NICE GUY?

[vman2375]

THINK U 'LL HAVE MORE OBSTACLES BEING IN PORN, EVEN THOUGH TS OR NOT , EVERYONE HAS A TOUGH TIME FINDING THE RIGHT PARTNER.

[SXFX]

Oh pleas!
My dream when I was younger was to marry a stripper!
Do you know how much those girls make!
That and all the sexy clothes they have and all their hot friends!
Pleas! Porn / stripping is a non issue.
The issue is that a nice guy is an easy catch.
And no girl is ever interested in a easy catch!

[SUPPLY42]

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[OEMEnemyNum1]

I'd have to say there are tons of nice guys on this board. The only reason they stay nice is because they dont get pussy thrown at them all the time.

Hate to say it, but the only thing that makes someone a nice guy is lack of options. People are all pretty much the same, and when someone breaks into a certain level of cockiness their personality changes.

I've known a few nice guys, that end up being complete dickheads later in life.

The reason nice guys don't get a lot of girls......When they do get girls, they are no longer nice guys.

So when it comes down to being a nice guy, I say fuck it.

[jesseflo]

im in the same boat. i never find a good nice guy to love. most guys i meet are using me and the others dont appreciate me or are embarrassed of me. ive yet to find my dream guy but im still hopeful.

[Alaska Guy]

I am not so sure I am convinced that ladies want a nice guy. I mean sure they seem to want a nice guy when they get shit on by a "bad boy" but when they feel all better again it's back to the bad boys, and girls just say "thanks nice guy, I feel better now, but let's just be friends."

It's a weird cycle that we all play a part in it seems. I know that I am a nice guy, and I don't want to start treating people like shit to get the girl that I want because that's against my moral integrity. I know I can't force the issue and if a girl doesn't see the value in me or vice versa then it wasn't meant to be.

Still, the nice guy thing is irritating after awhile. The truth is, women want a combo of both nice guy and bad boy. She doesn't just want one or the other. So nice guys, find that girl that you can be bad around TOGETHER!

Hey, I think I will try to take my own advice here! lol it's easy to give advice but to take ur own? lol

[muhmuh]

Us nicer guys can get a bit bitter over time. Get used enough times by the girls and you start to turn into the jerks the girls usually go for as a matter of survival.

1) if youre able to turn into a jerk youre not nice in the first place
2) declaring all women stupid enough to only be after jerks makes you an ass
3) "get used" why is it that every time you delve deeper into the nice guy topic you end up with a long list of all the things he did for her expecting her to open her legs at some point? what youre doing is expecting a relationship to work on the same basis as prostitution

[artemis2085]

im in the same boat. i never find a good nice guy to love. most guys i meet are using me and the others dont appreciate me or are embarrassed of me. ive yet to find my dream guy but im still hopeful.

It honestly begins with taking those qualities you long for and forgetting about them. Just do it. Put it in the back of your mind. Then out of nowhere, you will be reminded of those qualities in that person. And might I add, he would be a very lucky gentleman (at least lets definitely hope hes the latter).

When you stop "looking", that is when you meet that one person who just does it for you...

[Sunny Dee-lite]

FOR WHAT IT'S WORTH, MY TWO CENTS...

I THINK WE ALL HAVE OUR SET OF MORALS, VALUES, AND SUCH. WHICH HAVE TO BE TAKEN INTO CONSIDERATION WHEN ANSWERING THIS QUESTION...

AS FOR MYSELF I AM EXTREMELY HARD ON MYSELF, ON THE WAY I AM VIEWED...SO I JUDGE ANYONE HAVE DATED WITH THE SAME REGARD!

WE ALL HAVE CRITERIA AND STANDARDS TO MEET. NO MATTER WHAT YOUR BACKGROUND IS ,YOU ARE JUDGED. I HAVE ALWAYS HAD REGULAR JOBS IN RETAIL MANAGEMENT AND IN MAKE-UP ARTISTRY BEFORE I EVER STARTED TO BE A PARTY PROMOTER(NOT THAT I AM DOING ANYTHING WRONG BY BEING A PARTY PROMOTER .I AM JUST MORE "OUTED" IN THE PUBLIC EYE) AND DEALT WITH DATING PEOPLE IN THE PAST THAT WERE ASHAMED OF ME FOR BEING A TS. WHEN THEY MET ME KNOWING I WAS A TS.

I AM MORE OPEN ABOUT MY LIFE NOW THAN EVER! BUT EVEN WHEN I WASN'T AS IN THE "PUBLIC EYE" I HAD ISSUES TOO! PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS STEREOTYPE YOU FOR WHO AND WHAT YOU ARE! SOMEONE WILL ALWAYS KNOW YOU ARE A TRANNY. MY HEIGHT, SOMETIMES MY VOICE, SOMETIMES EVEN "SHE TOO PERFECT SHE HAS TO BE A MAN" HAVE BEEN SOME OF MY OWN OBSTACLES IN DATING...LOL. SO A PERSON WILLING TO GET INVOLVED IN THIS RELATIONSHIP WITH ME HAS TO UNDERSTAND THAT...

I TRY MY HARDEST EVERYDAY TO SHOW PEOPLE LOVING CARE AND CONCERN NO MATTER WHAT BACKGROUND OR CURRENT LIFE SITUATIONS THEY HAVE HAD!

WE ALL HAVE BAGGAGE AND FINDING SOMEONE TO SHARE A LIFE WITH IS DIFFICULT. NO MATTER WHAT YOUR SEXUAL PREFERRENCE IS! THE TS POOL IS JUST SMALLER AND HARDER TO FIND MISTER OR MISS RIGHT!

ALL I HAVE TO SAY ABOUT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON IS WHEN YOU STOP LOOKING AND LEAST EXPECT IT ....IT GETS YA! THERE IS NO SCIENCE TO IT....THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS TO ALWAYS BE HONEST WITH EACH OTHER AND ALWAYS TALK ABOUT BOTH OF YOUR NEEDS AND MAKE SURE THEY MATCH!

HOPE IT HELPED SOME OUT...AND SORRY MY "TWO CENTS" TURNED INTO A BUCK FIFTY...LOL!

P.S. I LIKE THAT MY BOYFRIEND IS TALL HE MAKES ME FEEL PETITE!

[doradora]

what happened to you?

I'm just new member.
but in my memorys, I never watched that like this post from you.
i worry about you.


and about Where can find nice man...

that is..that is....それは何かこんな感じ.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=hUVdA9ABzpg

してもがんばれ! ヤスミンさん!!!

but when you found him, you'll forget this post.