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11-19-2008 #21
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Originally Posted by flabbybody
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11-19-2008 #22
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9 years and still going strong!
I think the issue here is the ability to seperate love and sex,in my eyes to differant things.Not an easy thing to do,I admit but it is possible.
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11-21-2008 #23Originally Posted by Bluejay
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11-21-2008 #24
Yep, have done it twice, and nope, I won't ever do it again
TS relationships can be tough enough to maintain without the added complications of dating a Tgirl that escorts, and the compromises it forces you to accept emotionally.
Now in my 3rd major relationship with a TS, the lovely Racheal, who thankfully has nothing to do with the adult industry, and thats just how I like it these days
Regards
Simon
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11-21-2008 #25
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For those who can compartmentalize love versus sex and succeed in a relationship with an escort, more power to you. To some extent I can relate to that compartmentalization, but I would still find it tough to date an escort. Friendship is possible, but not romance. There are so many other choices for romantic partners and I would prefer to avoid the issues associated with that line of work.
BTW, I knew a stripper girl who complained that sometimes guys would try harder to stick with her just because she made a lot of money, i.e. their interest soared when they found out she was a stripper. (These would typically be young, good-looking, but impoverished guys.) I wonder if that happens to escorts ?
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11-21-2008 #26
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11-21-2008 #27Originally Posted by Bluejay
You are really smart. I been 7 years with the same guy , it wasn't easy the first couple years but eventually we have come to a understanding. My man do not really mind my line of work, because he know that I do not get involved emotionally with any of my clients.
It's important for me to make sure I separate love and sex, and I do . But what it's more important it is that he trust me on that.
I enjoy sometimes, there are certain things he will not do and my dates do so it's all about to balance what i do and separate from my personal life.
He loves me being very honest to him always and independent of him financially and he spoil me as much as he can , but to me , just the knowledge of having someone waiting for me home and tell me he loves me no matter what it's more than I bargain for.
So I guess it is possible for a guy to be with someone who escort , GG or TS as long as he is open to any possibilities and strong minded(which it's rare in some guys), open you mind, trust and love .
"I used to dream, it became a reality. Now the reality it feels like a dream..." You are who you truly believe you are, I am now the one my mirror reflected .
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11-22-2008 #28Originally Posted by Ts CinthyaNY
In my case, I found I had to 'shut off' so many areas emotionally within myself, that the relationship suffered to a point where it could no longer be maintained. We both found ways to deal with the issue of escorting, neither of us very well, thankfully we both seem to be happier people then we once were.
Simon
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11-22-2008 #29
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I have in the past, and that's not what ended the relationship, so from experience I say YES.
"Do as you will, you only live once"
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11-22-2008 #30Originally Posted by flabbybody