How many girls here would actually date an average guy?

[slinky]

Girls: would you have what society would look at as a "normal" dating relationship with an average guy. In other words, average looking, average height, average weight, not rich, nice guy. He would pick up dinner, movies, bowling, etc. and buy you an occasional gift, but wouldn't be giving you any cash, showering you with expensive gifts, wouldn't be a guy with some huge supply of drugs, would have a "normal" straight job. He would take you out in public, introduce you as his GF, hold your hand and kiss you in public, etc.

PS Brad Pitt isn't average or "normal" looking. These are average guys:

[bklynboy]

Ask the girl I'm dating. So she's a t-girl? Big deal. She's sweet and I'm just an average guy.

[JANIRA]

Girls: would you have what society would look at as a "normal" dating relationship with an average guy. In other words, average looking, average height, average weight, not rich, nice guy. He would pick up dinner, movies, bowling, etc. and buy you an occasional gift, but wouldn't be giving you any cash, showering you with expensive gifts, wouldn't be a guy with some huge supply of drugs, would have a "normal" straight job. He would take you out in public, introduce you as his GF, hold your hand and kiss you in public, etc.

PS Brad Pitt isn't average or "normal" looking. These are average guys:

MOST DEFINATE!


I know of girls even some very close friends of mine who want the "Pretty Woman " fantasy , you know the scenario... or would love to have a guy spoil them to the most utter degreeof lavish luxery....

Personally , I to when i was naive and very early in my transistion wanted that ultimate fantasy of being whisked away by a gentlemen who would had money, riches, and who would shower me with money, gifts etc... and yes even love..."BUT".....as i got older i started seeing the reality of things and seeing things in prespective ...I saw that the most important thing to me was being loved...UNCONDITIONAL,, CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT,, SEE HIM & HEAR HIS NAME AND FEEL BUTTERFLIES IN MY TUMMY,,...... CRAZY LOVE....type of love.


Me personally , could never be with someone REALTIONSHIP WISE" for just the sake of money,,or because he was well off,, I would date a guy who worked the most basic job and had a standard basic car,,,,what matters to me aside from his physical attributes is that he 1. has goals,& ambitions 2. honest 3. charisma 4. funny as hell . 5 .is a self made man 6. does not live for the world 7.romantic & mysterious 8. LOVES ME FOR ME,,,...ALL OF ME"



THERE IS NO AMOUNT OF MONEY THAT CAN TOP THE FEELING OF 2 BEINGS BECOMING .....1


The minute I heard my first love story,
I started looking for you, not knowing
how blind that was

Lovers don't finally meet somewhere,
they're in each other all along. -Jalal ad-din Rumi

[slinky]

Could you explain what "does not live for the world" means? I never heard that expression before.

[JANIRA]

Meaning,, He does not live by what others tell him, he is a independant thinker, and person.


I have had broken up with past men due to them being so uncertain & worried what their familes, friends ...or even other people will think, if they knew that they were dating or had feelings for a Transsexual. Some become so impressionable that they disreguard what ever feelings he has for the girl and basicly gives in to what his loved ones said , becouse he feels they wont accept his realtionship.

Opose to standing up for who you love or care for and not having it affect who you love.


That is what I mean "Not living for the world".

[jesseflo]

thats all i date is the average guy as im a hopeless romantic and have yet to find a GOOD GUY! but none of my boyfriends were considered the best looking guy ever but they were to me and thats all that mattered though most of em failed at being the good guy but some were close. what mattered most to me was that they loved me and treated me good.still looking for that guy!

[Alyssa87]

MAYBE THEIR SONS

they all look like my dad's drinking buddies.

[JANIRA]

MAYBE THEIR SONS

they all look like my dad's drinking buddies.

lol.. i thought i was the only one who noticed that..

[bklynboy]

I date a TS and she is happy with me. We share alot, laugh alot. I'm too old to really give a shit about what other people think, much less the rednecks who live down the street from me in Brooklyn (reegads, I almost married one!). Who I love, have a relationship with is my business. People accept it or they don't. Its really not an issue. I've learned there are plenty of scammers and schemers regardless of sex. You'll always have issues with anyone you date, so what's the big deal? If you love the person, you'll weather the storm.

[Lick UR Lovely]

MAYBE THEIR SONS

they all look like my dad's drinking buddies.

lol.. i thought i was the only one who noticed that..

Janira? Is it legal to marry a gorgeous TG in Florida? I'd marry you baby