NICE GUY?

[goldensamba]

ladies, so where can a girl find a nice respectable, sweet guy that is not afraid to be with a ts woman, passable or not. sometimes i feel like i can't wait to meet that person and run to the end of this square planet, only him and me holding on, keeping each other from falling off the edge. the longer i'm in this community, the longer i feel that he's not out there...i feel i decently new to the scene so mothers, sisters...what say you.

Look, most nice guys, who go for girls or T-girls, are shot down, made fun of, pushed around and tormented their whole lives. I know from experience. We become loners, military, and capitalists who only want to be alone because of the pain we feel. We are taught by experience that nice never gets us anything but regret and harm. Most who say thats not true either fake being nice, or just wanna get laid.

Us nice guys are a dying breed. Women just need to accept that, they treat nice guys like crap all the way threw highschool and college and expect us to be there when they mature, but we don't, we die on the inside, or change to jerks to be accepted.

I'll have to disagree with you here. Some of us are just normal successful guys who like people no matter what they may be and what thier gender may or may not be. There are a few of us who don't see working girls for the exact reson. We would rather be with a girl who also wants to be with us than pay for someone to spend time with. If a guy has a choice of getting all the GG girls he can handle or being with a TS girl you can bet the high level of drama is going to make him lean toward the GG.

TS girls might also want to tell your sisters to stop calling some of these nice guys faggots, etc. They are going to be less apt to seek out nice TS girls for relationships if they are constantly beaten down.

My 2 cents.......

[keepingitreal470]

ladies, so where can a girl find a nice respectable, sweet guy that is not afraid to be with a ts woman, passable or not. sometimes i feel like i can't wait to meet that person and run to the end of this square planet, only him and me holding on, keeping each other from falling off the edge. the longer i'm in this community, the longer i feel that he's not out there...i feel i decently new to the scene so mothers, sisters...what say you.

Look, most nice guys, who go for girls or T-girls, are shot down, made fun of, pushed around and tormented their whole lives. I know from experience. We become loners, military, and capitalists who only want to be alone because of the pain we feel. We are taught by experience that nice never gets us anything but regret and harm. Most who say thats not true either fake being nice, or just wanna get laid.

Us nice guys are a dying breed. Women just need to accept that, they treat nice guys like crap all the way threw highschool and college and expect us to be there when they mature, but we don't, we die on the inside, or change to jerks to be accepted.

I'll have to disagree with you here. Some of us are just normal successful guys who like people no matter what they may be and what thier gender may or may not be. There are a few of us who don't see working girls for the exact reson. We would rather be with a girl who also wants to be with us than pay for someone to spend time with. If a guy has a choice of getting all the GG girls he can handle or being with a TS girl you can bet the high level of drama is going to make him lean toward the GG.

TS girls might also want to tell your sisters to stop calling some of these nice guys faggots, etc. They are going to be less apt to seek out nice TS girls for relationships if they are constantly beaten down.
My 2 cents.......

Good Point!!!!!!!

[ocguy]

Us nice guys usually arent given the chance, I mean I know I am not the best looking guy, but unfortunately most girls cant get beyond that.

[DS-Kika]

Us nice guys usually arent given the chance, I mean I know I am not the best looking guy, but unfortunately most girls cant get beyond that.

Trust me, even if you were the best looking, you'd be shot down. Its what 99.999...% of women do! They say they want a nice guy, but then spit in our faces.

[slinky]

the longer i'm in this community, the longer i feel that he's not out there...

You may want to deeply examine that statement.

[bipoker]

You've already been intimate with thousands upon thousands of guys, pick one

[Fox]

ladies, so where can a girl find a nice respectable, sweet guy that is not afraid to be with a ts woman, passable or not. sometimes i feel like i can't wait to meet that person and run to the end of this square planet, only him and me holding on, keeping each other from falling off the edge. the longer i'm in this community, the longer i feel that he's not out there...i feel i decently new to the scene so mothers, sisters...what say you.

Look, most nice guys, who go for girls or T-girls, are shot down, made fun of, pushed around and tormented their whole lives. I know from experience. We become loners, military, and capitalists who only want to be alone because of the pain we feel. We are taught by experience that nice never gets us anything but regret and harm. Most who say thats not true either fake being nice, or just wanna get laid.

Us nice guys are a dying breed. Women just need to accept that, they treat nice guys like crap all the way threw highschool and college and expect us to be there when they mature, but we don't, we die on the inside, or change to jerks to be accepted.

I'll have to disagree with you here. Some of us are just normal successful guys who like people no matter what they may be and what thier gender may or may not be. There are a few of us who don't see working girls for the exact reson. We would rather be with a girl who also wants to be with us than pay for someone to spend time with. If a guy has a choice of getting all the GG girls he can handle or being with a TS girl you can bet the high level of drama is going to make him lean toward the GG.

TS girls might also want to tell your sisters to stop calling some of these nice guys faggots, etc. They are going to be less apt to seek out nice TS girls for relationships if they are constantly beaten down.

My 2 cents.......

Basically, that. Although personally I'm not affected by the faggot thing, it damn sure isn't helping.

By the way, where are you searching, Yasmin?

[beatmaker]

The truth of the matter is, you have two impediments going against you Yasmin: you're a transsexual in a homophobic world and you're a porn star. Many GG porn stars don't have sustainable relationships, due to the nature of their work. Shyt, it's hard for the local GG stripper to have a sustainable, meaningful relationship with a "good man", who takes her seriously. As a result, they end up with losers, pimps and thugs. Men tend to have this wife/mother vs. whore/jumpoff dichotomy, where they have women who they feel are marriage material, who will make good mothers and role models, then you have the woman who are built for sex only. That's real talk, whether it's fair or not. Most transsexuals that I see, out and about in NYC with their boyfriends looking happy and fulfilled, tend to be at least 90% passable, so they don't illicit stares, ignorant comments/ridicule and they don't work in the sex industry at all. I remember a Latin TS, I would see in Midtown NYC with her boyfriend afterwork on a regular basis. She wore 9-5 business attire, but her large, veiny hands and big, pumped-up silicone booty gave her away to the trained eye. Most people couldn't "clock" her and those that did look, where looking at her huge ass. Since, I'm into TSs, I can usually spot one, even one who is really passable (most of the time). I remember I saw Babydoll years ago, walking down 8th Avenue and dudes were just sweating her, they had no idea she was a TS. I wouldn't clock her either, except I saw her in one of Joey Silvera's movies. I saw Jennie aka J-Lo, who dances at Sunny's party at the Puerto Rican Parade Festival this year and the same drooling response from guys in the streets, even though her face is a bit masculine, the body is all woman. Men do care what their fellow "mankind" thinks of them, so to be called "faggot" because you're out with a TS, even when you have ZERO attraction to physical men, makes most guys take pause. It's analogous to men who are attracted to fat women. They creep in the background with them or use the internet to fetishize these women and get their rocks off. There's White men who are very attracted to Black women, but will never date one in public, because their upper class WASPY family and friends think Blacks are beneath them. So, they get on some Hugh Grant shyt, cruising around looking for some Devine Brown, Brown Sugar whatever!

Back to good men, a "good guy" tends to have certain moral principles and codes, that might make them apprehensive about having a true, romantic relationship with someone whose sexual exploits are a mouseclick or DVD away. People tend to gravitate towards like-minded people. A women with a Master's Degree and high-powered corporate job, probably would not want to have a serious relationship with a guy with a GED working for UPS. Look at Barack and Michelle Obama or Bill and Hillary Clinton. All four are Ivy League Law School Grades (Bill & Hillary @ Yale and Barack & Michelle @ Harvard). At most, these types of women would use blue collar dudes for some sex gratification, when they get horny and are sick of the vibrator. I'm in my early 30's and have no children, do I really want to date a woman with 4 kids, by 2 different guys out of wedlock? She could have a heart of gold, but I can't swallow that pill, since I'm waiting to start my family until I get married and I'm a guy.

Unfortunately, transsexuals trying to find "true love", is like a circle trying to fit into a square world. It's possible, but it seems to be uncommon, especially for those who escort and do porn. Also, as a transsexual ages, her physical masculinity tends to become more pronouce and harder to camouflauge, without having excessive plastic surgery and looking like a cartoon character. Men won't be honest, but this is also a fear in the minds of many, when it comes to having a long-term romantic relationship with a TS.

P.S: I was channel surfing Sunday night and saw the World's Heaviest Man, who weighed over 1000 pounds on the Discovery Channel. This dude had a devoted girlfriend, who would come by his house and take care of him (enabler to the Nth). She wasn't unattractive either, just an average looking Mexican women, who was slightly overweight, but not fat. If this guy can do it, you can do it Yasmin. Shyt, he can't even leave the house or whip his own ass and he got someone to love him. Like the old saying "There is somebody for everybody".

[JamesHunt]

The truth of the matter is, you have two impediments going against you Yasmin: you're a transsexual in a homophobic world and you're a porn star. Many GG porn stars don't have sustainable relationships, due to the nature of their work. Shyt, it's hard for the local GG stripper to have a sustainable, meaningful relationship with a "good man", who takes her seriously. As a result, they end up with losers, pimps and thugs. Men tend to have this wife/mother vs. whore/jumpoff dichotomy, where they have women who they feel are marriage material, who will make good mothers and role models, then you have the woman who are built for sex only. That's real talk, whether it's fair or not. Most transsexuals that I see, out and about in NYC with their boyfriends looking happy and fulfilled, tend to be at least 90% passable, so they don't illicit stares, ignorant comments/ridicule and they don't work in the sex industry at all. I remember a Latin TS, I would see in Midtown NYC with her boyfriend afterwork on a regular basis. She wore 9-5 business attire, but her large, veiny hands and big, pumped-up silicone booty gave her away to the trained eye. Most people couldn't "clock" her and those that did look, where looking at her huge ass. Since, I'm into TSs, I can usually spot one, even one who is really passable (most of the time). I remember I saw Babydoll years ago, walking down 8th Avenue and dudes were just sweating her, they had no idea she was a TS. I wouldn't clock her either, except I saw her in one of Joey Silvera's movies. I saw Jennie aka J-Lo, who dances at Sunny's party at the Puerto Rican Parade Festival this year and the same drooling response from guys in the streets, even though her face is a bit masculine, the body is all woman. Men do care what their fellow "mankind" thinks of them, so to be called "faggot" because you're out with a TS, even when you have ZERO attraction to physical men, makes most guys take pause. It's analogous to men who are attracted to fat women. They creep in the background with them or use the internet to fetishize these women and get their rocks off. There's White men who are very attracted to Black women, but will never date one in public, because their upper class WASPY family and friends think Blacks are beneath them. So, they get on some Hugh Grant shyt, cruising around looking for some Devine Brown, Brown Sugar whatever!

Back to good men, a "good guy" tends to have certain moral principles and codes, that might make them apprehensive about having a true, romantic relationship with someone whose sexual exploits are a mouseclick or DVD away. People tend to gravitate towards like-minded people. A women with a Master's Degree and high-powered corporate job, probably would not want to have a serious relationship with a guy with a GED working for UPS. Look at Barack and Michelle Obama or Bill and Hillary Clinton. All four are Ivy League Law School Grades (Bill & Hillary @ Yale and Barack & Michelle @ Harvard). At most, these types of women would use blue collar dudes for some sex gratification, when they get horny and are sick of the vibrator. I'm in my early 30's and have no children, do I really want to date a woman with 4 kids, by 2 different guys out of wedlock? She could have a heart of gold, but I can't swallow that pill, since I'm waiting to start my family until I get married and I'm a guy.

Unfortunately, transsexuals trying to find "true love", is like a circle trying to fit into a square world. It's possible, but it seems to be uncommon, especially for those who escort and do porn. Also, as a transsexual ages, her physical masculinity tends to become more pronouce and harder to camouflauge, without having excessive plastic surgery and looking like a cartoon character. Men won't be honest, but this is also a fear in the minds of many, when it comes to having a long-term romantic relationship with a TS.

P.S: I was channel surfing Sunday night and saw the World's Heaviest Man, who weighed over 1000 pounds on the Discovery Channel. This dude had a devoted girlfriend, who would come by his house and take care of him (enabler to the Nth). She wasn't unattractive either, just an average looking Mexican women, who was slightly overweight, but not fat. If this guy can do it, you can do it Yasmin. Shyt, he can't even leave the house or whip his own ass and he got someone to love him. Like the old saying "There is somebody for everybody".

WTF, can anyone here decipher this

[beatmaker]

Shyt, he can't even leave the house or whip his own ass and he got someone to love him. Like the old saying "There is somebody for everybody".

I mean "wipe" his own ass. I'm in shape and I can't "whip" my own ass, LOL!