What's with TGs & race?

[lisaparadise]

I was out at some clubs & wanted to finish off the night with some action.
So i call a TG girl up since she was pretty hot from her ad & asked to hook up. She asked me what race I was, I said black....click. That's all i heard she hung up. So i figured whatever ...that girl didn't want to make money so I tried one more.

I drove over to her complex and gave her fee & she started to give me a bj. After about 15 min she took off my condom and i grabbed one of my condoms and started to put it on. She asked what was I doing...that she couldn't fuck tonight. i was like why didn't you say something before she apologized & said it was late and that she ate a lot & it might be messy.

I said cool & we agreed to show that she was sorry she refunded half of her fee since she did give me a bj for 15 min. She said she should have known when she saw that I was black that I wanted to fuck. She said that black guys want to fuck & white guys want to be fucked. I said are you serious its like that. She said yup.

So I guess just out of weird curiousity I ask this question out to the other girls who are escorting....is that true? I'm not saying that every white guy wants to be a bottom but out of guys that you've had on dates was the trend that white guys bottom more, lol.

Black guys have and always will be at the top of my list. Before escorting I only dated black men. Now it's all about green.

hmmmm thats crazzzy in your country we got white black tanned and brown guys but i aint never seen a green guy? kinda glad i live in canada damn it lol,you must live near them damn crop circles right? hahahaha

[KiraHarden]

I'm sure there out there, but I'm not meeting them.


I just got an email from some clown saying I'm. Hot t girl I should want to top men

WTF that's the stupidest thing I have heard. Take a guess what race he is.

[lisaparadise]

I'm sure there out there, but I'm not meeting them.


I just got an email from some clown saying I'm. Hot t girl I should want to top men

WTF that's the stupidest thing I have heard. Take a guess what race he is.

roflmfao not touchin that one chicky lol

[KiraHarden]

I was out at some clubs & wanted to finish off the night with some action.
So i call a TG girl up since she was pretty hot from her ad & asked to hook up. She asked me what race I was, I said black....click. That's all i heard she hung up. So i figured whatever ...that girl didn't want to make money so I tried one more.

I drove over to her complex and gave her fee & she started to give me a bj. After about 15 min she took off my condom and i grabbed one of my condoms and started to put it on. She asked what was I doing...that she couldn't fuck tonight. i was like why didn't you say something before she apologized & said it was late and that she ate a lot & it might be messy.

I said cool & we agreed to show that she was sorry she refunded half of her fee since she did give me a bj for 15 min. She said she should have known when she saw that I was black that I wanted to fuck. She said that black guys want to fuck & white guys want to be fucked. I said are you serious its like that. She said yup.

So I guess just out of weird curiousity I ask this question out to the other girls who are escorting....is that true? I'm not saying that every white guy wants to be a bottom but out of guys that you've had on dates was the trend that white guys bottom more, lol.

dude thats so true i have a huge black following and everyone is a top and for my white guys about 7 outta 10 want me to top never really thought about it till now

Well, I'm glad its not just my imagination.

[melissacarter]

]hmmmm thats crazzzy in your country we got white black tanned and brown guys but i aint never seen a green guy?

Remember, I live in Jersey

[menacingmethods86]

But as a black male i don't really appreciate white ts's who only view me as this big black dick mandingo fetish either, which alot seem to be blatantly expressing.

[blckhaze]

As a black guy, I can say, it a stereotype thats tends to be true.

Its a cultural thing, but not a question of masculinity. Most of my mates are dominant alpha males who dont like being #2 in ANYTHING.
Myself, I prefer a bottom girl. Ive dated both vers girl and full bottoms, and the chmistry was better with full bottoms. Maybe I was getting vers girls who liked topping more than bottoming, i dont know, but I just like being in control (even if im handcuffed to the bed posts, im in control. Dont say a word HARA!!!).
truthfully, black guys fantasize about being in more power than they are, where white guys fantasiz about losing any and all control.

[ARMANIXXX]

I consider my bf totally straight hetero man who's only interest is women. He has never touched my cock in the two years we're together. I would not be with him, nor he with me, if he did not view me entirely as a woman. It's not that he's acting straight, he is straight.

With due respect and all,

I think you might both be prudes.....totally your right, but it is what it is.

I've been with more than enough TS's to know that many, and probably most, TS's enjoy their cocks and want them played with, even if just oral. I've only ever once been with 1 TS girl that didn't want me to put my mouth on it.

It doesn't make sense to be a pre op TS, have your balls and cock and for both of you to pretend it's just not there when it clearly is and you wake up more often than not with an erection.
Totally your right though.


*shrug*

[BrendaQG]

I was out at some clubs & wanted to finish off the night with some action.
So i call a TG girl up since she was pretty hot from her ad & asked to hook up. She asked me what race I was, I said black....click. That's all i heard she hung up. So i figured whatever ...that girl didn't want to make money so I tried one more.

I drove over to her complex and gave her fee & she started to give me a bj. After about 15 min she took off my condom and i grabbed one of my condoms and started to put it on. She asked what was I doing...that she couldn't fuck tonight. i was like why didn't you say something before she apologized & said it was late and that she ate a lot & it might be messy.

I said cool & we agreed to show that she was sorry she refunded half of her fee since she did give me a bj for 15 min. She said she should have known when she saw that I was black that I wanted to fuck. She said that black guys want to fuck & white guys want to be fucked. I said are you serious its like that. She said yup.

So I guess just out of weird curiousity I ask this question out to the other girls who are escorting....is that true? I'm not saying that every white guy wants to be a bottom but out of guys that you've had on dates was the trend that white guys bottom more, lol.

In my experience this is true. Black men prefere top and generally will never even want to touch mine. I think it is cultural like Haze said. Basically among black people we see sex, sexuality and gender a certain way. We see a transsexual as while not being a woman being so feminine that for a man to top one is totally acceptable. It does not take away from his being straight and masculine. I don't think the idea that a transsexual would ever want to be on top enters their minds. Just my own observation on that.

For white men it's a bit different. It's like they want to suck dick yet but not put themselves in a subservient position to another man. A transsexual who looks feminine enough can do that for them.

Conversely, and I will speak for myself. I don't see being topped or sucking cock as being subservient. Those things are what I want to do. I find sex in that role to be an empowering experience, while getting sucked is usually not as invigorating.

Just MHO.

[tsmandy]

As a black guy, I can say, it a stereotype thats tends to be true.

Its a cultural thing, but not a question of masculinity. Most of my mates are dominant alpha males who dont like being #2 in ANYTHING.
Myself, I prefer a bottom girl. Ive dated both vers girl and full bottoms, and the chmistry was better with full bottoms. Maybe I was getting vers girls who liked topping more than bottoming, i dont know, but I just like being in control (even if im handcuffed to the bed posts, im in control. Dont say a word HARA!!!).
truthfully, black guys fantasize about being in more power than they are, where white guys fantasiz about losing any and all control.

I dunno Haze, I think guys say one thing to their buddies, and then when it comes down to the privacy between a provider and her client it might be a different story.

Like I said, not one of my clients who are black, has ever been a strict top, not one. So either I attract bottoms (which I don't, most of my guys lean the other way or switch) or black sexuality happens to be a bit more diverse than people are claiming.

Then there's the BDSM world, trust me, plenty of black men that like to get dominated. It's often times the source of extreme discomfort for white people, when they are in a play space with a submissive black man who is getting the shit beat out of him, fucks with white guilt on a whole different level.

Not that I'm an expert on black men, or black culture, certainly have less to talk about than most people do. Just saying my experience points to a broader sexuality than folks are willing to recognize.