A funny thing happened on the way to the party...

[luv2playwithTgirls]

actually, it was at and after the party...

OK, so this post addresses a couple of things that I've seen talked about in other forums, but I feel like throwing them out at the same time since they happened on the same night.

First off, I've gone to several parties over the last few years, and invariably there are a selection of girls at all of them who are looking to get paid. Personally, I don't go to these parties to get laid, just to hang out and have a good time and get a bit annoyed when girls grab me and shove their hands down my pants. Needless to say, I've become a bit wary when girls are a bit aggressive and physical with me and it's become my custom to ask whether or not they are working. This leads me to the other night when I was hanging out at a party when this absolutely gorgeous girl starts talking to me. We start dancing and she's very physical on the dance floor, grabbing my ass and flashing her (great)tits, so I start wondering to myself if I'm just a mark. We get off the dance floor and sit down and I ask her if she's working. After grilling me about what exactly that meant (which confused me to have to explain that there were plenty on prostitutes in the house), she gets all pissed off and starts accusing me of WANTING to pay for sex and if that's what I want, I should go do that.

Now, maybe there was a language barrier, maybe I phrased the question wrong, perhaps too straight-forward about it, but should a girl get that pissed off about what seems to me a perfectly honest and necessary question? I've talked to plenty of girls who just come out and tell me that they're not working because they understand the reality of what's going on at these clubs, so why would it be deemed inappropriate for me to ask? Just wondering...

Second: O.K. I've been reading all of these posts about whether you gay or not if you're into TG's, or like to suck TG cock vs. guy's cocks, or bottom, etc. etc. ad nauseum. I personally don't get involved with these kinds of speculations 'cause everyone has their own take on sexuality. As far as I'm concerned, what ever makes you happy to do and call yourself, power to you and I'm not judging you so don't judge me. Personally, I'm a very sexual person who enjoys sex for all of it's wild variety. I tend to be most physically attracted to women and fem t-girls, but, frankly, love to bottom for guys with big cocks. I don't get into gay porn (so much), nor spend all my time in gay bars, and I don't get into topping guys or rimming, kissing, cuddling, etc. with guys, cause to me I'm not actually attracted to guys in that way. I pretty much live a 'straight' lifestyle, but when I feel like bottoming, I definitely go for it and enjoy that part of my sexuality. If' that makes me 'gay', so be it, but life is so much more nuanced than that. Alternatively, when I'm with a t-girl, I love to have really hot passionate sex where we both explore everything about each others bodies. I just find tg's to be so much more physically attractive that it opens up a whole realm of sensual possibilities and I revel in that (and hopefully the girls enjoy themselves too!)

Anyways, enough of that and back to the point: So I go home with this girl the other night, really cute little blond with a great rack who's visiting friends in town. We get to the apartment, and it looks like it belongs to a couple of gay guys who had brought some friends over. We pull out the futon in the living room and start getting down to business. She tops me and is really loving the fact that I enjoy bottoming for her, when this guy comes out of one of the bedrooms with a big semi-hard cock. We both look at him, and I make some comment about the size of his cock. To make a long story short, we wind up with him in the bed with us and, after her and I sucking him together, she puts a condom on him and tells me to sit on it. Who am I to argue? We fuck like this for a while, the guy fucking me and me sucking the girls cock, until we all cum, and the girl and I leave the guy to go have a smoke.

We sit down, and she looks at me, and says "You're such a fag. I don't know if I want to fuck around anymore." I was blown away. I felt like I was in the middle of a HA forum! So apparently, I'm a hot guy when I'm getting fucked by her, but the minute it's a guy's cock, I'm a fag, despite the fact that she was fucking my face and blew her load while it was all happening. Now, we talked for a while, and she finally stopped pursuing this line of logic, especially after I made her know that she was the only reason I was there, that the guy was (and I think that I actually used this line!) nothing more that chocolate spinkles on a sundae. But it was still confounding to actually come face to face with this idea that I'd just recently been reading about on this forum....

Any thoughts on either topic?

[ottorocket]

she was jealous that you got pleasure and attention from him as much as from her...maybe more?

[luv2playwithTgirls]

she was jealous that you got pleasure and attention from him as much as from her...maybe more?

Yeah, she did indicate that that was part of it. It took quite a bit of convincing that that wasn't the case. She was the sole reason I was there, and giving her a pleasurable experience was my priority. Fortunately I give a good massage...

[Ryz]

This made me lol

[Sunny Dee-lite]

OMG!

[dc_guy_75]

Dude, if you're with a cute tgirl, why bring a guy into the mix... wtf?

Just enjoy it with the girl...

[luv2playwithTgirls]

Dude, if you're with a cute tgirl, why bring a guy into the mix... wtf?

Just enjoy it with the girl...

While I agree with you in principle, dc, sometimes you gotta go with the flow. Hell, SHE asked ME if I wanted to bring him on board, not the other way around, so I figured she was into it as well! And she seemed to be, until it was over and she thought about it for a minute...

[luv2playwithTgirls]

OMG!

Hey Sunny, I hope thats an 'OMG' what a crazy night, not an 'OMG' what a total douchebag! LOL!

[scroller]

If true, I think you're my new hero.

[DL_NL]

I would've thought that, being people who push the envelope of conventional sexual margins, t-girls would be a little less judgmental of others in this respect than the average Joe or Jane.

Apparently, they're only human...