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08-22-2005 #1
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Y'all have me scared with all this HIV talk, because
I recently had a "first-time" experience with Babydoll in NYC, who played it very safe, but you never know...
The rates of infection around here are terrifying. I am so attracted to beautiful tgirls and would like to seriously date one, but the risks seem too too extreme. I've seen too many friends die of AIDS to feel carefree about going with a girl who is likely to have slept with more than a few gay men.
And I've also witnessed the rage and spitefulness of infected people who have no problem sharing their disease with others.
Man, I'm shook. I know I'm the guy who complained about tgirls racially profiling us black men a few weeks back, but I can hardly blame them if their primary concern is AIDS. A high-risk group is a high-risk group.
I guess its just dinner, a movie and a kiss on the forehead from now on.
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08-22-2005 #2
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Don't over react
You shouldn't stop enjoying life because of the fear of AIDS. All we can do is be selective about who we sleep with and wrap it up when we finally do. It's really not that hard. Yes, we are in a high risk group but it's important to still have fun and make connections with people.
So if you want just dinner and movie that is fine, but if you want more just be careful. That's it.
Now let's hear about how Babydoll works that huge peice of meat.
Any details?
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08-22-2005 #3
Anyone who has sex is at risk-
If you dont want to be at risk for any STD's then abstain.
Then again if you don't want to be in a car crash then dont tide in a car.
If you dont want to be in a plane crach then dont ride a plane.
If you don't want to get food poisining then don't get food.
Life is about calculated risks and taking precautions. Anything can happen at any time.
Be educated, not ignorant, and not live in fear.
Other wise develop agoraphobia and never leave your house-
but wait, most household accidents do happen in the bathroom
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08-22-2005 #4
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Originally Posted by AllanahStarrNYC
If you had a friend that was about to take a ride in a car with someone under the influence of alcohol and drugs, and you knew that the driver had taken drink and drugs, would you tell your friend or would you let your friend risk his/her life by getting in the car?
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08-22-2005 #5
that is a different scenario
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08-22-2005 #6
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Originally Posted by AllanahStarrNYC
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08-22-2005 #7
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08-22-2005 #8
sweetie
under your assumption
all escorts would be hiv positive- untrue
if you do not take responsibility for your own actions- then you are as much to blame
im sorry
but it's about time this culture gave up all this victim crap
"oh, i got fucked 20 times in the ass with out a condom, and now i am hiv positive, poor me"
hunny yes no one deserves hiv and i feel bad that peopke have to go throught that but if you dont have any common sense then you are an idiot.
you took the risk and if u got the consequence wll then u have to deal with it and get on with it.
it's like plastic surgery-
realisitically, i can die anytime i go under aneasthesia
i know that-
but its a risk i take- A CALCULATED RISKS
the same everyone should do with sex
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08-23-2005 #9
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Originally Posted by AllanahStarrNYC
However, knowing that someone who is HIV+ and escorts and not doing anything about it is a disgrace. Allanah I admire you a lot however I disagree with you on this. I am disappointed in you.
It's the very same as my drunk driving analogy (see above).
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08-23-2005 #10
Re: Y'all have me scared with all this HIV talk, because
Originally Posted by alfredog