Would you be seen in Public with a TS?

[amberskyi]

My ex did, in fact. Needless to say, he wanted to try it again with her, so she left me and went back to him. Didn't work out the second time either. I could accept her; he couldn't; she made her choice.

I know I'M having fun with my friends...whether they're TS or not; whether we're in public or not...

a part of her probably craved that validation and acceptance that he didnt give her.there are times when my ex calls me to see how im doing and i wonder if maybe he could grow to be more accepting of me and his sexuality.however i realize that if it was going to happen than it would of happen with me someone he loved.he rather hurt me and himself than face whatever issues he has.
this was years ago and while it still does hurt sometimes i have meet a few guys (one who became a boyfriend) who had no issues being with me in public or around friends/family.i only deal with these kind of guys now and ignore the rest lol

[sophiebendable]

no he is not in place worse...he is just weak.

thats all there is to it...he is weak.

he rather choses the easy way out...
he is not in a bad place...

he is a sissy.

Not at all to justify the behavior you're referring to, but don't you see the irony in a transsexual insulting men by calling them sissies?

[amberskyi]

Not at all to justify the behavior you're referring to, but don't you see the irony in a transsexual insulting men by calling them sissies?

Um not really.i think they meant it to convey that he was a coward and soft.
I'm a ts but I've never been a coward or soft.life doesn't allow me to be lol

[sophiebendable]

Um not really.i think they meant it to convey that he was a coward and soft.
I'm a ts but I've never been a coward or soft.life doesn't allow me to be lol

Exactly. I don't think there's a connection between being a sissy (feminine man, which I sort of used to be and I'm sure some ignorant people still think of me that way) and being a coward, but it's reinforced by using language like that. Anyway, I don't want to derail this thread.

[nysprod]

I wouldn't be seen in public with most of the fan boys that wouldn't be seen with a transsexual lol just saying

Like girls who hang out with old guys at clubs cause they have money or fat boys cause they have money..

Umm no thanks..people are either thinking "gold digger" or "prostitute"

I'm an older guy, nice looking, in shape sophisticated type, get called "sir" a lot (not sure I really like it but wth)...I don't hang out with a lot of girls at clubs.

I have one TS GF, she's way younger than me. She's the same type of girl I've been attracted to my whole life.

I take her out all over the city and we always have a good time...we get looks sometimes but I really don't care, I'm doing what I want...so if people think gold digger or prostitute it's like whatever, there's no such thing as free women anyway...men are gonna pay one way or the other...ask any guy who's been married...or divorced...lol.

[keed444]

yes l would and l have

[robertlouis]

Most of the TS girls I know have never escorted or done porn. They're friends to whom life has given more kicks than most folks experience and have come through, though not without their fair share of physical and psychological bruising. Friendship counts for more than what the ignorant might think. These girls deserve our love, respect and applause. I revel in their company - they are genuinely inspirational.

Christ, it shouldn't be that difficult. If friends of yours had a child with serious disabilities, mental or physical, would you avoid that family or that child? If you would, then shame on you. It's not that different if you feel the same way about a ts girl. Fuck the world and be true to yourself.

[Willie Escalade]

a part of her probably craved that validation and acceptance that he didnt give her.

I cared for her no matter what. I wasn't validation then because I'm friends with lots in the community?

[amberskyi]

I cared for her no matter what. I wasn't validation then because I'm friends with lots in the community?

Your not the guy who wounded her and I'm betting she hadn't let go of that pain while she was with you

[Willie Escalade]

Your not the guy who wounded her and I'm betting she hadn't let go of that pain while she was with you

True that...but then she went BACK to him after the fact...and it didn't work out AGAIN. Sucks for her...

Back on topic, I really shouldn't have to answer. Those that know me KNOW me.