on a date is bullshit. I like dating. I like a good movie with a cool girl. I'm a foodie, so I get into restaurants and I prefer to do it with a girl across my table. I actually like a good date. I'm not doing it just to get her in the bed.

[10th letter]

All I can say is I hope to no man I've ever dated ever felt like a "trick" after meeting me. I would hope that instead he feels like he just had a fun time with a friend, and that he would look forward to spending time with me again.

I think calling a man who has the CLASS to be willing to help his lady of the evening out with a little green to thank her for pleasing him with her body a "trick" or "john" is a derrogatory ghetto street term akin to calling a transsexual a "tranny," only worse.

No tricks at my house, only TREATS!

Giggles,
TS Jamie

Well said! I think the kind of guy who goes with a girl who openly refers to him and other "clients" as tricks gets what he deserves.

I've had some experience with escorts, and ofr me its about finding some mutually beneficial connection. So, like saifan said, I do my research and find out if the woman I'm seeing is going to be the kind of woman I'm looking for. If I want a cheap get-off, I'll go jerkoff in a video booth for the price of a few tokens and save my hard earned $$ for something more worthwile.

blah blah..when ur giving a girl money to fuck u ur a trick, referring to urself as a toaster or a giraffe doesnt make u less of a trick, it simply makes u a deluded trick...

blah blah yourself. I consider the word trick to be derogatory, and as mimi is unsig it in this thread, as an insult. I'm not stupid, I know I'm paying for sex--I'm not trying to deny the fact that the only reaosn why I'm with a particular girl is because I'm paying her to be there.

But if you have a lower class mentality and want to look at things purely from a perspective of "trick" and "whore" then you are tagging those people as some "thing" based on what they do rather than for who they are. I for one don't just judge someone solely on face value. I don't consider an escort a whore, nor do I consider a client a trick, based solely on the actions they are performing.

Its a state of mind that makes you who you are. if you think because you pay a girl to fuck you that you're a "trick" then so be it. I don't pay for that experience. Like I said in my original post, I'm looking for more than just getting fucked. I do research and find a girl that will give me more than just a half hearted bang in the back of a car. If I'm going to spend my money on something like this, then I make sure that I get what I'm looking for, end of story.

So go for it--label us all tricks and ho's, I don't really care. It just paints a broader picture of who you are when you generalize shit like that.

wheres george carlin when u need him...

u can dress it up any way u like, whatever helps u sleep better at nite...bottom line, ur a fuckin trick, ur a dude who pays a girl to screw u, who absent such payment would not look in ur direction twice...deal with it...i mean if u wanna find a girl who for the few minutes she gets u off uses semantics that make u feel less shameful and comforted, go ahead, but now, that ur not transacting, be honest, ur a trick, she considers u a trick and all her friends and urs do as well...end of story

Seriously, what the fuck is your problem? I think most of the 33 posts you've made thus far have been negative and attacks against other people for posting their beliefs. Did you write the book on "The Way Things Are In The World Today"? How did you get to be so fucking smart on all things?

I stated my opinion. You slammed me, as you have others, for no reason. I didn't provoke you, I stated how I feel about this topic, without throwing shit at aonyone else in the process. Yet you have to strut your shit like the rooster in the henhouse, spouting your venom for all to see, so you can be the all knowing, high and mighty cock of the block.

Lets just put it simply one more time so you can maybe get over whatever it is you feel you need to bitch with me about:

Yes, I occasionally pay for sex. I do it for pleasure, not necessity. Yes, I am aware that the particular girl I'm "buying" might not give me the time of day, but then again maybe she would if she weren't a working girl. I don't go to streetwalkers, and I don't peruse CL for the deal of the day. To girls like that, any guy is a trick.

The kind of girl I look for is the kind that goes out of her way to make you feel like you're NOT just another john to her. They make up the room, take time to talk with you and get friendly, they open themselves up sexually and don't just lay there while you pound away at them for 2 seconds. They absolutely won't suck your cock for $10 behind a dumpster in a back alley because its not who they are as a person. Does this mean that they fall in love with me or any of the other guys they sees? Absolutely not. But, believe it or not, while every girl in the industry is in it for the money, not all of them are whores and streetwalker trash. And if you try to argue with me on that, you're either bitterly Jaded because of women or you've just never been with anyone other than a $5 streetwhore.

There are women who actually try to make you feel comfortable, welcome, at ease with them and almost as if they are your girlfriend for the time you have together. To these women, we may very well be just another client, but if all we were was "just a trick" then why would they go to the trouble of making us feel anyway else? And BTW, I've encountered all types of escorts, and I don't need to try and dress up anything to make myself feel better about it. The only remorse I have is if I don't get the kind of service I'm paying for--the remores of throwing money down the drain.

All I'm trying to do by making my posts in this thread is highlight the fact that there is more to the relationship between an escort and a john than just trick and hooker. Yes, that is the basic, underlying premise: guy pays money to girl for her to fuck him.. But the "trick" mentality is just that--a state of mind. Thats all I'm saying. You think that all escorts who take time to be a girfried experience look at themselves as a whore? Nope. Thats all I'm saying.

Argue some more, state your case yet again, have a fucking blast, my friend.

ur ad hominem attacks dont irk me, sorry...i never attacked u since i dont know u, im simply pointing out that ur hiding behind words, and thats stupid...in fact, to counter ur point from another angle, suppose some men LIKE being refered to as a trick, and get off on the nasty hooker/trick interaction...in fact, i have more respect for those guys..in fact in fact those guys i would believe first when they say they can get laid for free and simply like the thrill of being a trick and being treated like a piece of shit, i actually have friends in that catagory, that have hot gfs and simply like naughty sex, and paying for it is taboo and qualifies...whereas ur whole i can get laid for free, in fact maybe even from her (hehe) but i prefer to not waste time blah blah blah, BUT please gimme GFE and treat me special...cmon, if u want girlfriend experience, get a girlfriend, when u hand over cash and suck cock, ur a fuckin trick...now i dont know why ur taking issue with me, i dont mean u in particular, but everyone who claims that semantics matter...they matter to YOU and to others who take issue with terminology, not to the transaction or the actual definitions...

as to mimi...do i like u? well, i dont know u, but i do know one thing, ive been around the scene a bit, and other than some friends that ive made i wouldnt ask most of these chasers for the time, and when they sit near me i slide over and try not to make eye contact...they ooze nastiness and most likely have psychological issues greater than the girls theyre interacting with...in fact they all have this semi serial killer look to be honest...so yeah, if i was a girl a trick would be the nicest reference