What's the big deal with a tgirl's boy name?

[flabbybody]

don't laugh at this but I never learn. just when I'm getting friendly with a girl and something might develop I ask her what her boy name was. I can't help myself even though I know it's a total mood killer.

why the f are girls so hung up with this? It's not like I'll ever use it or God forbid repeat it to any other person. I just need to know she trusts me enough to reveal something so intimate about her past.

[tsntx]

don't laugh at this but I never learn. just when I'm getting friendly with a girl and something might develop I ask her what her boy name was. I can't help myself even though I know it's a total mood killer.

why the f are girls so hung up with this? It's not like I'll ever use it or God forbid repeat it to any other person. I just need to know she trusts me enough to reveal something so intimate about her past.

more importantly


why the f are GUYS so hung up on this??

i mean yall say yall are straight
that were all woman to you
that you cant see us any other way then woman

etc etc


etc


soooooo why the "f" do you wanna try to see as anything but what we are today?

i dotn like to generally talk to a guy about my past... im ok w/ my past but that doesnt mean i want him to be worried about it

i just say... well lucky for you i did a documentary on my life... so go watch it

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

It's pretty simple, Girls want nothing to do with their OLD self. So asking one what her old boy name was, is like telling a girl she isn't as convincing as a woman as she think she is. Add the fact that, anyone who knew a girls boy name will use that to their advantage out of spite. Besides, if you already got the lastname then their first name..how easy is it to research them? Their past etc. A lot of the girls are uncomfortable with that..

~Kisses.

HTG

[Norma]

It's pretty simple, Girls want nothing to do with their OLD self. So asking one what her old boy name was, is like telling a girl she isn't as convincing as a woman as she think she is. Add the fact that, anyone who knew a girls boy name will use that to their advantage out of spite. Besides, if you already got the lastname then their first name..how easy is it to research them? Their past etc. A lot of the girls are uncomfortable with that..

~Kisses.

HTG

I agree with Hara.

Just want to add one point. If the guy and girl are starting a LTR or good friendship, I think it is sort of important for a guy to know the girl's given birth name, in case, which can happen, they are stopped by a police officer who is not in a good mood. If the cop asks the guy what he's doing with the girl, and he answers that she's a gf or friend, and he can't back it up by knowing her given name, which is probably on her ID, then the cop might get kinda rowdy. Otherwise, some biased cops might think or assume that all girls are working girls, or actually know that they ARE escorts, they wont believe the guy. The cop might believe, if their stories don't add up, that they are trying to cover up an escort encounter.

But I don't blame girls for not revealing their given name, particularly to clients and non-friends.

[ed_jaxon]

I will wade into this sure fired shit storm.

Guys are curious about their girls past... always. We hate for a girl to have secrets from us because many of us are insecure.

Eventually we learn that we need to be cool don't ask too many questions and at least act like we have some sense, it works much better for us that way.

Flabby knows that. He has been around the block enough times

[Alyssa87]

i tell the boys i'll tell em what my name was- when we're married.

[RubyTS]

don't laugh at this but I never learn. just when I'm getting friendly with a girl and something might develop I ask her what her boy name was. I can't help myself even though I know it's a total mood killer.

why the f are girls so hung up with this? It's not like I'll ever use it or God forbid repeat it to any other person. I just need to know she trusts me enough to reveal something so intimate about her past.

instead of just giving u the ammunition to load the gun, she might as well just shoot herself

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

It's pretty simple, Girls want nothing to do with their OLD self. So asking one what her old boy name was, is like telling a girl she isn't as convincing as a woman as she think she is. Add the fact that, anyone who knew a girls boy name will use that to their advantage out of spite. Besides, if you already got the lastname then their first name..how easy is it to research them? Their past etc. A lot of the girls are uncomfortable with that..

~Kisses.

HTG

I agree with Hara.

Just want to add one point. If the guy and girl are starting a LTR or good friendship, I think it is sort of important for a guy to know the girl's given birth name, in case, which can happen, they are stopped by a police officer who is not in a good mood. If the cop asks the guy what he's doing with the girl, and he answers that she's a gf or friend, and he can't back it up by knowing her given name, which is probably on her ID, then the cop might get kinda rowdy. Otherwise, some biased cops might think or assume that all girls are working girls, or actually know that they ARE escorts, they wont believe the guy. The cop might believe, if their stories don't add up, that they are trying to cover up an escort encounter.

But I don't blame girls for not revealing their given name, particularly to clients and non-friends.

I'd have to agree, IF it's something like an LTR type of relationship any girl should disclose this information (like wat you've said, this may play a critical part in such scenario you've described above). Otherwise, don't ask!! lol

~Kisses.

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[tsntx]

It's pretty simple, Girls want nothing to do with their OLD self. So asking one what her old boy name was, is like telling a girl she isn't as convincing as a woman as she think she is. Add the fact that, anyone who knew a girls boy name will use that to their advantage out of spite. Besides, if you already got the lastname then their first name..how easy is it to research them? Their past etc. A lot of the girls are uncomfortable with that..

~Kisses.

HTG

I agree with Hara.

Just want to add one point. If the guy and girl are starting a LTR or good friendship, I think it is sort of important for a guy to know the girl's given birth name, in case, which can happen, they are stopped by a police officer who is not in a good mood. If the cop asks the guy what he's doing with the girl, and he answers that she's a gf or friend, and he can't back it up by knowing her given name, which is probably on her ID, then the cop might get kinda rowdy. Otherwise, some biased cops might think or assume that all girls are working girls, or actually know that they ARE escorts, they wont believe the guy. The cop might believe, if their stories don't add up, that they are trying to cover up an escort encounter.

But I don't blame girls for not revealing their given name, particularly to clients and non-friends.

uh no idiot

girls have their names changed.... most do

[Norma]

It's pretty simple, Girls want nothing to do with their OLD self. So asking one what her old boy name was, is like telling a girl she isn't as convincing as a woman as she think she is. Add the fact that, anyone who knew a girls boy name will use that to their advantage out of spite. Besides, if you already got the lastname then their first name..how easy is it to research them? Their past etc. A lot of the girls are uncomfortable with that..

~Kisses.

HTG

I agree with Hara.

Just want to add one point. If the guy and girl are starting a LTR or good friendship, I think it is sort of important for a guy to know the girl's given birth name, in case, which can happen, they are stopped by a police officer who is not in a good mood. If the cop asks the guy what he's doing with the girl, and he answers that she's a gf or friend, and he can't back it up by knowing her given name, which is probably on her ID, then the cop might get kinda rowdy. Otherwise, some biased cops might think or assume that all girls are working girls, or actually know that they ARE escorts, they wont believe the guy. The cop might believe, if their stories don't add up, that they are trying to cover up an escort encounter.

But I don't blame girls for not revealing their given name, particularly to clients and non-friends.

uh no idiot

girls have their names changed.... most do

No , Jen, most don't.