How many guys here would actually DATE a TS?

[Faenon]

In a heartbeat. If I can ever get out of this dysfunctional marriage of mine I would pursue exclusively a relationship with a pre-op transgender woman, I have learned through time that this is my physical attraction. I still like CIS women but there would always be something I long for more if I went down that path again. I am not attracted to post op trans women though, sorry but that surgery scares the crap out of me, the results are generally not appealing to me and there are way too may horror stories out there of complication. So if the dysphoria is there, then beginning a relationship with a girl who sees that as her destination wouldn't be fair on her.

[kmersh]

In a heartbeat. If I can ever get out of this dysfunctional marriage of mine I would pursue exclusively a relationship with a pre-op transgender woman, I have learned through time that this is my physical attraction. I still like CIS women but there would always be something I long for more if I went down that path again. I am not attracted to post op trans women though, sorry but that surgery scares the crap out of me, the results are generally not appealing to me and there are way too may horror stories out there of complication. So if the dysphoria is there, then beginning a relationship with a girl who sees that as her destination wouldn't be fair on her.

I am married to a transwoman who has no interest in bottom surgery, she likes her body (including her penis) and while she has had breast augmentation and FFS, that is as far she wants to take it.

Interestingly enough I thought that my wife having a penis would be sexual Valhalla, but it turns out that living with her day and day out, seeing her naked, over time, it is just her and not like a trans porn actress showing her junk, it is just different somehow.

[obslam]

I am married to a transwoman who has no interest in bottom surgery, she likes her body (including her penis) and while she has had breast augmentation and FFS, that is as far she wants to take it.

Interestingly enough I thought that my wife having a penis would be sexual Valhalla, but it turns out that living with her day and day out, seeing her naked, over time, it is just her and not like a trans porn actress showing her junk, it is just different somehow.

Ah, it moves from special to normal. Been there!

[hiwatt1000]

..same here. had that and it was pretty much non-plus after a while...but, it's been so hard to meet someone since most of the folks have an ONLINE-ONLY/VIRTUAL-EXISTENCE...like, you'll never meet them...

[filghy2]

Interestingly enough I thought that my wife having a penis would be sexual Valhalla, but it turns out that living with her day and day out, seeing her naked, over time, it is just her and not like a trans porn actress showing her junk, it is just different somehow.

I think that's normal for most people in long-term relationships of any kind. It's not possible to sustain the same level of sexual excitement indefinitely, so the relationship has to evolve toward something different if it is to last.

[MrFanti]

Last woman I was with was full SRS.....

[sockratees]

I'd marry one.

[obslam]

I am married to a transwoman who has no interest in bottom surgery, she likes her body (including her penis) and while she has had breast augmentation and FFS, that is as far she wants to take it.

Interestingly enough I thought that my wife having a penis would be sexual Valhalla, but it turns out that living with her day and day out, seeing her naked, over time, it is just her and not like a trans porn actress showing her junk, it is just different somehow.

Anyway, you're very lucky to find such a special girl. Well done to both of you!

[Faenon]

I am married to a transwoman who has no interest in bottom surgery, she likes her body (including her penis) and while she has had breast augmentation and FFS, that is as far she wants to take it.

Interestingly enough I thought that my wife having a penis would be sexual Valhalla, but it turns out that living with her day and day out, seeing her naked, over time, it is just her and not like a trans porn actress showing her junk, it is just different somehow.

I am happy to hear you have found each other and seem in a great place.

The way I wrote my message makes it sound like the dick is the only thing I'm interested in. That's not really what a meant I was just trying to describe my "type" of girl, and it is only a girl, I don't want to form a relationship with anyone other than a woman.

What comes first and foremost for me is that connection not from a physical perspective but and emotional one, I want to actually like the person I am in a relationship with (which is not the case right now for me), I want to enjoy spending time with them, I want us to share interests and laugh together and make the most of life.

You can't however just dismiss the physical side of things, if you are not sexually attracted to your partner there will always be problems down the line. That's where I was comin from here. I would love to form a relationship with someone that embodies all those attributes I mentioned above but is also someone that turns me on and I of course turn her on. My "type" is most certainly pre-op transwoman.

For the last few months I have been checking out dating sites, facebook groups other online resources (because frankly where I live, the trans community is non existent), for potential partners. But it is a exercise in frustration. I know how difficult it is for a trans woman to find a genuine guy who wants to for a relationship with her rather than just fulfill some kind of sexual fantasy, I really feel for trans women in this regard.

However I have learned that it is also hard for men who have those intentions to find that suitable partner too, most profiles out there are fakes with pictures of famous trans porn stars, you'll get a lot of girls you maybe don't recognise who'll strike up a conversation with you, send you a unsolicited risky picture, then two messages later ask how you want to send her money, paypal or apple pay. Finding a genuine trans woman who is looking for a relationship is next to impossible it appears.

So stories like yours are inspiring where you've both found what you are looking for, thanks for sharing

[enam]

I​'d marry one.