Couple of comments...

The OP didn't specifically mention dating, but did seem to be asking if the girls would like it, as he would be dressing up for them (as opposed to for just dressing up with them).

The thread mentioned in the third post is a bit different, as it got sidelined into the difference between transformation, dress up, and the control of the process. This one doesn't seem to indicate any power play issues.

Really hate the 'real transsexual' as a term. It's too limiting, and implies there is only one acceptable stereotype. Same as there aren't 'real men' or 'real women'. Wasn't so long ago we looked at tomboys as freaks because 'real women' didn't work on machines, dress in pants or want to play ball.

Sean