Could you date a tranny that escorts?

[neverforget]

here's the age old dilemma of dating an escort:
cell phones, hair weaves, pedicures, clothes, shoes, handbags, surgeries, 'mones.... and I won't even count recreational drugs and her mom in the Bronx who's always short the rent money.
When you start caring for someone you desperately want them to stop working but the brutal cost of transitioning doesn't go away just cause your doing the Don Quixote routine

so the only practical thing is to let them continue doing the hooker thing and eventually that starts eating away at you, just like it eats away at her every day regardless of weather you're in her life or not.

and that's why it hardly ever works

very well said. im in the situation and have seen that things wont change. im in the process of moving on. that pain is just to severe. she has never asked me for a dime and i know she truly loves me. but the life she leads i just cant accept and be a part of. its true it slowly starts to eat away at you. a little each time. when you see her walking away to meet a client with a tear in her eye, its pain that cant be described. when its love it can only be one way. 1 on 1.

[Bluejay]

9 years and still going strong!

I think the issue here is the ability to seperate love and sex,in my eyes to differant things.Not an easy thing to do,I admit but it is possible.

[Remy757Photog]

9 years and still going strong!

I think the issue here is the ability to seperate love and sex,in my eyes to differant things.Not an easy thing to do,I admit but it is possible.

I have to go with Blue jay here, although I've been the outsider looking-in at situations like Flabby mentioned and know it does exist. I wonder how many of the guys who would date a "Porn Star" but not an escort? I feel so long as she is handling business and not getting caught up in the 'fast life' (as admittedly some 'escorts' do) Im kosher with it.

[Simonross]

Yep, have done it twice, and nope, I won't ever do it again

TS relationships can be tough enough to maintain without the added complications of dating a Tgirl that escorts, and the compromises it forces you to accept emotionally.

Now in my 3rd major relationship with a TS, the lovely Racheal, who thankfully has nothing to do with the adult industry, and thats just how I like it these days

Regards

Simon

[MrF]

For those who can compartmentalize love versus sex and succeed in a relationship with an escort, more power to you. To some extent I can relate to that compartmentalization, but I would still find it tough to date an escort. Friendship is possible, but not romance. There are so many other choices for romantic partners and I would prefer to avoid the issues associated with that line of work.

BTW, I knew a stripper girl who complained that sometimes guys would try harder to stick with her just because she made a lot of money, i.e. their interest soared when they found out she was a stripper. (These would typically be young, good-looking, but impoverished guys.) I wonder if that happens to escorts ?

[Deepdarkfucker]

Yes

[Ts CinthyaNY]

9 years and still going strong!

I think the issue here is the ability to seperate love and sex,in my eyes to differant things.Not an easy thing to do,I admit but it is possible.

You are really smart. I been 7 years with the same guy , it wasn't easy the first couple years but eventually we have come to a understanding. My man do not really mind my line of work, because he know that I do not get involved emotionally with any of my clients.

It's important for me to make sure I separate love and sex, and I do . But what it's more important it is that he trust me on that.

I enjoy sometimes, there are certain things he will not do and my dates do so it's all about to balance what i do and separate from my personal life.

He loves me being very honest to him always and independent of him financially and he spoil me as much as he can , but to me , just the knowledge of having someone waiting for me home and tell me he loves me no matter what it's more than I bargain for.

So I guess it is possible for a guy to be with someone who escort , GG or TS as long as he is open to any possibilities and strong minded(which it's rare in some guys), open you mind, trust and love .

[Simonross]

9 years and still going strong!

I think the issue here is the ability to seperate love and sex,in my eyes to differant things.Not an easy thing to do,I admit but it is possible.

You are really smart. I been 7 years with the same guy , it wasn't easy the first couple years but eventually we have come to a understanding. My man do not really mind my line of work, because he know that I do not get involved emotionally with any of my clients.

It's important for me to make sure I separate love and sex, and I do . But what it's more important it is that he trust me on that.

I enjoy sometimes, there are certain things he will not do and my dates do so it's all about to balance what i do and separate from my personal life.

He loves me being very honest to him always and independent of him financially and he spoil me as much as he can , but to me , just the knowledge of having someone waiting for me home and tell me he loves me no matter what it's more than I bargain for.

So I guess it is possible for a guy to be with someone who escort , GG or TS as long as he is open to any possibilities and strong minded(which it's rare in some guys), open you mind, trust and love .

Think you have pretty much hit the nail on the head Cinthya, it does take a certain type of individual to be able to do that.

In my case, I found I had to 'shut off' so many areas emotionally within myself, that the relationship suffered to a point where it could no longer be maintained. We both found ways to deal with the issue of escorting, neither of us very well, thankfully we both seem to be happier people then we once were.

Simon

[doasuwill]

I have in the past, and that's not what ended the relationship, so from experience I say YES.

[melissacarter]

here's the age old dilemma of dating an escort:
cell phones, hair weaves, pedicures, clothes, shoes, handbags, surgeries, 'mones.... and I won't even count recreational drugs and her mom in the Bronx who's always short the rent money.

I like how you steered clear of any sterotypes. Why not just call her a spic and be done with it